Recalling an incident between friends
This thread reminded me of something told to me once by a 'lee, concerning a 'ler I was to meet at a NEST, years past. I'll not "out" 'em, but the story bears mention, as it interested me then, and applies now...
It seems that, when the two met, to play, way back when, he conceived of a scene that'd be ideal. They negotiated what was not to be allowed, set safewords and such, and then he bound her.
Then, the rest of the scene, he spoke only Spanish.
"Estas cosquillas, señora?"
He asked questions, made demands, and, if memory serves, broke the head-strong 'lee, without breaking her boundaries. He tickled her to the point where she gave in. I understood it took a long time, and gave her a sensation of desparation and disorientation, quickly.
Fascinatin' stuff. He's one of the better 'lers with whom I've shared a scene, topping a 'lee. That trick is one I've never used, though, 'cause I'd feel like I was a pale imitation.
And I speak Spanish. 😉