Arrggghhhh what's wrong with me?!

[PlayfulCarbonara]

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[rhiannon]

Well...some of us just like it better when they have to fight with the victim, I guess so they can feel the struggle more intensely. I prefer to be tied, but I also know a girl who prefers it when she is held down - it's all a matter of personal taste! 🙂

 

[TklshDiva]

I would prefer to be in a playful situation with someone where he is tickling me. To me I feel it's much more erotic, and sensual well maybe it's all the above?! Yes that it is!

 

[Musicroxmysox]

Maybe you should stick to no bondage, and FYI duct tape is not good for bondage. Scarves or rope is better in a pinch. 🙂

 

[Deleted member 66627]

You might have been chasing what you thought was the impossible, got it and didn't realize it was as good as the hype says it is.

 

[rhiannon]

Or it just wasn't as good as you imagined it to be....how is the saying?

F***ing is never as good as you imagine it to be while jacking off! 😀

 

[tulipangel]

Sometimes the "fight" is the best part of the tickling.... the struggle to break free and the idea that the lee might get away and all the wiggling and stuff is a turn on......
I love being tied up but i do enjoy someone holding me down and getting to try to fight it off at times.....
Maybe try to just tie her feet and let her hands free for you to hold down.... that way you can ease back into bondage????

 

[Myriads]

Sometimes the mood just is not there.

Sometimes one is so focused upon "I got it" that it gets in the way of enjoying it.

And sometimes the idea of an activity is a lot hotter then doing it in reality. You might like the active wrestling aspect of the unbound tickling, you might not like the level of control you have with the bondage, think upon it, and experiment with your girlfriend, it's all part of learning how ones sexuality works.

Myriads

 

[ViperGTS]

Send her to me - I won't get bored! 😀

I kid, of course. Maybe if you went to Home Depot or Lowe's and bought some nylon rope, and tied her up somewhat loosely, so she can still move a bit and fight back but can't escape, you might have some of that feeling left. 😀

 

[Forest Fairy]

I don't get it!!! It's as if I have suddenly lost my taste for bondage and tickling. If they don't fight back it isn't fun anymore! But at the same time it isn't exactly fun if I mess up holding her and get elbowed in the face either. lol.

-cry-

The struggling and fighting is the most enjoyable part for me

 

[scorpionldr]

maybe you want to do something "middle of the road"? I was thinking for my partner and I that instead of a full on spread eagle on the bed situation that maybe I could put a bar of pvc between her hands and feet (her hands and feet binded to it with rope loops through each end) and let her move around a little bit. or maybe just do half her body. like my partner HATES the pits being done. when she sees it coming she clenches up in anticipation like nothing else.

 

[Em Es]

Who knows why?

Maybe half the thrill of tickling a girl is having her fight back, something she can't do when you first restrain her.

Here's something I used to do with a tickle buddy. For most of the encounter I indeed tied her down so she was defenseless. But when time was running out, I would untie one hand. As she attempted to untie the rest of her limbs with her one free hand, I would tickle her, forcing her to fend me off instead of working on releasing her legs and other arm from bondage. Maybe that would make it hotter for you?

 

[-Hari-]

im sure itl happen to us all at some stage if it hasnt already, Funny how we work, Only the other day I rushed home with fantasies of playing my xbox all night, and i was bored within an hour and went to bed.

With time to think about the things we want, we make them into something far larger than they are, Doesnt mean these things arnt still fun tho, may mean we just need to remember that the crave for such things does return. so not to worry if this happens.

Maybe try out a few other things besides tickling, tickle till your bored then try somethign else, sex is always a good one 😛

 

[Tickle_Emperor]

Dude; nothing is wrong with you. This is completely normal. Tying her up so that she is able to struggle is definately a good idea. Furthermore, because this is our fetish, we tend to build it up to scenarios that far surpass that of real life. And of course; as was said, sometimes the mood just isnt there. Believe me you're not the first one this has happened to. I produce tk videos and work with gorgeous fet models regularly. I cant tell you how many times I just wanted to finish to shoot and go for some sushi.

Switch it up a little, use some tools, ice, throw a blindfold in. Maybe introduce a new kink? Do a google search for tickling games; those are a blast to play.

Good luck!
- The Emperor

 

[love feet]

I think you are really in love with her?!
so on one hand you have your fetish on the other you love her so your conflicted
so you don't know how to feel
if this makes no seance let me know!