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Would You Date Someone That Wasn't Ticklish??

I certainly would.

I love tickling, but I'd rather not spend my life finding that one girl that's ticklish and the girl I really love.
 
In the same boat.

I'm in the same boat, I just started a relationship with a girl that really isn't that ticklish, and it weights heavy on my mind. I really like her and I even told her about my fetish and she wasn't turned off by it. She likes tickling me, but I prefer to be the ler. She does have very pretty feet and I really like that about her, so I'm trying to get past the whole not being ticklish thing.

Did you tell her about your fetish?
 
Eh, there are other things we could do aside from the tickling... :devil:
 
I have in the past and it was a great relationship. She made me happy and vice versa. She had all the qualities I was looking for. Being ticklish would have been a bonus, but definitely was not a deal breaker.
 
I have before, and to be totally honest, it was a bit of a drag. Might have something to do with the fact that the lady in question also had some serious issues, but I digress. Either way, tickling is an important part of my sexuality. Therefore, it would be very difficult for me to stay in a relationship where my partner seemingly has no nerve endings. I know, I'm lame. Honest, but lame.
 
Yes, I would. My husband HATES it and I married him. It's not the end of my world, besides I'm not a ler anyways.
 
While it is a big part of my sexuality, I have tryed to date a woman that is not tickish. While it did deaden the desire to date her, it did not kill it. I definatly would rather be in a relationship with a woman that is both a lee and a ler but if she is wonderful and willing to be a ler, I could still be very happy.
 
Since I'm mostly a 'lee, I wouldn't mind if she wasn't ticklish, though I would prefer her to be ticklish.

Actually, there's a part of me that finds a non-ticklish woman kind of exciting. To me, the fact that she's ticklish means she can tickle me all she wants and, not only can I not get revenge, but she probably has no understanding of the torture that she is inflicting on me (unless she was ticklish in the past and it went away). However, it seems that I'm in the minority in thinking that way, because I posted a thread about it a long time ago and got very little agreement.

http://www.ticklingforum.com/showthread.php?t=112319
 
I have. I don't regret it, but there was definitely something missing.

Christopher
 
Don't want my tickling skills to go to waste...

No way Jose--been there, done that. Of course tickling ain't everything, not even the most important thing by far, but it's important enough and I want it in my life.

I've been in love with girls who weren't ticklish or who didn't enjoy it and it was always a pain in the ass. Of course it's possible to fall in love with someone not into tickling, but I vowed after my last LTR to not let myself fall in love with someone who was sexually repressed or tickling repressed! Like sex, when I don't get enough tickle play I think about it too much and it feels like I'm missing out on something I want in my life. I'm not going to put myself in that position again...not into self-deprivation or unfulfilling relationships--I'd rather be single!

My next relationship has to be with a fellow ticklephile, it's just too important to me...besides, I'd feel guilty if I deprived a deserving ticklephile of my awesome tickling skills... ;-)
 
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Maybe "ticklish" is not the Q?

A guy that is not giggly, silly ticklish is fine, but pls make him "responsive" to the fact that I am tickling him, and demonstrates that he knows it with words or actions (Oh F*** that tickles, or I love it when you tickle my FEET, or that feels great...) including involuntary actions, and knows he needs to tickle me if we are going to ROCK!

Lea
 
Lea28 said:
A guy that is not giggly, silly ticklish is fine, but pls make him "responsive" to the fact that I am tickling him, and demonstrates that he knows it with words or actions (Oh F*** that tickles, or I love it when you tickle my FEET, or that feels great...) including involuntary actions, and knows he needs to tickle me if we are going to ROCK!

Lea
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That's me! LOL--and do I ever! http://www.ticklingforum.com/showthread.php?t=162041
 
Love before lust...plus I could go either way so if she wasn't ticklish I still am. 🙂

Now if she had no interest in tickling me, then we've got a small hurdle to cross once we move to the bedroom, but then again its not like I NEED tickling to be present. It just makes things more fun, like others have said tickling is like a bonus to a good relationship.
 
Well, let me amend what I said. Maybe I would date a lady that was not ticklish - if the sex itself was good enough and she was into bondage and D/s anyway, like spanking and orgasm denial/forced multiple orgasms. If she's not ticklish at all though, the relationship would not last too long, I don't think.

Unless she turns out to be a WICKED and SADISTIC ler and has bi-tendencies. Because that could work out very well in the long run, lol.
 
I would. Just as long as he wouldn't mind tickling me since I'm mostly a lee anyways 😛
 
I would and I have. Had great times dating some very nice ladies. I am always up to taking a nice and intelligent gal out for a wine and dine. Does not have to involve tickling while dating. (Altough it is a bonus) Besides, I like to get to know the person I am dating.
 
I don't think I've ever dated someone who truly wasn't ticklish. I have dated people who didn't like to be tickled. Fortunately I have a lot of other kinks. I don't believe I'd date someone with whom I had no kink crossover.
 
I can speak from the otherside of the fence I guess. I'm not ticklish and have dated quite a few guys. It seemed to me that most guys weren't so worried that they couldn't get me, it's that I'd get them in public and make them say uncle 😛 like they couldn't stand being beaten/embarassed by a girl heeee.

I don't think that benig ticklish or not should determine if you really love someone. If you're partner isn't ticklish but you love them then you have to make the most of it - they can tickle you, you can explore trying to make them ticklish etc 😛
 
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