cross racial or ethnic tickling a prefrence or no big deal?

[BellaRisa]

. There's a bazillion guys here fantasizing about bella

Do whut now?

Eh, I don't have a problem with the fact that people may want to play with me based on what they see, in fact it makes sense; you can't expect folks to fantasize about your personality when they've never met you, it'd be kinda creepy if they did . I have a thing for your larger, gorilla-esque football player types; think Patrick Warburton or any of the characters he voices (ah, Brock Sampson ). I have no idea what the man is really like, and for my fantasies it doesn't matter; he's whatever I want him to be at that time, imagination is a lovely and powerful thing 😉 . Tonight he'll likely be in a Superman costume...but I digress

As for the whole race dealie, I'm sure there are folks out there keeping the 'taboo' cliches alive in 2007, but I gather that most of us have moved on; we love whom we love and tickle whom we tickle for reasons a bit more enlightened than skin color and ethnic background. In a world where you can meet and fall for someone on the other side of the world with reatively few hassles, the exotic factor has greatly diminished, I believe.

Bella

 

[manic971]

I absoultly think that its no big deal at all, in this day and age I fully believe that all people should be mature enough that race shouldn't matter. (I know this isn't what is happening, but I'm idealistic) Yes I have my prefrences, I would like to tickle Asian and African American women over white women, but I don't think that when it comes to women to tickle that race should be an issuse. I guess you could say I'm an equal oppurtunity tickler.

 

[brianspencer66]

Ok, I'm going to try hard to answer this delicately as I can and hope to God I don't offend anyone here. Please let me get my typical no-holds-barred response out first and then let me explain before ya throw the tomatoes?

Now, I do make a big deal of my own heritage, here and everywhere else in my life. I can't help it. I was raised to be proud of my Sicilian roots by people who came here with nothing and made themselves into something. I wouldn't change that if I could and I can't so I won't. And, I love all my friends, no matter what their color. But. I do find the notion of an "opposing racial preference" a little bit off-putting. I don't know why, there's just a "creepy" factor to it that I can't put my finger on.

If some guy wanted me for play because he had a thing for Italian girls, it'd feel...I dunno, like the way breast men always made me feel, does that make any sense at all??? Like, I want to say, "But what about the rest? Would you still like me for me if I was German, if I was flat-chested???"

Another example: Someone mentioned bella. There's a bazillion guys here fantasizing about bella~and why shouldn't they? From all I know about her, she's an incredible lady! But if I were bella, and I certainly can't speak for her, I'd hope you want me for being bella first and foremost and not for being black.

(opens her umbrella and ducks) You can commence the tomato throwing now, thanks for letting me get it out friends.

XOXO

I dont see anything at all that is offensive in your statements. And your points are well taken. I brought your point up because your coming from the other side of the spectrum and may be offended that someone may single you out for being italian.

 

[tcklft]

Well, I prefer Asian and Hispanic women, so x-ethnic fun is perfectly fine by me....

 

[kis123]

who are taller than 5ft6in (I think of that as a masculine trait).

People can't control their race or their height. My daughter is 5'11" with size 11 feet. I am 5'4" and her father is 5'2" tall. We couldn't control it either. My daughter wears dresses, skirts, and flip flops and is by no means masculine unless she's on the basketball court.

People don't get to pick their parents or genetics so calling tall women "masculine" or having "masculine traits" is a little much don't you think??? Models are 6 ft and more and they are the bodies used for fashion modeling which is a very femine career. So I really don't understand the "masculine" comment, but I guess to each his own.

 

[steph]

Thanks Brian! I'm glad you weren't bothered. I guess what I hope is that people will lean more towards seeing past the exterior and pay more attention to what's beneath the surface...I'll keep on dreamin'! 😀

And LOL~tkl pen~you do realize your wishlist describes probably half of this forum, right? I could be wrong but I'd guess the Asian population is maybe 10% here? But, it's good you seem fairly willing to keep your options open, better chance of meeting girls for play! 😉 And about the sig pic that launched a thousand questions? I do think people see some similarities...I'm a little darker/edgier/more ethnic looking but the clothes, pose, expression on her face are very much me.
XOXO

 

[GuldenVleugel]

Generally I don't care for the race. But I find it extraordinary attractive when a black woman gets tickled by several white ones or when a white woman gets tickle-tortured by black ladies.

Racist or not, the boundaries of being more sadistic seem to be lower. Still I love women of all colours. I love race "tickle" wars.

Ticklecentral has one great ebony model called Apple. Check her out, as she always gets tickled by white women. If she's the 'ler, she always tickles white women. While at it she verbally teases them to insanity.

I love it. 🙂

 

[Deadsea7777]

And about the sig pic....... the clothes, pose, expression on her face are very much me.
XOXO

REAAAAALLLYYYY!!!!!??????, in that pose?

OH God, my lord, give a chance to find her lost in an island with no escape, and I promise I climb the Everest without oxigen and bunge-jumping from there.

 

[GuldenVleugel]

Also, living in a society that's 95% white, I always seem to be especially attracted to black ladies when, for instance, I'm in the bus or walk to the library (which is in a black neighbourhood, even though we don't have ghettos luckily, it are places were 50% is black and the rest white. It's not like in Harlem, because you often see groups of black people talking to white friends, or a white person walking outside an African café etc..., they're mostly Congolese).

Reason, I only see them when I go to the city. If I go outside a radius of 5 km of Antwerp I almost see only white people for loooong distances. A second reason is because black women have different feet then I am used to, and they wear sandals just as often as our own women. Still they're just as attractive.
Also Asian women differ anatomically from us in that respect.

P.S.: I'm not a horny lurker who's always focused at the feet he sees when outside. Most of the times I read a book when in the bus or so. 🙂
P.P.S.: I like our own women, just as much as black women or Asian women in that respect, or even native American women (whom are rare in Europe, but I know one hot Mexican woman who's half-native). Perhaps I like my own women even more, but that's because of cultural reasons. I don't care for the race in that respect.

 

[aurora5150]

Ok, I'm going to try hard to answer this delicately as I can and hope to God I don't offend anyone here. Please let me get my typical no-holds-barred response out first and then let me explain before ya throw the tomatoes?

Now, I do make a big deal of my own heritage, here and everywhere else in my life. I can't help it. I was raised to be proud of my Sicilian roots by people who came here with nothing and made themselves into something. I wouldn't change that if I could and I can't so I won't. And, I love all my friends, no matter what their color. But. I do find the notion of an "opposing racial preference" a little bit off-putting. I don't know why, there's just a "creepy" factor to it that I can't put my finger on.

If some guy wanted me for play because he had a thing for Italian girls, it'd feel...I dunno, like the way breast men always made me feel, does that make any sense at all??? Like, I want to say, "But what about the rest? Would you still like me for me if I found out I was adopted and actually was German, if I was flat-chested???"

Another example: Someone mentioned bella. There's a bazillion guys here fantasizing about bella~and why shouldn't they? From all I know about her, she's an incredible lady! But if I were bella, and I certainly can't speak for her, I'd hope you want me for being bella first and foremost and not for being black.

(opens her umbrella and ducks) You can commence the tomato throwing now, thanks for letting me get it out friends.

XOXO

steph you are right on. i want to be with a ler because we enjoy each other. being a great ler is also a plus. i don't care what color my ler is, just as long as we have fun.

steph i love ya woman.!

 

[BellaRisa]

Wow

the library (which is in a black neighbourhood, even though we don't have ghettos

A black neighborhood that's not a ghetto? Really?? How'd they do that, is it even legal??? 🙄

 

[GuldenVleugel]

A black neighborhood that's not a ghetto? Really?? How'd they do that, is it even legal??? 🙄

Well, I mean of course a neighbourhood which has more people of the same minority group. It's always the case with immigrants to move to places where there's a lot of their own culture.
When Flemish moved to the US, most went to Wisconsin. Nowadays nearly all speak English as their mother tongue. It was not a real ghetto IMO, because there was no real segregation.

Being white and European they had little troubles fitting into their society. Also, there was little hatred toward the local people. Also in the area where there are more blacks I notice little racism toward whites, which I sadly DO notice in Detroit projects or Harlem, calling us white interlopers etc... It's sad.

With ghetto I mean complete isolation.

P.S.: We also have our hispanic immigrants, and what I notice. Over here they're pretty much welcomed just as they're locals. If I go to California I gotta be careful with Latin people, as they are the cause of some high criminality rates. Yet I am talking about the same Mexicans, Puerto Ricans, etc...
Same with Italian-Americans in NJ. I notice high criminality rates. In Limburg where there's almost 300,000 of them Italians, they almost cause no problem.

P.P.S.: I am of course talking about Antwerp and Flanders in general. If you go to Brussels you do notice dangerous black gangs etc... That's because it's controlled by chauvinistic Frenchies. 😛 Not in Antwerp luckily. I even notice improvement in this group, as they no longer try to scam people on the street, which was the case 5 years ago.
That's why I don't label this a ghetto. A ghetto is a terrible place IMO. 🙂

 

[tkl-pen]

Sorry if I offended kis123 - I didn't mean to - but I must say that for me there's nothing attractive about a girl nearly six feet tall and with big size 11 feet - my son, though, would love her - as far as models go, none of them look healthy to me with tall, skinny, bony bodies; long faces like horses and big, floppy feet like clowns - and they come nowhere near representing the majority of women - but I knew I'd get it if I posted my opinion.

 

[djhalo07]

Oh yeah...

After reading everything in here I have to say that being an african-american male... it doesn't matter to me what they (female lees) are... Tall, short, big, small, large feet, small feet, or whatever race... as long as they are genuinely ticklish and squirming underneath my fingers or whatever I use it's a good session... And if they carry themselves well that's definitely a plus... may sound like a copout but that's how I feel about this subject... and that's my 2 cents...

 

[steph]

LMAO! You cutie deadsea! You weren't here when Ray's place was up~I was his first non-pro model and the pose shot started it...

Love ya back aurora!
XOXO

REAAAAALLLYYYY!!!!!??????, in that pose?

OH God, my lord, give a chance to find her lost in an island with no escape, and I promise I climb the Everest without oxigen and bunge-jumping from there.

 

[NG02]

I have a thing for your larger, gorilla-esque football player types; think Patrick Warburton or any of the characters he voices (ah, Brock Sampson ).

Dammit now why couldnt I be taller with a bit more mass

 

[P[a]pi]

Well, I don't love Meka because she is black, but I love it that she is black.

Her being black (and me being white) adds something to our relationship that wouldn't be there if she was white (or I was black).

And I like that added, special something.

It's not about having a color requirement. It's about being open minded.

But, being with Meka has made me physically like black females more. Like, I notice them more.

And falling in love with a black woman has changed me some, in a good way.

 

[BellaRisa]

Dammit now why couldnt I be taller with a bit more mass

LOL hon, the man I married is 5'5 and weighs maybe a buck 70; variety is the spice of life 😀

Bella

 

[brianspencer66]

Well, I mean of course a neighbourhood which has more people of the same minority group. It's always the case with immigrants to move to places where there's a lot of their own culture.
When Flemish moved to the US, most went to Wisconsin. Nowadays nearly all speak English as their mother tongue. It was not a real ghetto IMO, because there was no real segregation.

Being white and European they had little troubles fitting into their society. Also, there was little hatred toward the local people. Also in the area where there are more blacks I notice little racism toward whites, which I sadly DO notice in Detroit projects or Harlem, calling us white interlopers etc... It's sad.

With ghetto I mean complete isolation.

P.S.: We also have our hispanic immigrants, and what I notice. Over here they're pretty much welcomed just as they're locals. If I go to California I gotta be careful with Latin people, as they are the cause of some high criminality rates. Yet I am talking about the same Mexicans, Puerto Ricans, etc...
Same with Italian-Americans in NJ. I notice high criminality rates. In Limburg where there's almost 300,000 of them Italians, they almost cause no problem.

P.P.S.: I am of course talking about Antwerp and Flanders in general. If you go to Brussels you do notice dangerous black gangs etc... That's because it's controlled by chauvinistic Frenchies. 😛 Not in Antwerp luckily. I even notice improvement in this group, as they no longer try to scam people on the street, which was the case 5 years ago.
That's why I don't label this a ghetto. A ghetto is a terrible place IMO. 🙂

Dude you seem like a nice guy and all but I think you are sort of taking one foot out your mouth and putting the other in here. We are not talking about ethnic criminality here as you have managed to implicate all kinds of groups with that. We are simply talking about cross cultural tickling and at most the possible politics involved. 😀

 

[BellaRisa]

Sorry if I offended...I knew I'd get it if I posted my opinion.

Um, no, posting your opinion is fine; it's posting insults that causes strife. You can discuss the physical attributes of women that you prefer without being negative about those you don't care for. I'm 4'11 and thin only describes my patience 😎 ; I adore men who prefer shorter and curvier ladies. But that doesn't mean that taller and slimmer girls have 'clown' feet or 'horse' faces, gee whiz . You can have a firm opinion and preference and still be kind.

Bella

 

[brianspencer66]

People can't control their race or their height. My daughter is 5'11" with size 11 feet. I am 5'4" and her father is 5'2" tall. We couldn't control it either. My daughter wears dresses, skirts, and flip flops and is by no means masculine unless she's on the basketball court.

People don't get to pick their parents or genetics so calling tall women "masculine" or having "masculine traits" is a little much don't you think??? Models are 6 ft and more and they are the bodies used for fashion modeling which is a very femine career. So I really don't understand the "masculine" comment, but I guess to each his own.

Just for the record Kis. Size makes no diffrence to me 😛

 

[kis123]

Talk about a lob pitch!!!!!

Sorry if I offended kis123 - I didn't mean to - but I must say that for me there's nothing attractive about a girl nearly six feet tall and with big size 11 feet - my son, though, would love her - as far as models go, none of them look healthy to me with tall, skinny, bony bodies; long faces like horses and big, floppy feet like clowns - and they come nowhere near representing the majority of women - but I knew I'd get it if I posted my opinion.

I guess the good news is my child attracts more men than she could handle and doesn't need your approval of her anyway. She could actually care less about your opinion, but I care because it directly insults my kid. You wouldn't like it if someone made lowball cracks about your kid would you?? Then again......who knows right??

Here's something to consider; how about stating your preferences without the negative commentaries towards what you don't like??

 

[kis123]

Just for the record Kis. Size makes no diffrence to me 😛

Thank you!

Even if it did make a difference to you, that's okay because people have their preferences. I'm not saying that people aren't allowed an opinion (even if I don't agree with it). I'm just saying to state it without being insulting or demeaning about it.

Then again, I can't control people's responses even if I don't like them right?

 

[Deleted member 2452]

i have played with non white women.

it was fun! orientals , in my experience, are the most ticklish.
black women in my experience don't have ticklish feet. but that may be that they didn't take very good care of ther feet too?
i also have to admit i find the idea of a lady of color tickling me, to be quite erotic. just the thought of being tickled by a woman like kis 123, sends chills through me. the good kind, lol

 

[GuldenVleugel]

Dude you seem like a nice guy and all but I think you are sort of taking one foot out your mouth and putting the other in here. We are not talking about ethnic criminality here as you have managed to implicate all kinds of groups with that. We are simply talking about cross cultural tickling and at most the possible politics involved. 😀

I agree to have stretched it far too off topic. Bella Risa was making a joke anyway. Well sorta joking, as there will always be cultural differences. 🙂 Finally a racial topic that is pleasant and non-generalizing, I agree, lets keep it on tickling as the main subject.