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Would You Date Someone That Wasn't Ticklish??

wade03

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Im sorry if this subject has been beaten to death, but I was just curious for some people's thoughts. I'm not currently in this kind of position, but I just wanted to hear from other people.
 
In a heartbeat. I would definitely try to hold out for someone who is open minded but while being ticklish would be a massive bonus, it would not be a prerequisite for dating.
 
Great answer. I think not having someone being ticklish would be a bummer. Not just because of fetish reasons, but tickling is also just a fun way to joke around/tease a friend. But if it was the right person, it would def be worth it. 🙂
 
Yes, I would. Tickling isn't the be all and end all of life.
 
I have, in fact, dated someone who wasn't ticklish, and while it was slightly depressing, it did convert me into a ticklee as well as a tickler. 🙂

I'll agree with everyone else. It'd be nice, but not necessary.
 
I'm a lee...so...this wouldn't really bother me at allllll. The playful back and forth banter would be missed, but yeah, I would.
 
I've had sex with women who weren't ticklish but I probably wouldn't hold it out in a relationship, it's too important for me.
 
No way in hell 😛
My fetish is a big part of my life, so I would never date a girl who wasn't ticklish (and girls who don't like BDSM, bondage, submission, torture and domination). :makingalist:
 
I think the most important part of that question is "date". I am not trying to make a semantics issue out of it, but because tickling is such a big piece of my make up, I'd have to say no, or probably not. The exception being that if I didn't know weather or not she was (ticklish) before I got involved beforehand. It would depend on the person, of course. That said, it would most likely change the relationship.

Frankly, tickling is part of my sexuality. To not have that facet in the relationship is no different than asking someone not inclined to our paraphilia if they could forever forgo sex with their dating partner. I guess one could, but I don't think I'd want to.
I was married for twelve years to someone who was very ticklish, but flatly refused to let me do so. I know its not the same thing as the OP's question, but close enough. The relationship was what it was, but was quite frustrating at times and I'd have to say that I wouldn't want to be in that situation again. A special person could perhaps change my opinion, but painting with a broad brush, I'd still have to say I couldn't.
 
Eh, I dunno. I've never been out with someone that wasn't ticklish. It'd be interesting to see, but I do feel that regardless I'd miss it. But then it's one of those things that really teaches you how important it is to you.
 
It's probably easier to be with someone who is just not ticklish than with someone who is and hates to be tickled.

I'm a lee, so it doesn't matter. But I never cared if the person I was with tickled me or not.
 
Absolutely. Even if they're not ticklish, as long as they're nice, caring, and open-minded, that's what's important. If they don't mind an occasional tickle, though, that's a bonus. But it's not a disqualification.
 
I have dated a few who weren't ticklish. I said aaa shit to myself and then forgot about it.

When I first start dating someone, I usually wait to she tickles me first as I don't poke and grab people i just met. Furthermore, If i get the vibet that she doesn't like tickling even the slightest bit, thats it and i forget about it. Later on in the relationship I usually tell them that I like tickling to some extent which someone who isn't ticklish can understand a lot better than someone who is ultra sensitive.
 
I always aim for ticklsh girls, But the girl I was happiest with and for 2 years wasnt ticklish in the least, didnt even like being tied up cause she paniced, But I was in love. Love before fetish.
 
Thanks for all the replies guys! I appreciate the opinions. My question can also pertain to people who REALLY hate tickling, and are really ticklish, if anyone has an experience like that.
 
My lady is ticklish, but even if she wasn't it would have no bearing on whether I would date her or not. Not to sound shallow, but some kind of physical attraction and above average intelligence would be higher on my list of priorities. Being ticklish is a nice, side bonus, but can only take you so far if they can't spell simple words or look like the cryptkeeper.
 
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