Does a person`s size & appearance make a difference to you when it comes to tickling?

[Sultrybrunette]

No issue with heavier people, thats another fair and good question. My father, uncle and aunt all have adult onset diabetes because of obesity.

Let me give you a little background on me. I have always been very athletic and played organized sports since I was little. I was always about average height and very skinny but very fast. I played highschool football and graduated at about 150lbs at 6 `. Everyone I knew always said nice and thin I was; I knew it was meant as a compliment but it always bugged me.

I started to work out in 9th grade and even though I didn`t gain alot of weight I was very strong for my size. I fell in love with the gym and made a ton of friends over the years. Working out became a lifestyle choice for me and still truly love it to this day. A few years after graduating I was up to about 180 and it was really cool to run into people from highschool and the first thing out of there mouths would always be how much more muscular I had become. Hey , my ego loved it, I am human.

Over the years I have slowly gained more weight through adding muscle and am about 225 now. I can easily get to 235 by eating fast food , which I love, but can easily still shed it by cardio and diet

I guess one reason I asked the question is because over the years I have been asked out by many women and they all seem to be in good shape and always into some type of sport or fitness lifestyle. I don`t guees I ever recall being asked out by someone who was significantly overweight. Curious if that is result how I always try to keep in good shape or something else. Any theories or hypothesies on this would be interesting to hear.

Probably, because of your shape the larger women are intimidated. Being a BBW myself I wouldnt ask you out because I figure you would probably say no. And part of it could be guilt because, for whatever reason, we are not in the "best shape". Actually it would be difficult for me to ask anyone out. But then thats just me.

 

[FlockOfSeagulls]

Probably, because of your shape the larger women are intimidated. Being a BBW myself I wouldnt ask you out because I figure you would probably say no. And part of it could be guilt because, for whatever reason, we are not in the "best shape". Actually it would be difficult for me to ask anyone out. But then thats just me.

Sultry, thanks for your honest answer. We can always count on you to be insightful and to give a good perspective on any topic

 

[steph]

Douchebag~I can handle anything. What, you don't get this about me yet, after all these years? (disclaimer: I have no idea what this f'ed up emoticon means but I love Halloween and thought it was funny as all get out.)
XOXO

What? You can't handle something? I promiss I will take a shower and brush my teeth first.

 

[SlaverTickler]

Douchebag~I can handle anything. What, you don't get this about me yet, after all these years? (disclaimer: I have no idea what this f'ed up emoticon means but I love Halloween and thought it was funny as all get out.)
XOXO

Douchbag??? Me??? No way! I may be an ass hole, dick head, jerk off, and/or a hot tempered spaz, but I am never a douchbag. .

I like too 😀

 

[FlockOfSeagulls]

Douchbag??? Me??? No way! I may be an ass hole, dick head, jerk off, and/or a hot tempered spaz, but I am never a douchbag. .

I like too 😀

That is the first truthful statement that has ever come out of your mouth..Mr Hitman douchebag

 

[doctortickler]

I think that looks do have a part to play, for me a pretty face is what I look out for. As for someone's size, if they are way under or way over weight then to be honest it would make a diferrance.

 

[SlaverTickler]

That is the first truthful statement that has ever come out of your mouth..Mr Hitman douchebag

1) Thats not true, I always make truthful statements, it's not my fault the truth isn't what you want to hear/read.

2) Lets keep the wrestling talk in the sports section.

 

[Saeria]

While size/appearance has never made a great impact on my appreciations whether platonic or romantic, i guess in the play sense i do have a size preference these days. There's no hiding i'm no willowy sprite. i'm shaped like a basketball and too damned strong for my own good. I don't want to go into play feeling like Frankenstein holding a delicate flower and crushing the hell out of it. Goth and i are well matched in that respect and without that "i'm going to accidently crush, maim, destroy him" inhibition, i feel a bit more comfortable. Nothing says bad scene like accidentally catapulting your 'ler hehehe.

 

[FlockOfSeagulls]

1) Thats not true, I always make truthful statements, it's not my fault the truth isn't what you want to hear/read.

2) Lets keep the wrestling talk in the sports section.

lets see... you have made three posts , and none have had anything to do with topic of thread. I have given my opinion on the topic . I am waiting to hear what what you think on said subject.

 

[SlaverTickler]

lets see... you have made three posts , and none have had anything to do with topic of thread. I have given my opinion on the topic . I am waiting to hear what what you think on said subject.

Fair enough then, the only thing that really matters when it comes to tickling is ticklishness. Of corse it's fun to fantasies about tickling an athleat or a model/actress ect, but really it is about having fun and if the person isn't fun what difference would it make if they are the picture of fitness or on the heavy side. Hows that?

 

[DimpleToes]

Dimple Toes, thanks for the kind words, you have always been a pleasure to converse with as well. Your personality is absolutely adorable.

Thank you kind sir. You adorable as well.. but with me beeing weak in muscle's compared to you, I would have to make sure your bound up so I can get you.. for it would so be not fair. YOu would squash me like a bug with one arm tied behind your back. muuuaaahhhhaaa Yet I do have pretty strong legs when tickled.. I put up a good fight, will give you a good work out.

 

[tru x factor]

well i have always been attracted to bigger sized women i find them more fun to talk to as well personality wise and most of them have a A+ imagination then i find some skinny gals here are ditzy and just boring but thats my opion. and also find out some bigger size women have a way way more open mind then skinny gals to the tickling conversation i bring up but if i told a skinny gal..poof there gone

 

[DimpleToes]

well i have always been attracted to bigger sized women i find them more fun to talk to as well personality wise and most of them have a A+ imagination then i find some skinny gals here are ditzy and just boring but thats my opion. and also find out some bigger size women have a way way more open mind then skinny gals to the tickling conversation i bring up but if i told a skinny gal..poof there gone

I dont believe that is a fair statment. A person size has nothing to do with imagination. Plus size women may be a bit more secure to explore different area's and are often plesant to talk to yet you can say that about any woman. It is the individual themselves and that can be said about any woman of any size. I am on the fluffy size but I am me, I love everyone and I am what you see in here in real life. I am a hugger, good freind to all and cuddler.

 

[Deleted member 2452]

of course it does.

it's sad to see all these folks jumping into the p.c. trap.
if i don't find something attractive about a woman then i'm not going to tickle her, or let her tickle me. there has to be a physical attraction.
my favorite type of woman is a lady who is an armfull. long hair, long nails larger size feet, good legs, big boobs, etc. no, she desn't have to have all of that! lol one or two of those features would be nice though.
yours in honesty!
steve

 

[FlockOfSeagulls]

Thank you kind sir. You adorable as well.. but with me beeing weak in muscle's compared to you, I would have to make sure your bound up so I can get you.. for it would so be not fair. YOu would squash me like a bug with one arm tied behind your back. muuuaaahhhhaaa Yet I do have pretty strong legs when tickled.. I put up a good fight, will give you a good work out.

hmmmm

One of my best buddies here just happens to be an intregal part of one of the gatherings that just happened in your neck of the woods. Maybe I should ask him just how strong and tough you are. hahahahahahaha

 

[Sultrybrunette]

Sultry, thanks for your honest answer. We can always count on you to be insightful and to give a good perspective on any topic

Aww thanks. Its that age thing....with age comes wisdom. Of course you offer me any kind of encouragement I would jump on it!

 

[DimpleToes]

hmmmm

One of my best buddies here just happens to be an intregal part of one of the gatherings that just happened in your neck of the woods. Maybe I should ask him just how strong and tough you are. hahahahahahaha

hmmm could be interesting.. depends on who it is. I dont just play with anyone.. I have to know them as freinds first. But is your freind MAN ENOUGH to handle me I broke down a few men that were at MTP , even made one man brake his restraints to get away from me, yet was all in fun. Gave lots of hugssss after wards

 

[badreligion]

Short answer - yes , there will always be some degree of physical attractiveness that a person bases there choice on weither or not to tickle a person

 

[FFT32]

Honest Answer

This is my honest heart-felt response to this topic... Yes!

My love of tickling is focused squarely on female bare feet and YES; my impulse to want to tickle a woman' s feet is tied directly to the size and appearence of said feet.

This is no way a disrespect to women; bare feet or tickling. It is just what fules my fetish and my desire to indulge it!

 

[8_ball]

I think that ultimately, physical attraction is important, however the definition of attractiveness is up in the air. I think that we all have different things we find attractive about people, and we are generally drawn to those things in people. If a person is what I consider to be attractive, then engaging in tickling activities with them is something I want to do.

That being said, a woman being "universally" or "hollywood" attractive means nothing to me when it comes to tickling.

And just for fun,

Here's a cat:

MEOW!

 

[Wildben]

im not sure i'd meet a girl to tickle if there wasn't some attraction there, i dont think thats being shallow its being honest

the better looking the girl is the more i want to tickle her and the more ticklish a girl is the more i want to tickle her, it's not all aesthetic though, a girls personality and manner can make her really attractive to me

slightly over or under weight holds no preference for me, but I do prefer it when a girl has soft skin

 

[prettygirl619]

yeahh...

i hope this doesnt sound shallow, but it matters to me, I like to tickle a guy who is in shape and muscular and good looking. and even better if that handsome in shape guy tickles me back its even better. I may be quite picky but it makes the experience better🙂

 

[tkltease]

for me a woman's size and looks mean very little if she has a good heart and likes tickling and laughing and of course is ticklish.Why should women who are larger in size or not a beauty queen be any less fun to tickle if thats what they like and enjoy I bet they are more fun to tickle and have fun with because they truly enjoy it and the attention they get.As for me older women are fun to tickle they enjoy it and love the attention.

 

[DLazarus]

so what is your answer. you never posted it.

I dont care what a person's size is as long as they treat me kindly and are a real freind.. if they are not ashamed to be with me for I am a plus size beautiful woman then I am not ashamed to be seen with them.

I would never be ashamed to be seen with you. You have a genuine personality that comes across to me, and you come across as a very kind lady. That means much more to me than physical beauty or physical stature.

 

[FlockOfSeagulls]

i hope this doesnt sound shallow, but it matters to me, I like to tickle a guy who is in shape and muscular and good looking. and even better if that handsome in shape guy tickles me back its even better. I may be quite picky but it makes the experience better🙂

Does not make you shallow, everyone has different tastes





I was a little apprehensive to post anything about looks or weight because in the past it just seems to get very personal very quickly. It is SO COOL to see people give honest opinions and everyone respecting the right to do so. Maybe this will start a trend around here...one can only hope