wife left me bcause of tickling...need to talk to someone

[Mac]

wife left me bcause of tickling...need to talk to someone

 

[derkitzelnkonig]

Very sorry to hear that.

 

[b0xr]

So sorry to hear about that Mac. What did she say before she left?

 

[BlackestLily]

We're all pretty good sounding boards and have good listening ears here. I'm very sorry about what happened as you seem upset. Can you provide more information on how this happened? Knowing nothing about your or your wife's situation other than what you've just posted, it can be a bit more difficult to provide solid, knowledgeable support.

 

[kcantankerous]

Yeah man,

I'm sorry that things didn't work out.

Thanks,
K

 

[BroadwayMaybe]

I'm so sorry to hear about this. So sorry.

 

[ticklebrowse26]

I am so so sorry.

 

[Mac]

I am panicky. I love her dearly but am so messed up with this. Does anyone know anyone to talk to. I tried a crisis hotline but hard to get into it.

 

[Mitchell]

Mac, I'm very sorry about your wife leaving you.

As advice about your question: Perhaps you can research about a counselor/psychologist, or family services. Etc. If you would want to attend counesling, and money is an issue, some places have free or reduced rate counesling services. Maybe if you attempt this, and convey this to your wife, it will soften her position, and persuade her into coming back to you.

Good Luck. I hope you can resolve this, and reconcile with your wife.

Mitch

 

[BlackestLily]

I don't know where you live but I'm assuming you called a local one. Here is a national crisis number: 1-800-273-TALK (8255)

 

[GEORGIATKLER]

I am sorry to hear about your wife. Many churches have a grief counseling program as well as the counseling at the county/city level. Please find someone to talk with and do follow their advice.

 

[ZenTickling]

Just remember that we're all in the same boat. We all suffer at various times in our lives and you are not alone.

http://84thproblem.com/

 

[stockytickler]

Mac, this is terrifying. And heart-breaking. If you can remember what it is she actually said before she left or if she wrote it down in a "Dear John" letter it will help you gauge her state of mind.

Right now I don't know if you were into tickling and she wasn't, or vice versa, or if she caught you tickling someone else ... I mean I just don't have a perspective on this, and naturally this isn't likely to resolve itself easily.

When you post she left you because of tickling I don't know other important details like how long you'd been together, any kids, any other stresses on the relationship (she might be focused on this because it's something concrete she can point to, even if you'd been drifting apart for awhile).

But mostly right now you seem frantic and if you'd like to go into more detail in a PM or offline I want to help. Be safe, man. 🙁

 

[Marquis De Sade]

We're all pretty good sounding boards and have good listening ears here. I'm very sorry about what happened as you seem upset. Can you provide more information on how this happened? Knowing nothing about your or your wife's situation other than what you've just posted, it can be a bit more difficult to provide solid, knowledgeable support.

This. Details would provide us with more of an opportunity to share deeper support. Sorry though. 🙁

 

[youngrl]

I guess this must hard for Mac to share details now but just know if you do need support you have a community behind you!

 

[FLBowler]

We're all pretty good sounding boards and have good listening ears here. I'm very sorry about what happened as you seem upset. Can you provide more information on how this happened? Knowing nothing about your or your wife's situation other than what you've just posted, it can be a bit more difficult to provide solid, knowledgeable support.

my words exactly. the better understanding we have the better advice and backboard for emotions we can provide

 

[TickleMeP1nK]

I'm really sorry to hear about that. If you ever wanna talk about it let me know, hope things start to get a bit better for you.

 

[ticklemepls]

its kinda hard to help anyone through something like that if no one knows what happened prior to her leaving... my guess would be that was kinda the 'straw that broke the camel's back' and there was more than just tickling involved... could be wrong though.. like i said i dont know what went on prior to it... give her space and try and wrap your head around her reasons for leaving, then if you desire you can try and get in touch with her to talk it over... but YOU have to get your head in order first.