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So. Sick. Of dating.

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this is why you should read all messages in a thread. because i just went from something along the lines of 'yeah you go girl lets all do girly things and be happy to be girls. fuck men.' to "No average guy in the world, unless he's.... special... is going to share his woman with ANOTHER woman, who Doms his woman...."

feeeel like i missed something....
 
Keep on looking, looking and eventually you will find someone that will get half your shit!
 
I'd just like to add that there is NOTHING wrong with poly relationships. Personally, I would never partake in one, ever, no matter who or what was involved.

But, seriously, think about it from a vanilla's point of view. It COULD happen... but you'll be as fucked up as I am by the time you find it. 😀
 
darkstain said:
Maybe you're content to let other people do your labeling for you, but I prefer to make my own judgements. You're right. I wasn't there. But neither were you. And as far as I'm concerned Amanda's date is innocent until his guilt is established; which from everything I've read so far in this thread, hasn't happened.
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You see the problem here is that you aren't the person who should be making the judgements about this guy. Nobody here is. All I was saying is that Amanda is the only person who should be making this judgement, and now people are getting on her case for stating her own opinion, and that's the part that bugs me. Why do you care so much that she called this guy a creep?

And you DON'T have to accept her judgements because she "knows best"
You don't have to accept anything.
Just don't get on someone's case because its all a matter of opinion.
 
herts tickler said:
this is why you should read all messages in a thread. because i just went from something along the lines of 'yeah you go girl lets all do girly things and be happy to be girls. fuck men.' to "No average guy in the world, unless he's.... special... is going to share his woman with ANOTHER woman, who Doms his woman...."

feeeel like i missed something....
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You are NOT alone.........:wow:

Eventually she'll come back and set the record straight and I'm willing to bet the house on two things:

1-This has nothing to do with whether she's looking for a 100% dom male

2-Her dom is female, therefore she's a lesbian.

The range of conclusionss some jump to are monumental!
 
VMANDUDE said:
unlucky you are, my friend. most of the girls i have talked to several times i have met. lets see....iv met 4 girls off of okc. not too bad. unfortunately, 3 successful dates with girls that just turned out to suck in the bad way, and 1 who wasnt interested in a bf, just friends. so meh
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yeah, I am unlucky. It's hard enough for me to get them to even talk to me on okcupid.
 
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Oy vey! What have I come back to?

Okay, clearly it would be a clusterfuck to try to quote everyone, so
I'll try to address all points without doing so (if I miss anything, feel
free to let me know).

1) As soon as I saw the guy, I was not attracted to him physically. He
didn't look like his photos. However, I knew from his online profile that
we did share some things in common, so I wanted to give him the benefit
of the doubt, and just try to enjoy some conversation.

2) Our conversation never got sexual. Perhaps I was naive in thinking he
wouldn't get sexual ideas when I told him about Lee. Either way, he wasn't
creepy in that I thought he was going to feel me up, he was just too touchy-
feely in more of an affectionate way, which is something I'm never comfortable
with on a first date.

3) I always assume that people on the forum know that Lee and I are both
heterosexual. My apologies for not making that clear. I'm sure many of you
think I/we are in denial about that, but the truth is that Lee collared me while
I was still married to my ex-husband (we were separated). I'm not one to have
a sexual relationship with anyone (male or female) while I'm married, and I considered
myself to be married until the day the divorce was final. One of the biggest things that
drew me to Lee was that she, too, was straight, and I could experience a caring, loving
D/s relationship with the sexual aspect completely removed.

4) I've had some good conversations on first dates from guys I've met on OKC. Many
guys I've talked to who are vanilla (both online and off) are intrigued by the idea of
a D/s relationship, and at least are interested enough to learn about it. I know that
doesn't necessarily mean they would like being in a relationship with someone who is
in a D/s.

5) I'm just not attracted physically to switch or submissive men. However, I would
be just as happy with a vanilla man who was okay with my D/s, as I would with a
Dominant male who was happy sharing. I just don't want to compete with my partner
for my Domme's attention. I don't see anything wrong with that.

6) I know plenty of people (not on the TMF) who have both a Dominant and a vanilla
spouse. I don't know of any who aren't sexual with both, and therein lies my unique
requirement.

I hope that covers everything.

Drew and Nostra, good to see you haven't forgotten us over here 😉
 
BrightEyes1082 said:
Anyway, screw dating. Can I just marry my girlfriends instead?
They're so much more fun and NOT creepers. That is the LAST
bad date I'm going on this summer. Too many fun girly things
planned this summer to worry about yucky men.
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Can relate to this. I'm straight. But having spent some years in a girl's school, there is a different peace and a unanimous world being with fellow kind. I could smile the whole day just thinking about the good times.

Maybe it's too early for you to date now. Enjoy your career and the company of women.
 
Bohemianne said:
Can relate to this. I'm straight. But having spent some years in a girl's school, there is a different peace and a unanimous world being with fellow kind. I could smile the whole day just thinking about the good times.

Maybe it's too early for you to date now. Enjoy your career and the company of women.
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Hmm, maybe it is. 🙂
 
darkstain said:
And as long as we're talking creepy, you tell me which is more creepy. A guy who hopes for some physical interaction on a first date, or a girl who expects any kinky guy she dates to be 100% dom except when he yields her to her OTHER dom who happens to be female but that doesn't in any way shape or form make her a lesbian oh no.
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If you automatically assume that any F/F D/s relationship makes a person a lesbian, then you clearly need more education on the topic.

Or perhaps you were burned by a potential Female and your nuts have been in a vise since..
 
Than there well be some of us that will be alone for ever!!
fortunately or unfortunately!
yes that is a dark way of looking at it but it can be true to!
OK you can now all start hating me now if you want.
 
CrystalLight said:
If you automatically assume that any F/F D/s relationship makes a person a lesbian, then you clearly need more education on the topic.
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One doesn't need a degree in meteorology to know rain when one sees it. But feel free to share in her denial.

CrystalLight said:
Or perhaps you were burned by a potential Female and your nuts have been in a vise since..
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You know, it's usually a turn-on when a girl talks dirty to me. But when you do it, it's just nauseating. Please don't.

And for God's sake, put some clothes on.
 
darkstain said:
One doesn't need a degree in meteorology to know rain when one sees it. But feel free to share in her denial.

You know, it's usually a turn-on when a girl talks dirty to me. But when you do it, it's just nauseating. Please don't.

And for God's sake, put some clothes on.
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Oh, no you didn't.

*snap*snap*
 
When did guys start worrying and commenting on relationships, that is such a girl thing. You are suppose to be watching sports, drinking beer and on birthdays, Christmas and Valentines day buying romantic, cheap gifts so you can clean the pipes out on occasion.
 
obama666 said:
When did guys start worrying and commenting on relationships, that is such a girl thing. You are suppose to be watching sports, drinking beer and on birthdays, Christmas and Valentines day buying romantic, cheap gifts so you can clean the pipes out on occasion.
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quoted for truth 😛
 
God! I haven't been in Fresno for over twenty years, hey how is that illegal immigration thing working out there? I remember driving through the city and there were railroad crossings every 10 feet. Yet, I have to admit I really liked it out there!
 
obama666 said:
God! I haven't been in Fresno for over twenty years, hey how is that illegal immigration thing working out there? I remember driving through the city and there were railroad crossings every 10 feet. Yet, I have to admit I really liked it out there!
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I should have guessed by your screen name, that you were a mouth-breathing, slack-jawed, Fox News-worshipping cretin with the IQ of room temperature.
 
For the guys who are suggesting/insisting that the fact that Amanda is in a D/s relationship with Lee means that she's interested in women on a romantic level...think again. Just because most guys are homophobic and won't touch another guy doesn't mean that women are the same in that regard. While the two can go together beautifully, they don't HAVE to always be together.

Once again, we're not looking at an either/or situation. There's nothing wrong with both/and...as long as all parties involved are accepting of it. That's where the struggle comes in. Many folks just don't get it...or think that they do and vehemently reject it based on their ignorance of the reality of it.
 
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TklDuo-Ann said:
While the two can go together beautifully, they don't HAVE to always be together.
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I don't suppose it ever crossed anyone's mind that some of the guys might be rooting for them.
As in, "Hey, just get it over with already and kiss 'n wrassle!"

Once again, we're not looking at an either/or situation. There's nothing wrong with both/and...as long as all parties involved are accepting of it. That's where the struggle comes in.
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And there's the rub, "both parties accepting".
Introducing a third person into any relationship complicates things to no end;
it's hard enough w/ two.
A tug-o'-war will eventually ensue.

Wanting it all looks good on paper, but it usually ends up blowing up in your face.

Don't kid yourself, it's bound to happen (pun intended).
 
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