Can you get more ticklish?

[bwaylee211]

I love being tickled, but my problem is I'm not very ticklish...from what I believe at least. I was never tortured before with it, so I've only been tickled for tops two minutes maybe. I always wondered if there's anything to do to get your body more ticklish...I usually tense up and then I can't enjoy it.

 

[brad1701]

I've heard that ultra-light touches help... or making sure the skin isn't so toughened (moisturising; removing dead skin)... or making sure the area has a sufficient blood supply. If you smoke, your blood vessels constrict and you lose feeling. Nylon is also on record as increasing sensitivity.

Hope that helps. 🙂

 

[MistressValerie1]

Baby oil works wonders, as do cold fingers on warm skin 😱

 

[Kittamaru1]

I sent you a PM with suggestions 🙂

 

[MitchJ_]

Try this

I have found powder to be very effective. Keeping one's skin dry, sensitive and slickery 😉 Nails, fingertips and teeth glide right over the skin....devastating.

It heightens the sensation of each touch. I'm fortunate that I don't really perspire, but on a lee that is prone to that, it helps keep their skin dry and sensitive, both upper and lower body.

MJ

 

[Ticklishz]

i have the same problem

sometimes i am not that ticklish, but i have found lotion works well, especially on the feet!! also different positions i.e on your stomach instead of lying on your back. your comfort level with the 'ler and the skill of the 'ler are factors too!

 

[Relent<]

try electric massagers on the soles of the feet top stimulate nerves and loosen the muscles. That's about the only help I can give.
Oh! And staying somewhere kind cold makes the skin really sensitive....or was it somewhere kind of hot?...

 

[P[a]pi]

Well I don't know if you are up for it, but I think bondage can increase somebody's ticklishness. I don't know if you have a boyfriend or husband, but if you do, let him tie you spread eagle on your back on a bed. Then, let him blindfold you and he could gag you too with duct tape if you were okay with it.

That stuff will probably make you more ticklish. And your ler has to be willing to use pressure and tickle more than just your feet. When he does tickle your feet he could start out soft, but eventually he should scratch them hard and fast.

 

[duck171]

Bondage really does help, it really really works. Not sure about a gag but blindfolding is good idea.

 

[SteelJaw]

It kinda depends on mood, if im POd then you could send a fully trained mistress with years of tickle torture exp at me and I wouldnt even crack a smile. But if im in a good mood or playfull then I can get really ticklish XD. But id try some expirimentation, see if anything gets u mare sensative. Uv had some great suggestions here. Im willing to bet that if I used that little finger massager I have on ur feet id get a few shreeks out of you lol. But try it, see what happens, do a little research and PLEASE post ur results ^^

 

[bwaylee211]

okay well, last night a friend of mine came over and he knows about my fetish. i told him to blindfold me to see if it would do anything, which he did. i barely cracked a smile, and he tickled me almost everywhere. i'm so confused...usually my ribs and sides are super ticklish, as well as my feet, and NOTHING happened. i'm upset 🙁

 

[Relent<]

🙁
How depressing. He probably just wasn't a very good tickler.

 

[Paper#Boy]

First thing is to try some kind of restraints, try to use things that are effective in stopping movement in the areas your working on but that don't cause discomfort in themselves. As someone also said try a blindfold or at least find a way to prevent the person predicting your movements, if you can anticipate the tickling it won't work as well; this is the reason why you can't tickle yourself. 😉

You could become more ticklish on your feet by getting a pedicure or having the soles of the feet scrubbed, once feet are really soft there sensitivity will really increase and it won't take as much pressure to tickle so you can use things like artists brushes, stiff feathers, flossers etc. Also use some baby oil on the soles of the feet, the reason is not to moisturise the feet but to reduce the friction ! :evil: it's the reason why nylons can work better than feet that are dry.

Heating the feet will also make them more ticklish, you could use a hairdryer to heat the soles of the feet this can really increase the sensitivity to ridiculous levels and will work well on people who are not usually ticklish on there feet. Be sure to use the palm of your hand in front of the dryer to gauge the heat and to avoid burning the person though !. :redface:

 

[P[a]pi]

🙁
How depressing. He probably just wasn't a very good tickler.

I agree. Lees not being satisfied by lers is a sad thing. And I bet it pisses off some good/great lers who don't have the opportunity that some bad ler gets.

 

[Comfort Eagle]

And I bet it pisses off some good/great lers who don't have the opportunity that some bad ler gets.

Yes. Yes it does.

 

[bwaylee211]

🙁 i was so depressed the one experience i finally had a chance to get didn't even tickle...*sigh*

 

[Budweiserbob!]

Fear has been known to lessen the senses, or block them all together. Like adreneline. (like the old "wolf biting of it's own leg so it can escape" sorta thing.), you weren't afraid of not being ticklish enough, were you? Even still, to this severity, I doubt that's the case.

Try a more lengthy method. Totally pamper your feet to the fullest extent. Oils, lotions and foot creams. Keep your feet as smooth as possible. Rub away/remove dead and dried skin. Wear boots and socks when appropriate to keep the feet warm and smooth.

Then do a pre-tickle "ritual". Oil and lotion rub down and warm them up.

Hope I helped. 🙂

 

[bwaylee211]

well, i'm getting a pedicure tomorrow, so i guess we'll see. the weird thing is, i can tickle my own feet...maybe he was just a bad ler. who knows..

 

[whyguy2]

he was probably just a bad ler. if u can tickle ur own feet and laugh its not u its the ler. u should find better one. if ur ever in Baltimore look me up. i'll give u the tickle torture u deserve

 

[bwaylee211]

^ haha okay. the only weird thing with me is i don't really laugh. i don't think i ever like hysterically laughed from being tickled...i don't know, my body is strange.

 

[Budweiserbob!]

I'd rather have the possibility of being ticklish over not being ticklish altogether anyday. 😛

Although he may have been a bad 'ler, don't give up on him. Get him to use other tickle tools.

Electric toothbrush, pen, hair brush etc.

Things that you'd find ticklish. 😀

 

[TickleKay]

Wrong approach!

Guys!! You're all looking at this from a guy's point of view, sorry - no offense.

This is not about the physical here (not if she can tickle herself)- it's not about being the greatest tickler. It's about the mental. The headspace. And I know because I've learned tons from the greatest of all tickle tops in the field. I've seen him work on someone who isn't ticklish at all and eventually have them as jello, in tears from scream laughing.

Listen to how she describes it. She stated first off she "tenses up", that means she's gearing up to shut down. Her mind puts up a barrier and says "I'm not ticklish, I know it's coming" long before it happens.

Heather, this is something that's not uncommon and that takes a delicate touch and delicate talking [headspace] to get around. No amount of physical work will that bash that wall down. It has to be melted from the inside out. But once accomplished you'll be ticklish as all hell 🙂

Kay😉

 

[Camel26]

Kay, I couldn't agree more--you beat me to the punch!

It's a mental thing for women...always. Men can look at a picture or a porno or even just a nice set of...whatever...walking by, and they are turned on enough to get off. Women need less of the visual stimulation (or, in this case, physical) and more mental stimulation...

I don't know about you, hon, but if someone uses "tickle talk" on me the right way, I am a giggling mess long before their fingers ever make contact.

Remember to breathe and make sure that the gent who is tickling you is someone whom you trust--otherwise it will intensify your inability to relax.

You'll figure it out...

 

[GuldenVleugel]

Interesting info you're sharing there ladies. I have yotted that down, as rarely you get to see women so precise. 😉 I bet the best way in acquiring this is to suprise your significant other romantically and pull her thoughts away from the tickling. Make her enjoy the other aspects of your love life. When tickling comes into play, it needs to grows naturally. The 'ler himself must get out a ticklish reaction before he even intends to tickle her at all.

I believe that is one easy way for starters.

 

[tallbuckeye]

Lee, maybe it was a matter of expecting or anticipating it too much. 'Comfort zone' is how I would sum up Kay's and Camel's posts, and I think that's very important; if you're somehow not comfortable with the other person, or the situation, or have already overly built it up in your mind, kinda tough to 'force' it when it really happens.

As for not laughing, I'm told I don't laugh enough. Hmph. That's why I like to give and to take... ONE of the two of us would be laughing, hehe