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A serious question about the unavoidable results of */m tickle sessions among friends

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because all the NEST talk has me thinking...

...what do you (the ticklers) do when the guy starts to *really* enjoys himself with the tickling? Like, a tent pitchingly good time with it.

Do you just kind of avoid it? Point and laugh at him because of it? Does the actual torture aspect override the fun of it and it goes away? I'm very intrigued, I'm sure it happens almost constantly.
 
Well the answer is kind of obvious, namely the tickler forgets all about tickling and just jumps on that tent pole, and wriggles around on it. However if the tickler is female instead, they are likely to just scream and run out of the room ................
 
They just jump on the pole? That seems terribly reckless and like it could end in disaster.
 
I've seen guys get boners during play before as lees and lers. If I'm playing with somebody it's because I know them and know that they aren't gross, creepy pervs, so I don't get worked up about it. Sometimes I've joked about it. Sometimes I don't mention it at all. It all depends on the relationship. But overall I think that it's no big deal. You kind of have to expect it. Besides, how many girls would be sporting wood if our bodies allowed for it?
 
I tackle this risk by being tickled face down, although I will admit that once upon a time I constructed out of a coat hanger and some tape, a device to make it impossible to get a straighty so that I could have face up tickling from this girl I had managed to convert slightly 😛
 
Well, the guys here on TMF always are daring the women to break them...

LOL jeez...I've actually been to gatherings where they reassure everyone it's normal and people pretty much expect it and not to worry about it. We all have a good chuckle, mostly because it's very true. If you don't go chasing people around with it you're golden!
 
How odd. The (extremely) few times I've switched, it never occurred to me not to get a boner. Or when I've ler'd, now that I think about it... are we all pretending we don't know how fetishes work now? Or am I just more of a pervert than most?
 
I have just always expected it to happen. I think I'd be more disappointed if they didn't get hard. It would make me wonder why I can't get them to get it up(Unless there is a medical reason or they are intentionally trying not to)? It never offends me to see my lee or ler get a boner.
 
I would think that an involuntary bodily reaction shouldn't be a problem in general, since it's, well, involuntary. Add to that the fact that this is occurring within the context of fetish play, which is by its nature sexual, and I think the person with the issues would be the person freaking out about the guy getting a boner. I mean, didn't we all learn this in middle school health class?
 
I would think that an involuntary bodily reaction shouldn't be a problem in general, since it's, well, involuntary. Add to that the fact that this is occurring within the context of fetish play, which is by its nature sexual, and I think the person with the issues would be the person freaking out about the guy getting a boner. I mean, didn't we all learn this in middle school health class?

Nah, I went to catholic school 🙂
 
Well to the thread poster, at NEST or most gatherings in open areas the boner is ignored and play can continue. As long as people are publicly playing with the dick or a circle jerk around the scene then a boner is kind of expected at a fetish scene for people in the fetish.
Hell, I've been to a gathering where a ladies juices were trickling down her thigh from watching the scene..
 
LOL i was just thinking what you said. ..If a lady showed excitement like a guy. .Same thing...you too would be sporting wood. I love tickling n get me more excited than any fetish out there. ..But...i dont just pop a boner unless im relaxed or perhaps alone with someone in a public scene most likely would not happen there is always the slight nervousness....i know from experience. ...I went to a fetish party and i was tied on a st andrews cross for hours and stripped naked n tickled by many ladies and before hand we all talked n i said id be hard instantly. ....N when it happened i was not. .Only at first then u realize your not in control n on display my ship sank lol sounds like a fantasy any guy would enjoy but when it happened it was different...had i been alone in a room with just them i would have been hard but with all the other people there not the same. .....So perhaps even a "perv" as you say...cant perform under pressure.
 
I've always worried about this so it's great to read through this thread and see that everyone considers the reaction to be normal. I'm sure that many women get aroused as well but, since they don't telegraph it the same way as men do, it stays as their little secret.

It's not so subtle for a guy...
 
Also i think anyone that calls us pervs....like above here.....should be tied down n tickled one hour head to toes. ...By all those who feel insulted by that name. ...So how many feel in sulted. ..Can we get about 20 people to gang tickle skipadee......
 
well..all I can say is 'aw bless don't worry'....I've tickled and been tickled by men (who usually wear very baggy trousers or jeans ) and if I were to be
vaguely aware of a swelling in their crotch (I'm not a gold star lesbian so know how you guys work and that it can't be controlled) I'd register it as simply 'how lovely, he's having a good time too'. I get very turned on when I'm tickled by women or men and just count my lucky stars that I'm a woman and the signs of arousal
are more subtle-or so I think -as it is we all get very sparkly eyed, flushed, a bit sweaty and rumpled
and no one cares because we're all tickling each other as it's a turn on and we love it. As long as I get to give my lers a big long hug afterwards I'm satisfied and can just enjoy my arousal. I assume that my play partners sort themselves out alone or with their beloveds in private later if
they need to. I make do with a curry, a beer and a contented night's sleep.

Have fun at NEST. I expect that in public play situations there'll be a lot of laughs but not much else to get embarassed about. Nature does look after us well at times. Just nip to the loo beforehand just incase -there are more embarassing things that could occur to a lee but I believe they are very rare.
 
There's little I find as annoying as blatant "boner-analysis" (ie. "~Why do you have a boner??? What's making you horny that's causing you to have a boner, right now???~").
 
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