Does size really matter?

[lightninbug]

Size DOES Matter...The Size of One's Heart

After reading the post I was furious. You are ALREADY a member of this forum, Mimi...more so than the Low-life that peed in your cheerios. The Heart is what matters in this place as far as I can see...& Darlin', from what I've read your heart is in the right place. Don't let anyone STOP you from being you.
"No one can make us feel inferior...Only WE have that Power."
-Elenor Roosevelt
Smile
-Bug🙂

 

[TheRhythmDoctor]

Mimi,

I'm curious as to what your reaction is so far to all of the above posts.

The Rhythm Doctor

 

[tklr5150]

Everyone has their prejudices. I, for example, am prejudiced against insensitive big-mouths who hoist their uninvited opinions on perfectly decent people who could give a good damn. Don't care much for their kind, never have. But hey, I'm funny that way. 😛

We're a community here, Mimi, and where I come from that means collectively beating the snot out of some jerk who upsets one of our own. Just say the word and I'm sure Scooby'd be happy to drive the van over his head 😀

 

[dvnc]

I'm just here to agree with evilqueen. She's just spot-on here.

dvnc

 

[Mimi]

Oh my!

I never thought this thread would take off the way it has. The family atmosphere of the TMF is so amazing at times...the support you receive at those moments when you feel as if you've hit bottom. The support I have received regarding this thread took my breath away.

Let me start off by saying thank you to each and every one of you who have replied to this thread. Your support and encouragement have touched me in ways you could not imagine, and I thank God for the day I discovered the TMF, for he truly blessed me with more friends then one could ever hope to have in a lifetime. You folks are the greatest, and I could not possibly express my appreciation of you enough.

Secondly, let me express a special thank you to MadKalnod, for such an eloquent and wonderful post. That was the first good laugh I have had since the incident, and as everyone knows, laughter is truly the best medicine.

Third, I must admit, in reply to EQ , Tero, and Myriads posts that I do have one unattractive quality: Self-conciousness. Taking that step to see YOURSELF as beautiful is truly a large one indeed, especially for people as myself who have a 'sometimes considered' undesirable trait they can not hide or ignore. I know though, that it is a step I MUST take in order to truly find acceptance, for there is no trait less attractive then low self-esteem.

Lastly, I know I can not change that young man's opinion, and that he has a right to feel the way he does. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion, and everyone has their own set of preferences. My curiosity simply laid in how MANY people shared his preference. I am thrilled to see through the replies made to this thread that he is indeed in the minority, and most folks here at the TMF are not as judgemental.

In closing, I would like to say I sincerely hope I did not come across as "whiny" in my original post. I honestly was not looking for sympathy of any kind....I was just interested in knowing how many members agreed with the young man's stance.

Once again, I thank you ALL for the astounding support and friendly advice you offered. Hopefully lurkers will read this thread and see first hand how terrific you all are, and with any luck will take that step to start posting, knowing that EVERYONE is welcome at the TMF.

Mimi 🙂

P.S. For the young man in question: If you happen to be reading any of this, I do have one thing to say in reply to your 'anti-fat chick' preference. It's probably best that you DO stay away from 'fat chicks'. You couldn't handle one of us. We'd show you a world you have never seen before...you wouldn't even know what hit you. Probably wise not to bite off more then you can chew. I mean, haven't you heard yet?? Size DOES matter!

 

[giggleygirl25]

wonderful reply to that child Mimi...i commend you...and hope that it will give a few people a chance to think before they speak so hurtfully to another person... anyways 😀 ...let the tickling commence...hmmm can i be the first victim?????

 

[SmileyTkls]

Why, giggley, happy to have you first in line for tickling! What'll it be, underarms, ribs, tummy, waist, knees, feet, all of the above?

Smiley

 

[giggleygirl25]

hmmmmm

all of the above hehheeee...but ya gotta catch me first 😉

 

[SmileyTkls]

I've found it's not that difficult to catch the willing...

Smiley

 

[giggleygirl25]

hmmmm we'll see Smiley

 

[Dave2112]

Mimi, you will always have this community to turn to. When I first started coming around, I thought I'd finally found a cool place for tickling-fetishists to hang out.

What I really found was a family. This Forum has seen threads and discussions on not only tickling, but just about everything under the sun. People have leaned on one another through some tough times around here. It never ceases to amaze me how quickly the responses come in when someone here has a personal problem. And when one of us is attacked, watch how quickly the wagons circle.

It warmed my heart to see you take the attitude you took recently. You are a beautiful person, both inside AND out. And you're right, that morphodite couldn't handle you!

Remember Spinal Tap?

"The bigger the cushion, the better the pushin'
That's what I said,
The looser the waistband, the deeper the quicksand
Or so I have read...." - Big Bottom
😀

We all love ya Mimi...and when I meet you soon, I'll show ya how much, ok?😎

 

[Charlie]

What a fascinating thread! I appreciate what everyone has said, especially evil queen and terorizer. I hope you're able to forget that insult, Mimi. I have enjoyed talking to you and your husband, and I also appreciate your sending me your photo.

 

[elaah]

everything that is written so far is great!

and then ... it wouldn't hurt sharing his name privately with some of the women so that they can shy away from such an inconsiderate person ..

I am sorry you are in pain from this person. Love yourself first then let only the ones YOU choose, love you back.

Remembering DVNC's famous quote.... its all about the love : )

Keep smiling ~ sweets! It looks good on you.


Donna

 

[QBWeaver]

Hi Mimi,

I remember being in the AOL chatroom once and I got the a/s/l question and replied years/not enough/here. That started some fun bantering back and forth with a "tickler". As the conversation progressed he asked what I looked like and told me what he looked like. I answered and stated what I weighed. His reply was horrific at best. I was trying to be real honest with him and he tried to "put me down". I ended the conversation after some... "Gee thanks Bud" and stuff like that. I ended the conversation saying something like "Well it was really nice talking to you. Have a nice day!"

He started apologizing and saying it was all a joke but by that time I was too hurt to continue. I ignored him. He was still in the chatroom and questioned me in the chatroom about why I wouldn't accept his apology. I simply replied with some quotes of his im's and stated that I was trying to be REAL and he was just plain rude and that I have much better things to do with my time than deal with small minded idiots who are looking for a Pamela Anderson type on the other end of the internet.

Apparently that was his ploy quite often as many of the other women had been "attacked verbally" by this idiot as well. Unfortunately his type of demeanor is what keeps more women from joining the chatrooms or posting online.

Fortunately the majority of the guys who are in TMF are REAL men. They love tickling for the tickling. Oh sure the fantasy is there. It is for me as well (Where is Sean Connery when you need him! LOL). But I've found the guys I chat with or email with are looking primarily for a woman to chat with only. It doesn't matter if they are big or small as long as they are ticklish. That's all that matters.

I'm really glad you're here. And I'm really glad you've seen the incredibly wonderful responses these gentlemen have shared. They're all AWESOME both online and in person. I know because I've been fortunate enough to have met several of them.

And as DVNC always says... It's all about the Love! And it truly is!

 

[qjakal]

Another thread perhaps?

Actually I tend to fantasize about a slightly plump brunette around 30-60 years old who loses a bet to me or somehow gets into a "predicament" or situation that leads to a helpless position and hence some fun...but that's just me...you Pammy Anderson guys probably have some sort of fun also.... Q

 

[terorizer]

Re: Oh my!

Third, I must admit, in reply to EQ , Tero, and Myriads posts that I do have one unattractive quality: Self-conciousness. Taking that step to see YOURSELF as beautiful is truly a large one indeed, especially for people as myself who have a 'sometimes considered' undesirable trait they can not hide or ignore. I know though, that it is a step I MUST take in order to truly find acceptance, for there is no trait less attractive then low self-esteem.

I don't believe this to be an unattractive quality. We all have internal struggles. Tis no shame or blight to struggle. There is beauty in your struggle.

 

[qjakal]

Beauty indeed..

Good point terorizer! And in her tattoos (n-e-e-d-l-e-...oooky!), and in her attitude and those cat eyes and her smile and ....hmmm....getting to be a long list....😉 Q!

 

[Djskiz]

Hi. I am mimi's husband and I just wanted to say mimi is a great BBW, and I love Mimi just as she is, and I don't ever what her to change at all. To let you people know, Mimi is a great person and one hell of a wife to me. And also Mimi might be big but she is no couch potato. She is a very active woman and a great mom who raises our daughter very well. Mimi also has a big heart and has alot of love to share, and she gives me alot of love and affection. You people know Mimi is a great person, and she should not be treated like she was. The guy who did it to her, I am not happy with. But I am not here to raise trouble. Just to let you people know that Mimi is a hell of a person and has alot of things going for her. She is smart and like I said earlier, she has a big heart full of fun and love. She is also funny and very cool. In closing here, you people should look at Mimi from the inside because there is alot you are missing. To me the outside of Mimi looks very damn good and she can stay that way forever. To Mimi from your hubby, I love you and will always love you and never want to lose you. I want to be your husband forever and give you all the love I have. And to make you the happiest person possible. I love you.....


From your hubby, Djskiz

 

[Strelnikov]

EQ has the right of the matter. NO ONE can "make" you feel anything. You choose to let the "fat chick" comment hurt your feelings, and you can just as well choose for it not to do so. That's Pop Psych 101, straight out of the self-help section of the bookstore. It's pretty obvious from the last post that your husband loves you as you are - why do you care about this other guy?

Just as a matter if information, I prefer trim women too. But I'm not on anybody's heart throb list either. I'm a bald, middle aged fat man. I've learned to live with it. So can you.

Regards,
Strelnikov

 

[feetclimax]

"wipping his tears"....

These threads have really opened my eyes!
It really is like a family just like dave 2112 said.

Mimi, every body here has said what needs to be said, but as part of the TMF family I really felt angry that someone could be so imature, cold hearted and down right mean, so I just had to help in making you feel better even though I cant think of anything new to say, I hope my participation is enough.

But lets put all that behind us and think of the future, as you can see, everyone is here to heal you pains, especially your husband who will stick beside you no matter what, as we all shall!

I really hope you feel better about yourself mimi even though I havnt said much, the least I can do is add my self to the list of people to help you get your confidance back, feel better Mimi, you are a incredible, cool, and caring person, be strong!😎

 

[Dave2112]

Dlskiz, you are a lucky guy. Mimi is a dear. And Mimi, it's nice to see your hubby loves you so much as to come to your defence like he has. It's people like him, and the friends you have here that you should concern yourself with, not some solitary loser in a chatroom.

Here's to continued love and success for the both of you.😎

 

[freak4tickling]

ticklish bbws

mimi. i myself just love ticklish, sxy bbws as urself and i would love to tickle u in all of your ticklish spots

 

[dtrell]

dude, you dug up an almost 4 year old thread...jesus...

 

[Mimi]

Oh good lord, this thread is ancient. I've been divorced for over 2 years now! LOL!

But thank you, freak, for your sweet sentiments. There are lots of plus sized gals on the forum who would be 'tickled pink' to know you feel that way about lasses of size. 😉

Mimi

 

[vegasfootboy]

the fat kid....

nothing makes me more angry than people who make fun of other people with weight issues,, i was an incredibly fat kid growing up,, all the way up to my 16th birthday till i hit a growth spurt and discovered the gym.

i remember being treated horribly back then,, enduring every insult imaginable!,,when i lost the weight and muscled up and toned down it took me years to repair the damage caused to my psychie and to my self esteem!

i had some issues with women as a result of years of verbal abuse,, teasing,,and when i lost the weight the same women who teased and made fun of me were then begging me to go out with them,, so i took my revenge and became a notorious breaker of hearts! the effects from the abuse lasted most of my life,,whenever i hear someone make comments about someones weight i jump rite in and let them have it! nobody has the rite to make someone else miserable because that person doesnt fit into whatever catagory they think they should,, my heart goes out to people who struggle with weight problems,, (myself included ) i am always trying to lose 20 or 30 pounds,, its not easy for some,,and the perception that its all to do with being lazy and eating nonstop is tottaly wrong! everyone is different with thier own metabolic system,, not everyone can be skinny(how boring would that be? everyone the same? ),,that guy who made fun of big women in the chat room was an insecure idiot!!! he needs to lash out at others to make himself feel better,, i am quite sure that his attitude keeps him from being able to find anyone to tickle or even date for that matter,,dont let anyone dictate how you feel mimi,, feel good in the knowlege that there are many many guys who like a voluptious women with curves,, he is a lonely loser who is striking out in frustration,,obviously he wasnt raised properly and has no people skills,, i can even feel sorry for this guy to a degree,, his attitude will prevent him from finding meaningfull interaction with other great people,, oh well,, its his major loss,,

the important thing here mimi is dont let him dictate how you will feel and whether or not you will enjoy the chatroom,, he is nothing,, insignificant,,not worth giving any consideration to,,on the upswing,, you can always change your appearance if that is "your" wish,, but he will be a " jerk" for the rest of his life!,, i seriously doubt he can do anything about that,,

tickle me elmo doesnt have six pack abs and " everyone" wants to tickle him : )