Do ladies prefer soft tickles? (My experiences)

[witchtickler]

"is a soft and slooooow teasing tickle your preference?"

Yes, it is my preference. Mostly out of physical necessity~I am a big wimp, I hate pain and I bruise easily, so there ya go!
XOXO

OMG!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Steph your answer made me fall right out of my chair and sprain my tickle finger But what an answer

witchtickler

 

[witchtickler]

I love this question! Yes, I love soft tickles. There is nothing more exciting for me than being restrained and feeling the long drag of a feather stroking my bare soles and toes. I soon begin to giggle and laugh as the feather gradually stimulates my sensitive spots between my tender toes. My bf is sooooooooooo patient with the feather, and he knows I love it so.

WOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! If only I can have been the feather

witchtickler

 

[steph]

It's true hon...I had one guy tell me I was "lazy man's dream lee." He's like, "I hardly have to touch you!" How funny is that??
XOXO

OMG!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Steph your answer made me fall right out of my chair and sprain my tickle finger But what an answer

witchtickler

 

[AffectionateDan]

Sofffffffft and sensual.... MMmmmmm!!!!

I very recently had a lady tickle friend (we only meet for our fun tickle sessions and maybe lunch, but we are just friends and she is a really nice person with a beautiful heart who just loves to be tickled) say to me," I love when you tickle me, because you tickle to "tickle" and hear me laugh, and not to torture me, I LOVE that about you!"

Now that was a beautiful compliment.

Yes, truly high praise! And outstanding that you realize how lucky you are to have appreciative playmates, too! I'm a huge fan of the soft, slow tickle, but it's also good (and sometimes neccessary) to just dig in for a firm tickle as well, depending on where you're tickling (and whom). Everyone has their own partickler tastes on how they love to be touched, but I love it when someone you're playing with compliments your touch. Positive feedback is yummy. And it makes you wanna make them happy, so you do it more! Hee! Life is good!

Full body shivers, quivering from head to toe, and all the while wanting more and more and more. *sigh* There is so much joy to be had in ticking.

Yay for shivers! Amen, Mimi... here's to a lifetime of laughter!

I don't like them too hard OR too soft... I like them just right. 😀

C'mere, Goldilocks... there's a bear that wants to have a word with you about that...

 

[Tcklsh_Kandy]

It's true hon...I had one guy tell me I was "lazy man's dream lee." He's like, "I hardly have to touch you!" How funny is that??
XOXO

That must mean you are SUPER ticklish like me . If someone just walks by me and just touches my sides to get by ,it tickles .And my sides aren't my worst spot . 😱

 

[natural tickler]

That must mean you are SUPER ticklish like me . If someone just walks by me and just touches my sides to get by ,it tickles .And my sides aren't my worst spot . 😱

I wonder what is your worst spot....hehehe

 

[jaba]

The super ticklish ones like Kandy are Heavenly!

That must mean you are SUPER ticklish like me . If someone just walks by me and just touches my sides to get by ,it tickles .And my sides aren't my worst spot . 😱

I was in a wonderful "tickle encounter" with a lady just a few nites ago who is horribly ticklish on her feet, and her feet are so sensitive that even a moderately pressured foot rub she says is unbearable. She has an awesome laugh that gives me chills when I hear her REALLY get laughing (she feeds my laugh fetish, which is as strong as my tickle fetish).
Anyway, I like to lightly place the tips of my fingers on her soles just under the balls of her feet. Just this light pressure tickles her fiercely, so she tries to move her feet from my fingers. I tied her feet securely with silk scarves, so her movements just caused my fingertips to sweep lightly across her soles, but she was unable to pull her feet from my fingers because of the scarves. Her predicament (she could not hold her feet still because my fingertips tickled, but her involuntary foot movement tickled worse) caused my lady friend to roar with laughter, and we stopped frenquently to let her breath and mercifully lay back and relax between tickles. We both were drained (she physically and me emotionally), and afterward we took a loooonnng nap together, listening to some classic jazz tunes under a celing fan.

I STILL get goosebumps even now when I hear her laughter in my mind.....(smile)

So Kandy, I can imagine your predicament! (Ha,ha)

 

[isabeau]

hmmm

having never been tickled on purpose i havent an idea which would tickle more. i do know this, when i lightly tickle the bottom of my feet, only for a few seconds , it tickles something really wicked. i have a feeling that slow, light teasingly types of tickles would absolutely drive me wild. and since i'm ticklish everywhere, wouldnt be hard to establish where i am and am not ticklish

isabeau

 

[Lady Malice]

I love to be tickled softly because it drives me crazy. I am able to handle it for a longer time than being tickled more aggressively. I also do not end up with bruises this way.

 

[The Sean Man]

I used to use soft tickling on an ex-girlfriend of mine. I'd brush my fingers lightly over her underarms, sides, and inner thighs and she...would...go...INSANE! Made her randy as hell, too 😉

 

[Abellytickler1980]

I like to use soft touches generally, unless she has torture coming to her. If she has made me angry or not been nice, she gets the torture. Otherwise, keep it nice and smooth.

 

[sugarmouse]

if i get tickled softly i ican literally climax!! i go mad........cnt stop wriggling.....want it now!!lol

 

[jaba]

your boyfriend can learn to tickle this way!

I don't know if I've met anyone who's been good at a slow teasing tickle to know.








It took me a LOT of tickling and watching the laughing reactions of my lady friends to get the desired effect. Many tell me now that thay would have not have my tickling "any other way"......

As long as they are happy and they laugh with the intensity I seek, why change?

We all get what we want! (Smile)

 

[Iwon'tgrowup]

Jaba, may I encourage you?

I was in a wonderful "tickle encounter" with a lady just a few nites ago who is horribly ticklish on her feet . . .

My friend, there is a great contribution for the story section lurking in here. We people who like the soft sensuality of tickling (when it works!) would love for you to write it. Thanks for this post!

 

[aticklishguy]

I have found that the soft slow tickling can bring about the same helpless laughter that a hard tickling can. It is much less painfull as well.
Lightly stroking a helpless underarms, or stroking along bare feet can still bring someone to hysterics. The nice part about it is that is can be a bit more controlled...aren't helpless giggles just as wonderful?

 

[jaba]

Thanks for the words of encouragement.....

My friend, there is a great contribution for the story section lurking in here. We people who like the soft sensuality of tickling (when it works!) would love for you to write it. Thanks for this post!

I may describe my next "tickle encounter" (which hopefully should be next week) in the story section.......I will let you know, ok?
Thanks

And you are correct. Tickling, when done properly, is extremely, stimulatingly, sensual........her body does not lie to me....(smile)

 

[prettybarefeet]

Hi my name is Monique and I adore soft tickles on my toes.

 

[tommytikl]

I love to be tickled softly because it drives me crazy. I am able to handle it for a longer time than being tickled more aggressively. I also do not end up with bruises this way.

Welcome Lady Malice!
I remember meeting you at one of Josie's NYST events!
Good to have you aboard!

And yes soft tickles are awesome, both giving and taking 🙂

 

[jaba]

it's a ticklers dilema....

I love to be tickled softly because it drives me crazy.

With a teasing tickling tecnique, I have to really pay attention to my ticklee, because whereas a more agressive tickling can cause an "ouch!" or screaming and yelling, my soft teasing tickles has caused such uncontrolled laughter that I must stop frequently to let my ticklee breathe. A few of my lady friends are unable to tell me to stop due to their laughter, so I really watch their body language to determine when they need a break.....after we "both" (smile) regain composure, its back to the soft stroking of that perfect tickle spot that brings the symphony of laughter that I love....

We go just to the limits of "tickled to insanity", but I try my hardest not to cross that line (ha ha)....

 

[R. Davis]

Many women do enjoy soft tickling!

My current lady friend, enjoys being tickled slow and softly around the neck,underarms and ribs. I really get alot of playful giggling stroking her feet with different paint brushes, especially around the toes.

 

[jaba]

I try real hard......

I eventually (after a loooong time) take my tickles above her ankles and to many other ticklish spots...

It's just that there are SO many tickle locations on her soles, feet and toes, that I can literally spend hours slowly searching and finding them all (my slow tickle strokes with a feather right along her arches and just under her toes is delightfully ticklish)

we usually try to reserve an entire day for our tickle play, if time permits.

Thats why we are so exausted when we are done....

 

[jaba]

My "Chocolate Sunday"

having never been tickled on purpose i havent an idea which would tickle more. i do know this, when i lightly tickle the bottom of my feet, only for a few seconds , it tickles something really wicked. i have a feeling that slow, light teasingly types of tickles would absolutely drive me wild. and since i'm ticklish everywhere, wouldnt be hard to establish where i am and am not ticklish

isabeau

Isabeau's comments remind me of tickle encounter last sunday evening.

I tied my lady tickle friend to her sofa with soft, thick rope, and her feet were tied dangling over the edge of the sofa and her arms were tied above her head exposing her armpits.

After blindfolding her, I told her that I was really hungry for a "Chocolate Sunday", and I asked her if she would give me one. She smiled and let out a giggle and said, "I would give you one if I had one, but I don't so i can't give you one".....

From my tickle bag, I opened a small jar of chocolate syrup, and I also took out ten Q-tips and placed them on a pillow on the floor just below her bound feet. She could not see my actions and the quizzed look on her face was priceless.

I then removed her white sneakers and socks (we had walked to the local store for some snacks earlier) and placed them on top of her legs.

I dipped my first Q-tip into the chocolate syrup, and I slowly inserted the chocolate tip between my lady friends toes.....and swirled the Q-tip between her toes, filling the space as best I could with chocolate.

When she first felt the sensation, she said "Oh no", and then she let out an "ahhhhh, ahhhhh", and she reflexively clenched her toes. I kept slowly twirling, because I could tell by the look on her sweet face that her laugh attack was quickly approaching.....

I smiled and kept twirling the Q-tip between her clenched toes..... and then it came! She let out a torrent of beautiful laughter and arched her back and popped her shoes and socks from her legs onto the floor!

As she laughed, the whole scene caused me to fall back and laugh, (the chocolate Q-tip was sticking out from between her toes and she tried to wriggle her toes to free the Q-tip).

I asked her if she was ok, and she said she was, but that it tickled "really bad"....

I told her that I had nine more "chocolate Q-tips" to go and asked her if she could handle it. She said that she would try as best as she could, but she could not promise me that she could let me finish.

She tried her hardest, but I could see after six chocolate Q-tips that she was exausted from laughter (plus she got a foot cramp, ha ha), and I made her promise that if we stopped now I could ''work on the other four Q-tips real soon".

She is such a sweetheart, and we went to dinner after our "encounter.

After dinner when the waitress asked us if we wanted dessert. I asked the waitress if she had a chocolate sundae, and we both laughed, and I am sure the waitress thought we acted like juveniles....(smile)

 

[luvn2laf]

Nice story. Makes me wish my feet were more ticklish.

 

[Mimi]

What a great story, Jaba! Thanks for sharing it!

I know from my own personal experiences as both a lee AND a ler that Q-Tips are horrendously ticklish on the soles and between the toes! Makes me squirm just thinking about it. 😱


Mimi 😀

 

[steph]

Awesome story Jaba!

Don't y'all find that Q-Tips are devastating pretty much EVERYWHERE?? I know they are on me...
XOXO

What a great story, Jaba! Thanks for sharing it!

I know from my own personal experiences as both a lee AND a ler that Q-Tips are horrendously ticklish on the soles and between the toes! Makes me squirm just thinking about it. 😱


Mimi 😀