DEEP, possibly depressing topic

[lk70]

OK...you're sitting in your living room, family room, den..whatever.

Across from you is sitting the person you choose to spend your life with. Not the person you ended up with due to circumstances...not necessarily the person you ended up with before you found Josie's site, or Jack's Rack or TMF....not the person who is a good mother/father....but the person you really really are meant to be with. Never mind if that person is really possible or logical.

Describe that person.

 

[TicklishLurker]

Who needs a description? I've got pictures. 😉

I know - no chance in Hell I'd ever meet him. And I sincerely doubt he'd want me when he can have any super model or that blond lady from ET he was flirting so heavily with. But a gal can dream.

 

[venray]

You have met her....My wife Tracy.....

(second time around is good if one learns from past mistakes)

 

[Mimi]

Sure thing.

He stands about 5'11'', and weighs in around 220lbs. He has black hair nearly to his waist and dark hazel eyes. He sports a neatly trimmed moustache and goatee on his sexy face, and a tear drop tattoo below his left eye in memory of his daughter who sadly passed away back in 1996. He has a second tattoo on his left bicep which consists of a cross and a heart, also in memory of his first daughter. He has an adorable smile and legs like cannons. His beautifully muscular form can toss my sizeable body around like a rag doll. He also has a fabulous ass. He is a retired Indy Wrestler who went by the ring name Xtreme. He is 33 years old.

He is extremely funny, gifted with voice and character impersonations, and a total riot with his quick witty comebacks. He is very intelligent, but not so vain that he can not admit when he does not know the answer to something, or admit when he is wrong. He is patient, loving, playful, affectionate, and one of the best damn Daddy's in the world. He treats me like a queen, telling me every day how much he loves me, and never missing an opportunity to tell me know beautiful he thinks I am. He loves to cuddle and give massages and make me feel good in any way he can. He is incredibly faithful and loyal and devoted to me and only me. He spoils me rotten and lets me have anything I want that is within our means. He gets up with the kids in the morning and makes them breakfast while I sleep in...even if he was up until the wee hours of the morning the night before.

He is a fellow ticklephile and is mind-blowing in the sack. He adores every inch of my plus sized curves and knows just how to handle them. His touch is soft and caressing, and his gaze is deep and unwavering.

He is my knight in shiming armor. He is everything I ever fantasized my dream man would be, and then some. And the greatest part of all is that he's 100% real, and all mine.

His name is Wil. Many on the forum know him as Lazarus. And he is the man I choose to be with for the rest of my life.

Mimi 😉

 

[Myriads]

Empty Chair.

Myriads

 

[ChosenofMystra]

At this point I highly doubt I'll ever find that right person to settle down with. Most people these days are more shallow than puddles, if you don't look like Tom Cruise or have $$$ coming out the wazoo than you're not even worth looking at.

Doesn't matter if you have an actual personality or sense of wit about you; a materialistic lifestyle is all that matters!

Ahhh angst...my old and dear comrade! Its been much too long since we've last spoken? How have you been? How's our companion Misery as well? 😀

 

[german]

Well that has to be Dani, if she can put up with me she is special.

Kust

 

[Tickle Avenger]

The girl that wants to be me best friend, especially threw hard times

 

[Mastertank1]

She has the following characteristics....

in order of relative importance.

1) She has above average intelligence

2) She is highly articulate

3) She is self-sufficient and independant; she is with me because she wants to be, not because she needs to be or has to be

4) By her own choice, she is highly submissive sexually, but only sexually

5) Her personality has a basic sweetness to it, and includes kindness and a tendancy to nurture

6) She has no 'politically correct' problem with me acting as her protector

7) She has a face which is not unpleasant to look at, and when she smiles she becomes pretty (this is a minimum, not an absolute or maximum)

8) She is very ticklish, especially on her feet

9) When tickled, she giggles or laughs rather than grunting, screaming or cackling

10) She is willing to be bound and tickled by me; if only by me, that's okay

Items above this point are necessary; to not have them could be a deal breaker. below this point are desireable bonuses, but NOT absolute requirements.

11) She should be physically substantial, with some serious flesh on her bones, and strong enough not to break if I give her an affectionate squeeze

12) She should be well informed, and especially so in some areas where I am not

13) She should be willing to both teach me and learn from me, as appropriate in different areas of knowledge

14) If we have a difference of opinion, the discussion should be a determination of why two intelligent people disagree; does one of us know something about the matter that the other doesn't, or is it a matter of different interpretations of what the facts mean? It should not be an argument driven by who is wrong and who is right. (That's an attempt to follow the example set by my parents!)

15) She should have pretty feet; not too skinny, no protruding veins or tendons

16) She should have a sweet, musical laugh

17) She should have an appreciation for fine food and drink

18) She should have some appreciation for the arts, both fine and performing

19) Her taste in music should be eclectic

20) She should enjoy cuddling after ticklesex until we fall asleep

A woman with all of the above qualities would be my ideal significant other.

Ladies, if the above sounds like a description of you, and you are currently or soon to be single, I'm not hard to find. PM me.

 

[tickleshotel]

I am going to try to describe him,I haven;t met him yet so I am going on what I visualize.

These are the qualities I believe he will have among other characteristics that make him unique and special. The qualities that really attact me are sincere,honest,sensitive and expresses his emotions fully,very affectionate ,playful,spontaneous and loves tickling and being tickled as well as tickling me one on one as well as being happy tickling me along with others This guy will be just as adored,loved by me in the morning when his hair is maybe in a mess as when he is dressed superb when we go out to a nice place for Dinner . He can have a shy side but I would love for him to be pretty social as I really enjoy being around other people ,but he will also be quite content spending time alone with each other ..
Searching,but not worried as I am moving forward improving my own life and living each day to it;s fullest 😎

 

[ticklishscribe]

I haven't met this person yet...

And I wonder if I ever will...

Take it from me, you never really know someone. I've been very badly hurt here and by a person I would never have even imagined would hurt me.

 

[hiltopoius]

I know what love is

Here is my story:

This woman that i always wanted to be with visits me maybe four times a month, I knew her for years and always had a huge crush on her , every time i get up the courage to ask her out in the past she always was always in a relationship......Well now we are grown ,.....the very best of friends ,...and share much conversation about the past, present, and future. She recently told me that if i was not so slow at asking her out when she was single; she would have been with me forever......Now she is married with two kids and I have never lost my feelings for this woman with a vanilla life style from mine.

I know she is my true sole mate and i missed out ,......It hurt even more when i found out she was extremely ticklish eveywhere and loves to laugh.

You might ask ,what is the meaning of this story to what lynn is trying to say, ....well,.....Im writing this story and its 2:00 AM and she is sitting on my lap right now while im writing this letter with tears in her eyes because we both know its true and she should be home with her family before we do something that is unforgivable........I love this woman and cannot have her ,....(one of the curves that life has thrown at me ) 🙁

 

[LindyHopper]

I would like to unask the question. 😉

I dislike the idea of having some profile in your mind for the person you were "meant" to be with. That implies that every time you meet someone new, you're auditioning them for the role of "perfect lifemate" (which I think is what most people actually do when they date). I believe that approach leads to either settling for less than what you want, or living your life out alone, because inevitably, every person you meet is going to be lacking in some way from your ideal.

Instead, I advocate encountering each new person in your life, and allowing your relationship with them to evolve into whatever shape suits the two of you best. Instead of trying to make them fit your ideal, like pounding two puzzle pieces together until they lie flat, explore your edges together, and find the way they fit naturally. Maybe it's just at one corner, or along this one edge if you turn one of them upside down. The fit doesn't need to be "perfect" because "perfection" is not your goal.

For myself, I have a relationship that evolved into a "husband and wife" one. He's a person who's company I enjoy, who shares many of my interests, who listens to me, who is the person I want to build a life with, raise children, and grow old together. And I love him. I don't have to wish that he was more into tickling, or swing dancing, because those parts of my soul are fulfillied by my relationships with other people. Instead, I get to appreciate him for what he is, and for all the beautiful ways that we fit together. I believe that a real relationship, in all its glory, beats a "perfect" one any day. 🙂

 

[storyteller]

Someone who loves, trusts, and accepts me for who I am and may become, whatever quirks and moods, AND who dares to be loved, trusted, and accepted for all he is and may become, whatever quirks and moods. Someone who brings out the best in me and in whom I do the same. Someone who is faithful, not afraid of tears or laughter, and who is good hugger. I know I've posted this on an earlier thread...Oh well, still holds.

 

[ticklingfeet4fu]

LK70 - You met my lady. What do you think??? I wasn't even looking for her and she ended up being everything I could possible dream of. Those of you that don't know, I am talking about my better-half Sadira. She is a dream lady who came into my life at just the right time in my life. I never thought I was ever that lucky.

 

[Krokus]

Empty Chair.

Myriads

Ditto it would seem! The more I think about it, the less scary it truly is.

Take it from me, you never really know someone.

So true. It's funny. You invest YEARS into a relationship... be it friendship or whatever... you feel as though you know this person in and out, moreso than thier own parents/siblings even... and then, BAM

They hurt you in a way that only they can. And for some reason... it hurts more than any pain you have ever felt in your life.

You have these ideas in your heart about how you think you will end up, and you play these little reverse-psychology games... thinking you know what they are TRULY thinking...

Then reality kicks you square in the ass.

I know that feeling all too well. And you know what else I know?



You can't trust anyone. ANYONE. I don't care how long you have known them, I don't care how close you are. When it comes down to it, the only person that YOU and your friend/partner/lover cares about is THEMSELVES. Nobody has proven me wrong yet, and nobody ever will.

If you are reading this and shaking your head... Don't take it from me, give it time. And remember what I said when you feel the pain.

 

[Lionhart]

Haven't met Ms Purrfect yet but to me it's all about the thrill of the chase, and having fun getting to know different women, and their personalities. They all have something fantastic to offer if you try to distance your thoughts from what the ultimate outcome will be.. Sooner or later, she turn up.

 

[AffectionateDan]

Here's my story, sad but true
It's about a girl that I once knew
She took my love then ran around
With every single guy in town
Ah, I should have known it from the very start
This girl will leave me with a broken heart
Now listen people what I'm telling you
A-keep away from-a Runaround Sue

I miss her lips and the smile on her face
The touch of her hair and this girl's warm embrace
So if you don't wanna cry like I do
A-keep away from-a Runaround Sue

Ah, she likes to travel around
She'll love you but she'll put you down
Now people let me put you wise
Sue goes out with other guys
Here's the moral and the story from the guy who knows
I fell in love and my love still grows
Ask any fool that she ever knew, they'll say
Keep away from-a Runaround Sue

She likes to travel around
She'll love you but she'll put you down
Now people let me put you wise
Sue goes out with other guys
Here's the moral and the story from the guy who knows
I fell in love and my love still grows
Ask any fool that she ever knew, they'll say
Keep away from-a Runaround Sue

 

[TklDuo-Ann]

Many of you know the guy sitting in my chair. His name is Drew. He's my hubby.

I have to agree with LindyHopper here, though. I never liked the idea of having a preconceived image in your mind of who/what you're looking for. Too many people I know have done that, picked someone they thought fit the bill and are miserable. I'd rather have a few things in mind that are important to be able to share with that person, perhaps a couple of things you wouldn't be open towards and leave the rest open for some variety and surprise. Trying to fit people into a mold of some sort just leads to disappointment.

Ann

 

[Haltickling]

Once there was a woman, and I thought that she could be the person for that special chair. We had a wonderful relationship (18 years, 12 of them married), even including our tickling fetish, and our love culminated in two wonderful daughters.

But times change, and so do people. We parted a long time ago, because our lives guided us into two different directions.

Now that chair is empty, and it will remain so. I guess I already had more than my share of happiness, so I won't complain.

 

[BrightEyes1082]

Here's my story, sad but true
It's about a girl that I once knew
She took my love then ran around
With every single guy in town
Ah, I should have known it from the very start
This girl will leave me with a broken heart
Now listen people what I'm telling you
A-keep away from-a Runaround Sue

I miss her lips and the smile on her face
The touch of her hair and this girl's warm embrace
So if you don't wanna cry like I do
A-keep away from-a Runaround Sue

Ah, she likes to travel around
She'll love you but she'll put you down
Now people let me put you wise
Sue goes out with other guys
Here's the moral and the story from the guy who knows
I fell in love and my love still grows
Ask any fool that she ever knew, they'll say
Keep away from-a Runaround Sue

She likes to travel around
She'll love you but she'll put you down
Now people let me put you wise
Sue goes out with other guys
Here's the moral and the story from the guy who knows
I fell in love and my love still grows
Ask any fool that she ever knew, they'll say
Keep away from-a Runaround Sue

This is on the playlist at the wedding!! You'd better dance with me!! 🙂

The person I choose to spend the rest of my life with?

 

[Coffee]

I have a problem because i think i was already her. She was the womean i had always wanted to be with and circumstances kept us apart. Then one day she walked back into my life and the whirlwind ride began. I have always wanted to be with her and i think i was meant to be with her. Unfortuniately after living together she discovered that i wasnt the one she was meant to be with. I was crushed. I still hold a spot for her inmy heart although i know she will never fill it again. On the positive side I was very lucky to have her in my life as i did for that time. I will never forget her.

 

[lk70]

Lindy and Ann-

Forgive me, but you might be missing the point. Someone can certainly say that their ideal mate has no particular qualities but is someone with whom they can grow and learn and that's a valid answer and the one you guys apparently think is correct.

But most people have some thoughts in their head about qualities they absolutely must have and they're entitled to that as well. It's valid too.

I respect you both, but your posts come off as a little judgmental to me. And I know you're not like that.

Thanks everyone for your input.

 

[BikerBadBoy]

The one who makes my heart skip a beat. Plain and simple. That's how I know.

 

[Snail Shell]

Knowing me, a cat.

Some fish aren't meant to be caught. 🙂

Snail Shell