Come on. You can't back up ANY of your claims.
99.9% ?!? No fucking way.
The number of people you encounter IRL is a sliver of a sliver of the people online, so your "source" is wildly unreliable.
Lunch with the F.B.I. eh? I hope they're picking up the tab, I hear them secret agents go first class!
There comes a point where people start banging on posts because they don't understand that its the spirt of the words that was the point rather then the dot by dot exact facts in said post.
The point that C.A.B. was making was a simple one. Spend any amount of time going to gatherings, tickling or B&D or S&M and over the years you get a feel for the people and their over all attitudes as communities. And as CAB said the vast majority of folks have no desire to see tickle-rape, or real rape done to people in front of them. They will often admit to the fantasy, fully knowing IT IS A FANTASY that does not translate into reality.
People tend to understand morality pretty well.
Over the years the community has shown a distaste for REAL material that leaves the 'lee' looking uncomfortable, upset, or damaged at the end. They have spoken up about it time and again.
Another aspect is that a big part of the community is very sensitive to anything that will leave it tarred with the brush of 'creepy' and 'fucked up'. Every time some weak impulse controlled guy is arrested for licking women's feet at the gym, or walking up to girls on the boardwalk and asking if they can touch their feet or so forth, the entire fetish community takes a black eye in the public thought. Folks imagine what word of a bunch of tickle-rape videos would sound like to the mainline press if word got out. And cringe. Not wanting to be attached to that in any form.
So people react strongly.
The majority of people get it. They understand fantasy Okay, Reality not cool. And that's the core point here.
To the OP, good luck with the video. Inmost situations models bring a strong friend to shoots to prevent just such things from happening to them. In your case you hit upon a desperate woman who trusted too much. The morality of your actions seem to have escaped you.
Myriads