Do you fight giving in to sensation?

[dvnc]

I'll echo Bella's "time" sentiment and add another - Trust. Remember first interacting with us, here. Remember the first time you met many of us.

That was within your son's lifetime. He's tiny.

Time and trust.

When you've trust enough for a trustable top, and time enough to not only know what you want, but have already experienced it, you'll reach for more. You do that, mentally, already. 'S all good.

 

[Miss Serendipity]

See, that's what I want to be able to do. To just let whatever happen, happen. I've done it in small pieces and it does make me able to feel the tickling ten times more.

And, Snail, that's a really good point. But, not all 'human beings' are capable of withholding or fighting. Most of them give in right at the get go. Regardless of the person causing the responses.

I have to agree I want to be able to just let go too! I've done it in pieces as well but to be able to just lie there and let it all overcome me. I think the would be an amazing experience! I've never been to let go, I've always fought and struggled.

 

[Iris]

i struggle and i fight.... I try my hardest to let go.. verrrry hard for me... I did find one man to break me though and it was totally amazing!!!!! just about 2 months ago..... so better late than never...... yippeeeeee... "Oh what a feeling" TICKLEUNIVERSE YOU ROCK MY WORLD@!!!!

 

[Laffy Daffy]

I fight it to a certain point. There's a certain amount of resistance that I think is part of the tickler/ticklee relationship. And then, the longer it goes on, and the better the ler, the sensation eventually overwhelms me to the point that I have to give in a laugh. I think that's the fun of the whole thing.

 

[love feet]

See, that's what I want to be able to do. To just let whatever happen, happen. I've done it in small pieces and it does make me able to feel the tickling ten times more.

And, Snail, that's a really good point. But, not all 'human beings' are capable of withholding or fighting. Most of them give in right at the get go. Regardless of the person causing the responses.

Hi CrystalLight;

Find someone that will force you to surrender no matter how dominant you are in life . than have them keep your mind there for the session
how you get your dominants back... is surrender to that someone !
I hope this is clear for you?

 

[♡AimLEE♡]

amazinggg!

 

[P4E]

I always fight sensation...but then I guess that's me...the only time I don't is when I'm in my car on a race track...the sensation of speed, the thrill...nothing quite like it.

It's one of those things to me where, I don't tend to relax very often either, a workaholic, so I only feel what I wanna feel, anything such as a sensation (which is uncontrollable) I tend to fight off. I've had a lot of instability in my life over the last 4-5 years with my parents have a nasty break up, legal stuff, etc, so these days I tend to keep control of everything, even my feelings. Ice cold. 🙂

 

[chicago]

I fight until I'm tired or convinced there's no getting away. After that, it's kind of like a "Ok, fuck it," kind of situation.

The biggest reason why I do this is that part of me still cannot admit that I like being tickled and the other part is that, for me, part of the fetish is the banter, the teasing, the fighting. It just wouldn't be as fun if I just said "Ok, tickle me. That was awesome, thanks."

 

[Laffy Daffy]

I agree with Annie completely. Part of the fun is trying to hold out and the ler's ability to push you over the edge into laughing, thrashing, etc.

I find I can fight it off a lot more effectively when I've calmed myself down too.

 

[footetickle]

You gotta love a fighter if your a ler who loves to break your victims.

 

[adrun]

the fantasy for me is being forced to let go and give in. i think i try to resist being tickled because the real turn on for me is someone else being in complete control and forcing me to laugh. if i let go on my own it wouldn't be the same. and the few times i've really been broken by someone have been fantastic!