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So. Sick. Of dating.

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I just had yet another crappy date last night. He was a
vanilla I met through okcupid. When am I going to learn
that these never turn out well? I won't get into the details
of this guy's creep-factor, but suffice it to say it was pretty
excruciating to sit through the evening.

PS - anyone who says it's better to go out for coffee than
dinner has never sat through an evening with nothing to
distract herself with other than a coffee cup or a bottle of
soda. Bad dates are much better over dinner, when at least
the silence isn't so awkward because you're both eating.

Anyway, screw dating. Can I just marry my girlfriends instead?
They're so much more fun and NOT creepers. That is the LAST
bad date I'm going on this summer. Too many fun girly things
planned this summer to worry about yucky men.

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I say you are right to have a blast this summer and do all the girlie things you want. This is going to be a great summer for you because you deserve it.
If you don't want to date right now, so what? I wish you the best!
:rockingout: :rockingout: :rockingout:
 
Oh my god I dont believe this!! me?...... with "creep factor"? and i paid for the coffees and the soda...not to mention flying from the UK for the date.

Thats it!! I am through with you septics!!
 
I agree. Bad date over dinner > bad date over coffee

Although I'm the type of person who has a friend call with an "emergency" half way though a bad one. We call it the SOS tactic.
 
^ Lol, I got those too!

Yeah, I say just enjoy your summer and see what each day brings you. Life's short, be happy. :)
 
BrightEyes1082 said:
I just had yet another crappy date last night. He was a
vanilla I met through okcupid. When am I going to learn
that these never turn out well? I won't get into the details
of this guy's creep-factor, but suffice it to say it was pretty
excruciating to sit through the evening.

PS - anyone who says it's better to go out for coffee than
dinner has never sat through an evening with nothing to
distract herself with other than a coffee cup or a bottle of
soda. Bad dates are much better over dinner, when at least
the silence isn't so awkward because you're both eating.

Anyway, screw dating. Can I just marry my girlfriends instead?
They're so much more fun and NOT creepers. That is the LAST
bad date I'm going on this summer. Too many fun girly things
planned this summer to worry about yucky men.


So because i did a lousy bondage job, now im labeled a crappy date? why the nerve! :facepalm: :bugeyed:
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BrightEyes1082 said:
Anyway, screw dating. Can I just marry my girlfriends instead?
They're so much more fun and NOT creepers. That is the LAST
bad date I'm going on this summer. Too many fun girly things
planned this summer to worry about yucky men.
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Well, you can here, with legalized gay marriage and all.

OKcupid isn't that bad in my experience, it once brought me some pussy without requiring any effort from me.
 
BrightEyes1082 said:
I just had yet another crappy date last night. He was a
vanilla I met through okcupid. When am I going to learn
that these never turn out well? I won't get into the details
of this guy's creep-factor, but suffice it to say it was pretty
excruciating to sit through the evening.

PS - anyone who says it's better to go out for coffee than
dinner has never sat through an evening with nothing to
distract herself with other than a coffee cup or a bottle of
soda. Bad dates are much better over dinner, when at least
the silence isn't so awkward because you're both eating.

Anyway, screw dating. Can I just marry my girlfriends instead?
They're so much more fun and NOT creepers. That is the LAST
bad date I'm going on this summer. Too many fun girly things
planned this summer to worry about yucky men.

you-disgust-kitty-500x375.jpg


129203174282195170.jpg
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I totally agree......to hell with the yucky men!!!!





Drew
 
Pound-for-pound, I think it's better to find that special someone sleeping inside a dumpster than trust most dating sites.
 
Ugh. I HATE bad dates. I went on a date like 2 or 3 weeks ago, and all he did was talk about my best friend (they dated for a small bit YEARS ago.) Like srsly. I'm just doing the same thing you are, this summer. Living it up with my girls. <3
 
Mephistopheles said:
yeah, brighteyes, why don't you date kered?

You can't go wrong with a guy who has two gnomes guarding his veggies
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I would but he keeps rejecting my advances!

..Glamorous.. said:
Ugh. I HATE bad dates. I went on a date like 2 or 3 weeks ago, and all he did was talk about my best friend (they dated for a small bit YEARS ago.) Like srsly. I'm just doing the same thing you are, this summer. Living it up with my girls. <3
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I know right, I am so over this. <33
 
Mephistopheles said:
yeah, brighteyes, why don't you date kered?

You can't go wrong with a guy who has two gnomes guarding his veggies
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BrightEyes1082 said:
I would but he keeps rejecting my advances!
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I wouldn't say rejecting exactly. More the matter of a twenty-five year age gap and 1100 miles distance gap.

That and I don't think I would survive the first time she takes me to bed. :whip:
 
Just do what your gut instinct tells you to do and date your girl friends.
It's what you really want, after all.

In fact, I'm thinking of doing the same.
A summer of back rubs, baseball & Budweisers with just the guys sounds really awesome!!!
 
I have a hard time believing the guy was a creep, especially when there was nothing creepy mentioned about him. Hell, maybe he was freaked out himself. Since there were no details about what made him creepy, I can only speculate on the conversation that likely transpired.

"So...are you married?"

"No, divorced."

"Oh, I see. Hmm. But you're not in any relationship currently?"

"No. Well actually yes."

"I don't understand."

"Well, I'm in a D/S relationship."

"What does that mean, exactly?"

"Well, she is my dom. I'm her sub."

"Her....'sub'....Yeah. Well hey good look with that, okay? Gee, where does the time go? Gotta run. Take care!"​

Now, don't take this wrong. There's nothing wrong with D/S relationships, and Lee Allure is respected by all here.

I'm just saying that maybe it's not all that easy for vanilla guys to date somebody involved in that kind of relationship with somebody else. I'd venture to say there are few who would find that attractive.

So instead of labeling this guy as a creep, try and see things from his point of view.
 
kered said:
I wouldn't say rejecting exactly. More the matter of a twenty-five year age gap and 1100 miles distance gap.

That and I don't think I would survive the first time she takes me to bed. :whip:
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Twenty five, smwenty five! Distance is just... a number, and age is...
also a number. :wharblgarbl:

Anyways, don't you think you'd die happy? :cheesy:

Master Baiter said:
Just do what your gut instinct tells you to do and date your girl friends.
It's what you really want, after all.

In fact, I'm thinking of doing the same.
A summer of back rubs, baseball & Budweisers with just the guys sounds really awesome!!!
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Everybody keeps telling me that! :confused: :confused:

Let's reconvene in the fall and compare notes. :rainbow:
 
Tank Hill said:
I have a hard time believing the guy was a creep, especially when there was nothing creepy mentioned about him. Hell, maybe he was freaked out himself. Since there were no details about what made him creepy, I can only speculate on the conversation that likely transpired.

"So...are you married?"

"No, divorced."

"Oh, I see. Hmm. But you're not in any relationship currently?"

"No. Well actually yes."

"I don't understand."

"Well, I'm in a D/S relationship."

"What does that mean, exactly?"

"Well, she is my dom. I'm her sub."

"Her....'sub'....Yeah. Well hey good look with that, okay? Gee, where does the time go? Gotta run. Take care!"​

Now, don't take this wrong. There's nothing wrong with D/S relationships, and Lee Allure is respected by all here.

I'm just saying that maybe it's not all that easy for vanilla guys to date somebody involved in that kind of relationship with somebody else. I'd venture to say there are few who would find that attractive.

So instead of labeling this guy as a creep, try and see things from his point of view.
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His reaction to my D/s relationship was commendable. What creeped me
out was how touchy-feely he was, when I did not give off that vibe, and
the complete lack of physical attraction (at least on my part) made me
really uneasy at the end of the evening when he went in for the kill. My
reaction to him had nothing at all to do with my relationship with Lee, or
his views on it.
 
BrightEyes1082 said:
His reaction to my D/s relationship was commendable. What creeped me
out was how touchy-feely he was, when I did not give off that vibe, and
the complete lack of physical attraction (at least on my part) made me
really uneasy at the end of the evening when he went in for the kill. My
reaction to him had nothing at all to do with my relationship with Lee, or
his views on it.
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His dumb a$$ probably assumed that because you were in a D/s relationship, that it was a green light for him to get in on the action. Like you don't have any boundaries because you were honest about the kind of fun you like to have. Maybe he was hoping you'd invite him to watch :jester:

P.S. I love your corset ad in your sig. I'd love to buy a corset. :)
 
myth77 said:
His dumb a$$ probably assumed that because you were in a D/s relationship, that it was a green light for him to get in on the action. Like you don't have any boundaries because you were honest about the kind of fun you like to have. Maybe he was hoping you'd invite him to watch :jester:
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Is that such an unreasonable assumption? Remember, the guy is vanilla. In his eyes, D/S = kinky sex, not "the kind of fun you like to have." On top of that she's out on a date with him. So he's thinking, "Jackpot! She's looking for a three way! I'd better make sure she knows I'm on board!"
 
Stop going for vanillas.

And if you DO want to continue trying for them, go to plentyoffish.com, it's totally free, easy to use, and there ARE real people on there that genuinely just want to meet a nice woman. As with any website, there will be fakes and BS's, but it's not hard to spot them.
 
myth77 said:
His dumb a$$ probably assumed that because you were in a D/s relationship, that it was a green light for him to get in on the action. Like you don't have any boundaries because you were honest about the kind of fun you like to have. Maybe he was hoping you'd invite him to watch :jester:

P.S. I love your corset ad in your sig. I'd love to buy a corset. :)
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I don't think that was the case really, I made it pretty clear what
Lee's and my relationship was. I already found him to be creepy
before I even told him about Lee.

PS - That's Miss Lee's corset store. PM her if you have questions! :D

Tank Hill said:
Is that such an unreasonable assumption? Remember, the guy is vanilla. In his eyes, D/S = kinky sex, not "the kind of fun you like to have." On top of that she's out on a date with him. So he's thinking, "Jackpot! She's looking for a three way! I'd better make sure she knows I'm on board!"
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See above. Not the case.

Leo tickles said:
Stop going for vanillas.

And if you DO want to continue trying for them, go to plentyoffish.com, it's totally free, easy to use, and there ARE real people on there that genuinely just want to meet a nice woman. As with any website, there will be fakes and BS's, but it's not hard to spot them.
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I'm on POF, and I've come across nobody I'd even consider
going out with. OKCupid is free, also. And the reason I look
for vanillas is because in the kinky world, my order is just too
tall. I want a guy who is in no way submissive or switchy, and
not many Dominant men want to share their submissive with a
Dominant woman. So it's really hard to find the right kinky person.
 
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