Can you give up tickling??

[Musicroxmysox]

Hey everyone.

So today I was wondering: if the right person came along (boy, girl, whatever,) and they weren't really the into tickling type, Would you go Vanilla for them? Hmm... love stronger then tickling desire.

Opinions please! 🙂

 

[milagros317]

I very much doubt it, no.

 

[maniactickler]

No. nothing on this earth is stronger than my tickling desire.

 

[taptoematt]

Yes, without even thinking, I could give it up. Not that I would ever want to , but if I had to, I would. I feel I am in control of my life , not a fetish.

 

[Dussicar]

I could.

There are many women out there that are either not ticklish or absolutely HATE it!

I'm not going to screw up a chance at love due to this fetish.

Besides, there are always foot massages...😉

 

[Tickler Bart]

NO NO NO. NEVER!
She wouldn't be the 'right' person for me if she wasn't into tickling & foot fetish.

 

[SlaverTickler]

Hey everyone.

So today I was wondering: if the right person came along (boy, girl, whatever,) and they weren't really the into tickling type, Would you go Vanilla for them? Hmm... love stronger then tickling desire.

Opinions please! 🙂

If they were "the right person" for me they would be into tickling. In the end I think she would come around, simply because if you want your partner to do for you, you should be willing to do for them. If she isn't going to do what I like, then why should I do what she likes. Life is give and take, not just take and take.

 

[reflexology414]

No!

Simply put, it wouldn't work. I could never be happy with a woman who didn't accept and feel comfortable with my love of tickling. The "right person" for me would be open to this, as it's part of who I am.

 

[Maestro1874]

I've tried it and it wasn't a particularly good experience. I ended up feeling "dirty" about thinking about something with which I had previously been completely comfortable. I did it, hence my more than a year absence from the TMF, but I don't think it was an overly healthy choice. In the end, if you partner is demanding that you change significant portions of your personality, they probably aren't the right person, no matter how much you love them. I learned my lesson, and I won't soon fall for anyone who spends more time criticizing me for my shortcomings than appreciating whatever qualities I do possess!

-Maestro

P.S. Does that qualify as a "rant?"

 

[alex]

I agree with the other commenters:

"right person" + unwillingness to accommodate tickling = not right person

It's that simple.

 

[tkl-pen]

I sometimes wonder if it isn't really a sexual orientation.

 

[yeayeayea]

If you feel forced to sacrifice your love for tickling for your love for another person, it's more likely that just means you're more addicted to the emotions that person makes you feel than what tickling makes you feel. If you and your partner are truly in love, you will find a way to enjoy your desires freely.

 

[Mostly Harmless]

I dunno.
But I definitely will do my best to bring her into my things. After all, "women like chlidren, likes to say no"... and most of their "no's" are just subject of present emotional state.

 

[Capnmad]

If forced to choose...

If I were truly in love,
If she really gave it a chance,
And if, after trying, she found not only that it did nothing for her, but she was averse to it...

Yeah. I could give it up in a heartbeat. My greatest desire would be to best please her.

I value the person most, not some assemblage of proclivities.

Still, let's hope one is fortunate enough to find both.

 

[luvgirlsfeet]

I will "NEVER" surrender my love for tickling even in the afterlife I will still be tickling

 

[MrPartickler]

I tried. I can't. Although I'd trade it in a heartbeat for something easy like holding hands or talking.

Can you imagine... "Oh man, I talked to like 20 women last night... It was awesome. And they totally listened too." lol

 

[ObservingEgo]

I'd give up tickling if she'd give up her not being into tickling!!

Hey everyone.

So today I was wondering: if the right person came along (boy, girl, whatever,) and they weren't really the into tickling type, Would you go Vanilla for them? Hmm... love stronger then tickling desire.

Opinions please! 🙂

 

[Coda]

I'd give up tickling if she'd give up her not being into tickling!!

This is easily the best answer.

 

[Tortuga]

Well before I came back to the TMF, I did give it up for a while. And honestly it was really easy. I don't know I guess my "fetish desire" isn't as strong as most. 😕It just isn't something that I HAVE to have ya know what I mean? As far as going Vanilla....definitely not because I'm into more than just tickling itself...if they don't love me for me then f 'em!

 

[RobAce]

No.

Rob

 

[Cavum]

I would never spend time on a girl if she didn't accept bondage or tickling,
so the awnser is NO. Would never and will never give up tickling. It's such a big part of my life

 

[bmfinyb]

Yes, to me, there is so much more to life than tickling. I positively LOVE tickling and fantisizing about it, but as a previous poster mentioned earlier, it should never be an obstacle for the chance at true love/happiness. Its a fetish that satisfies short-term desires. It does not replace true happiness; There's no way someone could convince me otherwise. But still, everyone, keep tickling!! 🙂

 

[TickleTortureGuy]

If she wasn't into tickling, then she wouldn't be the "right one", now would she??

 

[huskys]

I agree with the other commenters:

"right person" + unwillingness to accommodate tickling = not right person

It's that simple.

I agree with this comment. To try and change who/what you are is not a good thing. It doesn't matter what it is, if you try to change someone, or be changed, then your probably not compatable in the first place.

 

[Cavum]

If she wasn't into tickling, then she wouldn't be the "right one", now would she??

Bingo! Finaly someone who got it!