why should i even mess with girls?

[vampirecult]

There so fucking hard to understand.

I have never been into talking to many girls and approching them. I don't know if it's shyness or being scared of girls or both? And i hate. It's like way do i even try though if i'm gonna get turned down and laughed at? Fucking love.

When i was in high school. I didn't have girls hanging on me and talking to me that much. I did alittle bit but not that much that most of the popular guys did. I wasn't that popular so i hung out with most of my guy friends. I have never been the most talktive conversion with piece when it comes to girls at least. I look at them and walk on past them. I just don't talk at all. I keep to myself when it comes to girls and getting to know them.

So why should i even care anymore?

Since i'm proble gonna die single anyways.

 

[Wesker28]

Hey its ok, im just the same, I always have been to be honest. Your not alone mate, But let me tell you something, all these so called guys brimming with confidence around girls, are usually the same guy that dumps the girl a day after he's slept with them. My uncle for example lol, He's hopeless at sticking with 1 girl. There is this girl in my hairdressors that I quite like, but because of reasons I am not planning on saying anything. Firstly she's a hairdressor and the last time I asked a hairdressor out recently, was disastrous and secondly I am still in love with my ex gf, I have posted some experiences in this forum somwhere btw, She still loves me as well . Anyway my point is dont let it get you down, i'm the same when it comes to talking to girls.

 

[vampirecult]

Yeah but at least you've alot of girlfriends and girls that were your friends Wesker. I haven't. I'm what you would call the nice guy the guy that will talk to you like a friend insted of something more then that. The type of guy that won't do anything with you (flirt etc....) for fear of being slapped and put down by the other girl.

I have always been the nice guy buddy buddy friend type.



Funny screen name btw it sounds like a cat! Wesker 😛

 

[Drago69]

I just don't talk to anyone. All my talking gets done online.

 

[Krokus]

I find that relationships aren't usually worth it. Sex is all I want and need. Quick fixes are key. At least, for me. It just depends on what you want. Just find like minded people.

 

[vampirecult]

I just don't talk to anyone. All my talking gets done online.

Are you really serious?

 

[Drago69]

Are you really serious?

Well... I talk to my mom every now and then... but that usually is just a quick thing that doesn't really matter.

If you do all your talking online Drago69 then you have a far bigger problem than the dude posting about his luck with women! The net is the biggest bunch of fakes in creation!! I mean there are undercover cops in chatrooms and message boards who try to ensare you so they can make an arrest. Doesnt that tell you something???????

Well, I don't talk on chats, I just talk to one or two people that I know are not faking their identity. =)

 

[MrMacphisto]

Dying single isn't such a bad thing. Dying a virgin... well that's just sad.

Women can be confusing, but the key to interacting with them is knowing how to read them. Vampirecult, there's a possibility that some of the women you happen to know might be interested in you, but you have to read between the lines. Do any women seem to go out of their way to talk with you? Do any of them seem exceptionally friendly? If you think a certain woman is giving you hints, try finding a casual way of asking her out. I know all this sounds like common sense, but you'd be surprised at how easy it is to overlook the signals women give. Just make sure you aren't making more out of them than is really there....

 

[Newcastle Uni]

Hey, you know.

I'm just the same as some of you. I'm not exactly a success when it comes to women. There are girls I speak to, sure, but its hardly friendship. I think I'm more tolerated by them than anything else! I'm not too hot on male friendships either. I've known loads of people (well you do when you're my age) but I don't think I could say that I have a single TRUE friend, somebody who would do anything for me, who would drop everything in an instant to be by my side.

Sometimes I want a girl and sometimes I don't. To be honest they are just too bloody hard to understand. Don't feel too hard man. Women will screw you up and fuck with your mind. Sometimes you might even feel really low, but just hang on in there! Sometime will turn up for you. (Now I know that doesn't sound like the best advice, but I'm rather hoping its true. Now that I finish Uni this year I'm hoping to try and concentrate on getting some sort of relationship that i've never bothered with before. And who knows, maybe i'll get my first girlfriend!! Whooo hoooo!)

I'm too honest and shy around women. But I don't especially have the greatest sex drive in the world. I could tickle girls all day and yank myself off like a captive monkey (too much detail!) but I don't want sex all that much. So sometimes I wonder if i really ever want a girlfriend at all. When i'm at home revising and see very few people i'm happy. I only start to want a girl when i am socialising and i start to see boys and girls kissig, dancing, holding hands etc.)

I need a shrink

Tally Ho!

 

[unclebill]

Get a puppy.

 

[Newcastle Uni]

Get a puppy.

But that's not legal where I live..........ohhhhhhhhhh! I see your point. Companionship! Gotcha!

 

[venray]

there are undercover cops in chatrooms and message boards who try to ensare you so they can make an arrest. Doesnt that tell you something???????

Only if you are guilty of something that you need be "ensnared" for.(funny how most your posts all center around the law, LE...got something you arent telling us?)

I have found that Most people here in this venue are real and willing to offer friendship to each other if you are willing to accept it. I have met somewhere around a hundred or so members of this forum in real life. It certainly wasnt for sex and most often it wasnt for tickle play, but just to meet and to have someone to talk with that will accept you for who you are....

As for women, VC, I never dated in High school or through most of college. I was much like you. You are young and have a lot of time to meet someone you can relate to. Dont try to hurry it along.....and never give up on it....When you find the right one it will be worth it... 🙂


Ray

 

[vampirecult]

Thanks everybody for ALL your words of wisdom and helpful advice and such kind words of blessings and friendlyness. It is much much appericated and thought after.

I thought you had a plan for my life God? well what is it? what's your purpose for me being on this earth? huh? what is it? *looks up at the sky at the big man up in the clouds*

🙁

 

[Wesker28]

Yeah but at least you've alot of girlfriends and girls that were your friends Wesker. I haven't. I'm what you would call the nice guy the guy that will talk to you like a friend insted of something more then that. The type of guy that won't do anything with you (flirt etc....) for fear of being slapped and put down by the other girl.

I have always been the nice guy buddy buddy friend type.



Funny screen name btw it sounds like a cat! Wesker 😛

As a matter of a fact the only female friend I have is my ex gf and no I never had ne other female friends. I'm trying to get back with my ex actually but im not sure how well it's going tbh. Besides everything else that I love about her I know this isnt the tickling thread but, another of the reasons is how ticklish she is sigh. For those that have read them I have posted a few true experiences, and get this she looks very much like britney spears 😀 but the difference is she has nice feet lol. Btw my real name is Dan feel free to call me that. Wesker is the name of a resident evil character. I have just been using that username for ages.

 

[vampirecult]

As a matter of a fact the only female friend I have is my ex gf and no I never had ne other female friends. I'm trying to get back with my ex actually but im not sure how well it's going tbh. Besides everything else that I love about her I know this isnt the tickling thread but, another of the reasons is how ticklish she is sigh. For those that have read them I have posted a few true experiences, and get this she looks very much like britney spears 😀 but the difference is she has nice feet lol. Btw my real name is Dan feel free to call me that. Wesker is the name of a resident evil character. I have just been using that username for ages.

K Dan. Resident Evil is a sweeet game. i played the ones on Playstation 1 (but now i have a playstation 2 and xbox) so i haven't gotten around to playing the ones for playstation 2. and the new for Gamecube i want to play! but i have no gamecube.

Thanks for all your advice. i can talk with girls online just fine make them laugh etc..... but well i guess that does not mean to much. 😛

 

[Wesker28]

Oh dear not good. Well my ex gf miss Britney lookalike, I met her on msn. But then we met up in person and it was love at first sight. .

 

[zyclos_b]

"So why should i even care anymore?

Since i'm proble gonna die single anyways."


With that kind of attitude, you're on the fast track to make it that way.

 

[Newcastle Uni]

Hey vampire!

If i'm ever in the US over in the next couple of months (i plan to travel everywhere), what would you say to me and you meeting up and we can go to a really big club (playing really shit music of the type you and me prefer - hell, i like metal, grunge and really loud styles of music as well you know ) and we'll get really drunk and find ourselves a couple of ladies. We'll go back to their place where they will announce that they are twin sisters and have something to confide in us - they don't know why but they're really into tickling and wonder if we could tie them up and tickle them, if we don't mind.
Being the perfect gents that we are, we will of course have to oblige and endure the boredom (!) that comes with tickling the feet of two of the most beautiful and ticklish girls in the US

 

[venray]

Actually yes I do have something to confess...my brother in law is a police officer. Seriously. I tried to hide it but these things have a way of leaking out. Im so ashamed. Hey live your whole life on the net and this forum as I see some people do for all I care, I choose not to thats all.

I have family in law enforcement as well ....lol only they arent ashamed of it..

Choosing not to live one's life here is fine......No one I have met from here lives here lol

You can leave any time you like and that is fine as well.......

 

[venray]

Im not ashamed of my brother in law!! I was joking!! Jeez!!! Can you take a joke or did all that NESTING with your pals get to ya? 🙄 And dont worry about me on these "pat on the back" forums. Im here for stories and news about ticklish celebs, not to make enemies or penpals. So take a chillpill and relax man! 😉

Even in this identity your personality shines through......tooo easy to get to ya....sorry...... 😀

 

[Iggy pop]

I have a question, if you don't want to "mess with girls anymore" then who do you want to mess with?

 

[AquaFeline]

From a girl...

Sometimes girls don't see you as "just a friend" because you're a nice guy. If you never express interest you may not get any, or you could just not be noticing signals (touching you, touching herself in some way, etc.) or there could be something else about you that turns chicks off -- no job, bad breath, lack of common ground, whatever.

FYI a good sense of humor is what chicks find most attractive!

 

[Brookie]

Sounds like you need a bit of practice approaching and talking to girls. Here are some suggestions that I hope will help you talk to them and gain some confidence.

Talk to any woman, not just the ones you're interested in dating, I mean any woman. The girl that serves you in the restaurant, store or pharmacy etc.
Get women, vs men, to cut your hair and talk with them. Talk to the women at work or school what ever. Just say hello or make some comment like "you look like you're having very busy today" smile a bit more. Show that you're a little bit interested in them and they'll be happy to talk to you for a few minutes

For women that you see more often be a little more friendly with them so you can chat with them more often and develop a friendship relationship. When I say friendly ask how they feel, what they did on the weekend, how are you type of questions....try not to be too serious ie talk only about work or school only. Joke around and tease them. Smile and laugh. Women all like guys who can make them laugh....because laughing = fun make me laugh > good looking guy for most women.

You get big points if you notice a change like their hair style or colour or new shoes or clothes....and make a nice comment about it.......most men don't notice such things.......women notice the few men that do.


Next, try to start a chat with some lady, any age, in the elevator, store or somewhere in public.....find something to comment on .......see what their holding.......wearing...the weather....my fav tell them what pretty colour they are showing on their toe nails ...... (She probably spent half an hour painting them and her hubby/BF could care less.....and you notice that effort....huge points for you.....you'll get a big smile more often then not). Compliments work, the best compliments are ones that women can control...like their clothes, jewellry, shoes, toe nail polish, books they read, stuff they buy etc. vs their looks which they can't control.


There is no risk to trying to talk. Have fun when your talking to them....some may not be in the mood, fine talk to another instead.....you can't loose , you're not trying to ask them out you're just having short converstation...sometimes just a few seconds.

Practice this for a month or two. Remember, practice on all women, not just the pretty ones.


After that you should be ok trying to approach and talk to almost any woman.

Next try to talk to one you want to ask out...... The easiest ones are ones you see a lot or at parties and social activities....the harder ones are at bars because its competititve and because when you talk to women at bars ...they know what your up to and can be defensive whereas the others don't suspect you'll try to ask them out and aren't nearly as defensive.

I want a report at the end of two months....on your practice efforts....go talk to them soldier. 🙂

Good luck

 

[Newcastle Uni]

I noticed that this girl had had her hair cut when nobody else did. She was really impressed so i decided to impress her more by noticing her new shoes and jacket. She agreed that they were new but thought i was paying too much attention and she just got freaked! I'm lost! Totally lost!

 

[ticklkitten]

Hey babe, you have tons of time.... use it for what it's worth and find the one who truly compliments you.