Why?

[ticklekid1]

Why is tickling of minors so unwanted?
I mean, not to challenge the system or anything like that, but why is it that Minors are so despised, or looked down upon in tickling, I mean, is it that most ticklers fear that the child will become a sex object or something of that sort? Have the tickling media producers taken this too far? Have they filled the void of tickling with so much nudity, that if one believes that it is pornographic or rape? I have known a man who says that if you tickle a child, it is rape. I called him an extremist. He gave me an F for the semester. Have we really filled the void? Have we really masked the sunny face of tixckling with such weird, sexual things that have given our beloved "fetish" to an extent, a darkened, cronish look? And if not, at what age should a minor be tickled? Also, there is no subject of nudity in this post.

 

[Celtic_Emperor]

I think you've answered your own questions with your own comments.

 

[quesecotil1]

If you say you have a tickling fetish and also want to tickle children I think you best re-think the fetish part of the label.

This is what a fetish is for those of you unsure.

I'd do it to be playful, though I'd never tickle a child the same way I would tickle a partner or willing 'lee.

 

[Yet_One_More_Idiot]

If you say you have a tickling fetish and also want to tickle children I think you best re-think the fetish part of the label.

This is what a fetish is for those of you unsure.

I'd do it to be playful, though I'd never tickle a child the same way I would tickle a partner or willing 'lee.

I think that tickling children and having a tickle fetish can be possible - it's all about knowing where to draw the line. Some people either have:
a) A very blurry line,
b) A line in the wrong place, or
c) No line at all.

Just 'cos you have a tickling fetish doesn't mean that tickling a minor HAS to be a sexual act; in a fetish, the object of the fetish and sex do have a connection, sure, but they're not one and the same thing by a long shot.
The tickling CAN lead to sexual arousal; it doesn't necessarily HAVE to though...

Just my £0.02

(Of course, if anyone on this forum actually DOES get excited from the tickling of children, they'd hardly be likely to say anything to the rest of us in the forum, would they?)

 

[ElfTickler]

Okay...

By tickling minors, are you talking about tickling "children" as in kids, like preteen 12 year olds? Or are you talking about tickling teenagers, like 15-17 year olds who DO have an established sex drive and have similar desires and so forth?

They say that the late teens are the time for most people's exploration... I personally do not find tickling teens to be perverted in any way. That is, considering the age gap. If a 19 year old is tickling a 16 year old, I don't find it perverted. If a 35 year old is tickling a 15 year old, then there may be something wrong.

I suppose you just have to ask yourself...is this person young enough to be your child?

But to answer your question...I don't know. I guess everyone has become obessed with the law, and what it says about protecting minors from pornographic content, but meh. Fear is what drives everyone to shun minors from our fetish.

 

[morgandee]

exploitable! oh noes

you know what, i'm interested, why exactly do you want to do such nonsense garbage in the first place ribber

spider sense is tingling of trollery

it isn't any kind of media's fault, because if there was no demographic to listen to them, they would either try too hard to pick up what's out there despite the apathy, or they would just waste away

people have trouble accepting the fact that they're the reason reality tv exists, because they eat it up like a bunch of pigs and yet they want to blame mcdonalds for making them fat

fuck them in the goat ass, they should be blown up like a beached whale, irresponsible maggots

if we're raised to believe anything, and i don't even think that's true, it's that we're cultivated to think everything disagreeable to us is everybody else's fault except our own, and when we want to play the blame game, playing the blame game is such a fucking easy task because like, all we have do to is say "hey, fucker, it's YOUR fault my house is fucked, go fix it while i sit on my lawn and drink a martini!!!!"

it's not a matter of knowing that someone did not do something right but blaming and coming up with excuses for why something happens is all people do and that is why something will be done about it

or else i will destroy them with my iron fists

MY RAGE IS IN CAPS

the whole "i have a fetish that is why i'm obsessed" thing is really corny too it is like

"hey guy you like feet an awful lot there"
"oh because i have foot fetish plz dont make fun of me it is human nature"
"ok that's understandable lol" like there's no deeper meaning to it when we know for a fact there is but a stalemate clouts things wonderfully

fetish is the equivalent of excuse in my book because my philosophy says that nothing is constant throughout life and there is no genetic code that is like "this person likes feet" and for the fact that it's awfully trendy and silly it sure likes to make itself look extravagant with the label "fetish"

anyway back to the kid nonsense because i veered off topic

damn right i'm judgemental, and frankly, if god has problems with that, he can take it up with me 😱

instead of asking everybody else why it's frowned upon, how about instead asking yourself why you enjoy it in the first place

have a little introspectiveness in yourself, it gets tiring having to shoulder someone else's garbage that really isn't necessary weight in the first place

but i guess it doesn't matter because intrapersonal development sucks and is gay like ben folds obviously SYSTEM OF A DOWN ROCKS!1111111 white boy pain

 

[Triple T1]

Being that, as tickle fetishists,we get sexually aroused by tickling,children should not even come up on an adult discussion board regarding a sexual fetish.

I look at it this way.If I saw two college girls playing around and grabbing each other ,I would be turned on. If I saw two ten year olds doing the same thing,I would not even take notice.

It works the same way with me regarding tickling.

I notice that alot of people on this board try to bring up the subject of tickling and children,then try to pass it off innocently. I think they are getting off ,on it. I'd like to mention again that this is an adult discussion board regarding a sexual fetish.

 

[ticklekid1]

Well actually it is not that I enjoy it, it is the fact that I see such things frowned upon. I have absolutely no problem with it. And yes i am talking about people with established sex drives elf.

 

[ticklekid1]

But it is not always sexual. That is the problem.

 

[ticklekid1]

Never, mind. Just know, I do not get off on kids and if somebody else does, they need to stop. Because I know of a person who has this fetish, not necessarily sexual, but I had to call the cops on him cause he was doing stuff with kids.

That's right, I busted up a child porno ring.
Joy to the world! The lord is come!
Let earth recieve its
reparations.

 

[Ignatz]

My views are just about the same as Casey's...er, I mean oriy's.

 

[The_Quill]

Look I have said in another post and I'll say it here too and flame the hell out of me if you like but I find acts with minors absolutely nauseating tickling or otherwise..But why oh why must we have these continual I was 9 and tickled my aunt/babysitter or tickled by my neice type tales.And even the bloody cartoons featuring kids.It's just the same a minor is involved..Don't you think?..Maybe ALL such posts should be banned involving minors and not just the select ones that some people find morally "acceptable".Because frankly none are.

 

[AphroditeRabbit]

Why walk the fine line?

Are you asking in a philosophical way because you want it to seem like it's not a big deal because you already do it, or are you "just wondering" and don't do it at all but feel it should be okay...?

When it walks on sexual borders, it's testy territory. Why are you testing it?

I think if you replace the phrase of "tickling a child" into say, touching a little girls chest...what of it? "I don't understand why it's not okay to touch a little girls chest. I don't mean anything sexually by it, why does everyone make a big deal out of it?" (Yeah, yeah weird example, not the same thing. However both tickling and breasts are sexual stimulants to different people so that's why I used it.) Perhaps it isn't the same to you, but people aren't inside you or your mind to know for sure. And none of us really want to find out I don't think. We can't really make exceptions to the rules. I.e. judge every single case and say which ones are okay and which ones aren't. No one really knows true intent except for the person who has it. We don't know if you are or aren't so we say...just don't do it!
I'm thinking perhaps that's why. Social deterrence.

...Did I even make sense? I hope I got something in there that does.

 

[Hiryu]

And even the bloody cartoons featuring kids.It's just the same a minor is involved..Don't you think?..Maybe ALL such posts should be banned involving minors and not just the select ones that some people find morally "acceptable".Because frankly none are.

I agree. The title of this site clearly states that it is an ONLINE ADULT COMMUNITY. That's a nice, neat proffesional way of saying ONLINE EROTIC ENTHUSIASTS. I honestly think that some people take advantage of the more polite title by finding a way around the rules and then sugar coating the act with cutesy stuff so as to make it look innocent.

Now as far as tickling a child goes. If you're just picking and joking around that is one thing but, if you get carried away and do it constantly, you're definately taking it in the wrong direction.

I've had to explain to someone before that there is "sexy tickling" and then there is "picking tickling". I do have a tickling fetish (ie: I get off on tickling women and them tickling me or seeing/reading about a similar situation.) but, I also am a picker who likes to joke around, do silly voices, make funny remarks and sometime even tickle people because it seems funny to watch them jump around uncontrollably and knock stuff over. Have I tickled a kid before? Yes but, only in a joking/picking manner, nothing more and I rarely do that as I know that a child's reaction can often times be unpredictable. I certainly remember what it was like to be tickled by an adult when I was a child because there are a lot of pickers and jokers in my family but, I don't recall anyone getting carried away and making me feel anything sexual about it. However that doesn't mean that such people don't exist. It's really a very touchy (no pun intended) subject. These days we are a lot wiser to child molestation and you hear more and more about it all of the time so, it should come as no surprise why some of us are aprehensive and uncomfortable about the subject. A quick "gooching" or a poke in the belly should be okay if AND ONLY IF you're just picking but, any thing more is borderline creepy and questionable.

 

[brnbch]

We all know tickling can be as innocent or sexy as we want it to be. If I tickle my little 4 yr old niece (as I have before) is it pedophilia? If I tickle my sister (which I have pestered from birth) is it incest?...Or my mom tickling me as a kid...or my big brother holding us down and tickling all of us. Or my dad, that just last weekend picked up his grand daughter, held her upside down and tickled her belly. These are all adult tickling minor situations that are as innocent as they appear.
I just a few days, ago was poking my best friend in the ribs because I was teasing him about something ....Does that make me a homosexual? No I was just busting his chops about something and punctuating it with a few pokes to make him jump because I know he hates it. That's where the term "ribbing someone" came from I believe. Christ I saw a couple of goombas do it to each other in a mob poker game on the Sopranos last season.

Now if I'd ask my little neice or my buddy or my sister to be tied down and let me tickle them... then I'd have some issues LOL

 

[Hungarian21]

I dunno, I never tickled children yet.... Didn't feel like trying to. 🙂

 

[Hiryu]

I agree with brnbch but, Hung makes a good point too; sometimes it's best not to take chances.

 

[Yet_One_More_Idiot]

I'm with Brnbch, 100%.

 

[Richjohnson26]

Its better to be safe than sorry! And I'm presuming that a less than socially norm community like ours treading carefully is a safe option regardless of the science!

 

[maniactickler38]

I think tickling of any age is fine as long as common sense and the proper discretion is used.

 

[Yet_One_More_Idiot]

As has been said before, it's all a matter of INTENT (spelt with a capital INTENT 🙂 ).

An adult tickling a minor purely for fun is perfectly alright.
An adult tickling a minor and deriving sexual pleasure from it is...not good, to put it mildly. But on the bright side (I've been told there is always a bright side, somewhere), if the child is still enjoying the tickling on an innocent level, I say better that than the adult doing something REALLY perverted to them; as the old adage goes, "the lesser of two evils"...

 

[ticklekid1]

I am glad to have your opinions, and in the future I will watch what I type, and make it more understandable.

 

[ElfTickler]

Question is, is "tickling a child" referring to tickling a ten year old (which I would find rather disturbing) or like, two seventeen year olds wanting to tickle each other... or wanting to find information on their fetish.

Goodness knows all of us understand that minors probably do come here... considering that masquerading on the internet is not at all difficult. Chances are that they are NOT innocent ten year olds but teenagers, probably somewhere near legal 18, feeding up on sexual fantasies. To deny that they don't come here in those once-in-a-while situations would be just lying to ourselves.

So there is some truth in saying that tickling a "child" is okay. Like I said before, stick to your general age group. That's a pretty safe bet. If you're eighteen, and you're tickling a seventeen (legally a minor) and finding sexual pleasure is that absurdly wrong? No. I don't think so. Chances are the seveteen year old is finding sexual pleasure, too. If you're molesting the minor... yes. But tickling is by no means sex, which is the law.

Remember... its this simple...adult and minor sex... No. Adult and minor pornography... no. Adult and minor tickling... yes, but in certain circumstances..what I stress the most I still stick by... stay in your age group. It's pretty darn safe.

 

[ticklekid1]

Okay, I thank those who have given me their informative opinions on this subject, and those who have thrown molotov cocktails at me. My observances have shown me the side of the scale, that some prersons are on, I am glad that my experiment worked, my somewhat willing participants. Good bye.

 

[morgandee]

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