Engagement off

[Ticklee1973]

Yep roughly maybe a few weeks to a month after announcing it on, I'm calling it off. No need for pity or anything else. All I can say is I can't compete with an addiction and I don't mean one for tickling, lol. One opens themselves up to trust hoping that it will bring them closer to another person and yet things like this happen. I believe it just means God had a plan, and I thank him for showing me this before I actually tied the knot. Carry on, oh and I need a group hug 🙁

 

[maniactickler]

Sorry to hear that....or maybe happy to hear that. not sure. 😕

 

[TicklishGrl4Lfe]

Awww honey....that must be rough.....big hugs from this Angel.

 

[LeeAllure]

Virtual hugs now, real ones when I see you in June!

Lee

 

[kered]

Sorry to hear this. Consider yourself hugged from me and the parrots.

 

[Mitchell]

Sandee, I'm sorry to hear this. Good Luck to you in all your future plans.

Mitch

 

[goddess_nemesis]

Ticklee1973, sorry to hear that your engagement ended.

 

[Helena]

I'm sorry to hear that this happened.
Hugs to you.

 

[kurchatovium]

Awwwwwwwww Sandee I am so sorry this happened. Many hugs and kisses hun.

 

[kwildoctr]

Bummer.... Sorry to hear that. As noted above, virtual hugs now and real ones in June....

R



M

(draw your own conclusions... 😉 )

 

[unit5610]

I'm so sorry it turned out this way!
On the other hand, I'm very happy that you found this out before you took it to the next step. I greatly admire your attitude...I'm confident that better things are coming your way!! Big hugs!

 

[Bugman]

I'm sorry it didnt work out Sandee,but we all love you.

 

[jaba]

I believe it just means God had a plan, and I thank him for showing me this before I actually tied the knot. Carry on, oh and I need a group hug 🙁

I know you are saddened, but your outlook on how this turned out shows the resilient person you are, and things will always work out for the best for you in the long term, because of the sometimes difficult but realistic decisions you make when it comes to long term commitments.........

The right things in life will come along for you, because you are a good person....

God bless..... 🙂

 

[Pokey]

I know you were very happy Sandee and because you are who you are you will make it work to your benefit. Like Lee said, you have our thoughts here and hugs thru the air, but I will have a few stored up for you in June, and who knows, maybe we'll look for that elusive giggle switch!!!! Jim

 

[unclebill]

Sorry to hear the news, Sandee. But you know you are better off figuring this out now rather than after the wedding.

 

[Sultrybrunette]

Sigh. I so wish things had turned out differently for you. Hang in there sweetie and sending you a huge hug.

 

[Ticklee1973]

Thank you all for the support and virtual hugs. I realize in my heart it was the right thing to do but it still stings like the dickens and all you promising hugs in June, don't think I won't hold you to it, lol. Much love to all of you and many thanks for the support.

Sandee

 

[ticklesaurus]

BIG hug to ya girl.You will recieve it in person in june,don't you worry.

 

[Mastertank1]

NOW was the time to find out;

later might have been too late, so I'm glad you dodged that bullet.
I know it's still painful, but better a short sharp severing pain now than years of pain leading to divorce!
I'll send you my patented healing prayers every night for a while, to help ease the mental pain.
In case you need a sympathetic ear to vent into, or a metaphorical shoulder tp cry on, I'm going to PM you my phone number.
Luv
Mitch

 

[tommytikl]

Big hugs Sandee, both now and in June.

 

[aurora5150]

just because you know you did the right thing, and you did 🙂 , doesn't mean it hurts any less. sending you hugs and support.

 

[RobAce]

Sandee,
words can not express................
you have my support and friendship.

Ill echo the sentiments of everyone, better now than later. You deserve the best, and should settle for nothing less than.

Yours Truly,
Rob

 

[Tickleslave07]

I'm sorry to hear the news Sandee big hugs from up the coast in Massachusetts.

Addiction is hard to kick, but I believe greatly in you Sandee Don't Give up the fight hang in there.

 

[kis123]

I'm really sorry to hear you had to break off your engagement; you sounded very much in love when you announced. But I know what it feels like to try to love an addict; my son's father was a user who eventually became a dealer-sister, I know your pain. I also know how hard it was to let him go. Maybe he'll get himself some help and things can be reconciled between you two. But I give you serious props for being strong enough not to trade your family's security in the name of having someone in your life that isn't healthy for you.

If you ever need to talk, just shoot me a PM and we can go from there. I lived this thing and would be more than happy to help you through if you need it.

 

[storyteller]

I'm sorry for your pain but glad you were able to make the decision that was right for you now. I agree with you; there is a plan and there was a reason for the relationship and it's end. You WILL be okay. Treat yourself to some crying time and some comfort food and other self indulgences and don't forget to reach out here and to your real-life friends as you need to. I won't see you in June, so here are many hugs now!