why

[sugarmouse]

do men always treat me badly? what do i do wrong? lol i been reallypoorly for a week or so and he hasnt even been to see me ahs just gone out alot by himself cos i dnt hav the energy🙄 i giv up!
when i told him it was over cos he didnt care abou tme he sed i was just been irrational cos i was ill!

 

[the_Baron]

"WHY" is the big question, isn't it.

based on the limited information i have here, i would have to say without any doubt, its the water in great britain. not enough flouride.

i hope this was helpful.

 

[Limeoutsider]

I think its that men mature more slowly than girls, try someone a few years older than you

 

[steph]

Sorry to hear it Sugar...For what it's worth, I didn't start meeting "real men" until I hit about age 25. With rare exception, I find men to be like wine, they get better with age. Hang in there honey...

XOXO

 

[venray]

Because some men just plain suck, sugar.....find a better one....


😉


Ray

 

[giantfan121262]

Ven is right! there are plenty of good men out there. Good luck to you! Based on my experience, you meet your partner when you LEAST expect it!

 

[Ghost2004]

*HUGS*

Hey Jen..
You are worth more than someone who treats you like that.. tho I DO beliveve everything happens for a reason.. Maybe this happened bacause your right man is just around the corner.

Take it froom some who is only 27, trying to straighten her life out from an abusive marriage, you are worth a LOT better.. and while SOME men are jerks, there are a LOT of wonderful, caring guys out there( I may have found one myself. @ any rate he has taught me the selfsame lesson YOU are gonna learn; tha tnot every man is out there to hurt you) , but sometimes it takes time and hurt to find them.

A beautiful( yes I've seen your pics on Ray's site!😀 ) personable and funny lass like you will have no trouble. Your're still young sweetie, consider this a learning experience and realize that there are a LOT of lads out there, and not all of them want to cause pain. You just have to work past the hurt and keep on searching. Giantfan is right, you WILL meet your lad when you least expect it, and till then have fun trying


Here's hoping you'll find your Mr Right..


Ghostie

 

[sugarmouse]

aww you guys are al so sweet eventho ive neglected the TMF for a while withmy degree and stuff!
steph,limeoutsider, this guy is nerly forty!i did just that, went for somone a little older..lol i fink i have welcoem written on myforehead.sorry about yur experiences ghost myex used to hit me and i know it was horrible but at least i got out before i married himinerly did! thnaks so much for that..im goin to stopo feling sorry for myself now tony(him) is calline me this mornin for a chat cos hes gutted apparently...................😕
baron, i never drink the water...is there not enough flouride in the beer either tho?

 

[shylittleme]

why are guys so mean and they treat you badly sugarmouse?


becasue most guys (not all i said but most) think with thier Penis insted of there brain and common sense. most guys just want to get in every single girls pants and make passes and throw stupid player lines at girls to just be able to get some action for the night or a couple nights and Then split and never call and you never hear from again. That may sound like i'm dissing on my own male gender but that is because i AM!. i refuse to be like every other guy on this earth they seem to have to be all bad boy pimp type and a player etc... to get even girls so they can get in the girls pants and have sex with Them. There is nothing wrong with sex. don't get me wrong. But my parents have Raised me right with good morals and good values and my Dad being a fellow Christian has told me the meaning in Life and whats important. so once or if that happens my wife or girlfriend is gonna be treated right and be loved good. insted of just automatically trying to nail and bang her in Bed.