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Bad News....

Sorry to here about your best friend, best friends are very hard to come by and my prayers go out to her and her family and you for always being there for her....
 
focus said:
Sorry to here about your best friend, best friends are very hard to come by and my prayers go out to her and her family and you for always being there for her....
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Thank you focus, I really appreciate the support, hun.
 
Well;

I'm about 3x your age;
I have lost best friends and loved ones entirely too many times.
Both parents, all 4 grandparents, my favorite 2 uncles, my favorite cousin.
When I was 16, the first girl I ever loved , aged 15, was killed by Amlyotrpic Lateral Sclerosis (Lou Gherig's Disease) after a 1 year illness. For that entire year, we knew she was going to go, and that there was nothing anyone could do about it.
She was in training to be a ballerina, and the disease first stole her dancing from her, and then her gracefulness, and then all motion, and finally her life. By that time the end came as a relief to her.
For years I hated the universe and God for what had happened to her, but I got over it.
The most helpful thing I can say, I guess, is that time will dull the pain, but it will not fade the good memories, which will still be there 40 years later. I know this, because mine are.
I will pray for you, and for her.
In case you need a sympathetic ear to cry into, or even just to vent at, I will send you my home phone number in a PM. Look for that one, as I'm sure you must be getting many right now.
Mitch
aka
 
Like Mimi and some others in this forum I have also been in your shoes. It is very hard to get this type of news. I will be sending good thoughts your way and praying for the best. Keep your chin up, Blondie.
 
Mastertank1 said:
I'm about 3x your age;
I have lost best friends and loved ones entirely too many times.
Both parents, all 4 grandparents, my favorite 2 uncles, my favorite cousin.
When I was 16, the first girl I ever loved , aged 15, was killed by Amlyotrpic Lateral Sclerosis (Lou Gherig's Disease) after a 1 year illness. For that entire year, we knew she was going to go, and that there was nothing anyone could do about it.
She was in training to be a ballerina, and the disease first stole her dancing from her, and then her gracefulness, and then all motion, and finally her life. By that time the end came as a relief to her.
For years I hated the universe and God for what had happened to her, but I got over it.
The most helpful thing I can say, I guess, is that time will dull the pain, but it will not fade the good memories, which will still be there 40 years later. I know this, because mine are.
I will pray for you, and for her.
In case you need a sympathetic ear to cry into, or even just to vent at, I will send you my home phone number in a PM. Look for that one, as I'm sure you must be getting many right now.
Mitch
aka
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Thank you so much hun.
 
So sorry to hear that Angel,our thoughs and prayers are with you your friend and her family.
 
I am so sorry Angel. If you need to talk please feel free to pm me. You and your friend are in my thoughts and prayers. :wub: :redheart:
 
No!

AHHHHHHHHHHH! Alright, my best friend Kayla passed away at 4:20 and I just found out. I can't believe I didn't get to see her one last time. :dropatear :dropatear :cry1: :cry1:
 
I am so sorry for your loss. Rest easy knowing that she is in a better place, one without pain, fear and loss. And rest easy knowing that you'll see her again one day.
 
I am so sorry for her family and you, Angel. Be strong.
 
Angel I'm so sorry for your loss.I know what it's like to lose a close friend without seeing them one last time.If i can be of any help at all please p.m. me anytime.:grouphug:
 
TG4L,
Be happy that she is no longer suffering, and is in a much better place now. Be thankful for the times you two shared, and perhaps it was best for you not to see her at her worst....so you can always remember her at her best.
When my grandmother passed, she had severly deteroriated and though her alzheimers was bad....I was one of 3 people she remember and held a picture of. I couldnt be there to see her and though I ached for the longest time not being able to see her (heck Im crying now as I think of it), I think that it was best that my last image of her was not of her suffering.
I know it might be little condolence for you, but I know that she knew that you loved her....and that you will always think of her.
I really like what Mimi said....create an online memorial for her, tell her what you want. Keep her in your heart and mind and she will still always be with you.
Stay strong girl.....you have a lot of support....like the Spinner's sang...
"If ever you need me, Ill be there....Ill be Around"

With my deepest sympathies for you and her family....
Robert

May Kayla rest in peace.....
 
Robace252 said:
TG4L,
Be happy that she is no longer suffering, and is in a much better place now. Be thankful for the times you two shared, and perhaps it was best for you not to see her at her worst....so you can always remember her at her best.
When my grandmother passed, she had severly deteroriated and though her alzheimers was bad....I was one of 3 people she remember and held a picture of. I couldnt be there to see her and though I ached for the longest time not being able to see her (heck Im crying now as I think of it), I think that it was best that my last image of her was not of her suffering.
I know it might be little condolence for you, but I know that she knew that you loved her....and that you will always think of her.
I really like what Mimi said....create an online memorial for her, tell her what you want. Keep her in your heart and mind and she will still always be with you.
Stay strong girl.....you have a lot of support....like the Spinner's sang...
"If ever you need me, Ill be there....Ill be Around"

With my deepest sympathies for you and her family....
Robert

May Kayla rest in peace.....
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Thank you and I am thinking that a online memorial would be great since I did not get to say goodbye to her.
 
I'm so sorry for your loss Angel. Please feel free to p.m. me anytime. :grouphug:
 
I am so sorry for your lose Angel, I know its hard but at least now she is at peace with God. If you need to talk you know I am always here for you.
 
I can't put into words how sorry I am for you and your friend. Just know she will always be with you in your heart. It's okay to try to stay strong, just remember, you need to express yourself too. Don't be afraid to be sad, to cry, or even to be angry. If you feel like you want to talk to someone, please do, because holding things like this in will only make it more difficult for you. I didn't know you or your friend, but if you ever need a shoulder or an ear, I'm here. You can send me a PM and I'm usually home in the late evenings so I will respond at that time. We are all very sorry for your loss and we are all thinking of you both right now. Again, I'm so sorry for your loss. Hang in there

Hugs

Pawz
 
Words cannot express how sorry I feel for you. In an attempt to find a rainbow in a really dark cloud, I would be relieved that she is no longer suffering, but I'm sure the grief is overshadowing that, I know that is how I would feel.

Stay strong, you have alot of support here from what I see in all the sincere posts.

Again, I am really sorry.
 
as i was reading through this thread again, i noticed the addition to your signature and knew your friend had died, even before i read your post stating that..i'm truly sorry hon..hm sounds like she had much tragedy in her short life..so now she can be happy and at peace. and with those twins she miscarried..pm me anytime..she was so young and that just doesn't seem fair..but sometimes what i do is think maybe somewhere down the road something she wouldn't have been able to deal with at all might have happened...so she was taken before that event occurred.. i know that's rather stupid but i like to think that way when someone young dies..
 
My thoughts and prayers go out to you at this time.
 
Thank you everyone. I appreciate the kindness and consideration put into the most sincere posts I have ever read.
 
My thoughts and prayers are with you Angel.

A ling time friend of mine suddenly died of cardiac arrest in his dodcor's office. I got this news the day i had to put my dog to sleep. I shall miss him and my dog.

Again my thoughts and prayers are with you. pm, e-mail or phone me if you need to.
 
Ticklishgrl4lfe,aww hun I am so sorry to hear about your friend passing,how close she was to you and that you weren;t able to say goodbye to her . I am only a PM away hun,I know it is hard to be strong but as time goes by,it will heal all your grief now..The idea of a Online memorial suggested earlier is a wonderful idea,also what you might like to do is when your feeling up to it start writing a few things about her that you remember the times you shared together,what a special person she was in your life and others lives,and when I have done that in the past when I knew someone who was dear to me passed,it actually helped me feel a little better though truth be told,the paper I wrote on was never dry..
Luv ,hugs hun :cuddle:
 
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