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ever been truly scared of a 'ler?

SadCuzNotTcklsh

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Has someone ever given you the creeps as a 'ler in the way of "they might be way too good of a 'ler for me to handle"?
:chill:
 
I don't know if this counts, but yes I have had ler give me the creeps. He couldn't stop staring hungrily at my shoes. It was making me uncomfortable. He finally asked to take them off and I said yes. Then when he did get me in bondage and started tickling me, he was way too intense. I should have said something, but instead I kept quiet. I woke up the next day in pain and had bruises all over my body. Needless to say I don't talk to that guy anymore. I have no plans of seeing him again.
 
No, I only play with people that I trust. None has betrayed that trust yet. 😀
 
Has someone ever given you the creeps as a 'ler in the way of "they might be way too good of a 'ler for me to handle"?
:chill:

The OP is not asking if you find certain lers to be creepy or
untrustworthy. He is asking if you're ever scared of a ler because
you think they would be too good of a ler for you to handle.

My answer is yes. I'm scared of my Domme. 🙂 She's a sadist,
and an amazing ler. She's good at everything she does, and I'm
almost always on pins and needles (mmm needles). 😉
 
Yes. It's an interesting place to be because even though you're scared, you worry you'll be disappointed if your fears aren't justified. But I guess that all depends on the kind of session you're interested in.
 
@Pocelaindoll:

You know honey, you could just have said the safeword and still be talking to the guy. 🙂 Communication is the key! 🙂
 
Though she never laid a hand on me, I felt a little shook when I first met LeeAllure a few years ago at NEST, only cause I knew what she was capable of. Felt the same when I met Ticklexpert this year as well. Then I realized, I'm rarely a lee, so I got over it pretty quick. Those two women have a serious aura around them to make me feel that way.
 
some girls at my college and school were afraid to give me hugs cause they knew what would come next 😀
 
As long as you are not married you should have no problem communicating with someone else!
 
I wouldn't say I've been "scared" by any ler, but I will admit that I have been bothered by how some can be overly aggressive. To me that's not the best course of of action for having a good tickling experience.
 
I think i'm a ler that everyone should be afraid of! ;o)

Grrrrrrrrrrrrr

GQ
 
Though she never laid a hand on me, I felt a little shook when I first met LeeAllure a few years ago at NEST, only cause I knew what she was capable of. Felt the same when I met Ticklexpert this year as well. Then I realized, I'm rarely a lee, so I got over it pretty quick. Those two women have a serious aura around them to make me feel that way.

awww sweetie - I know you weren't afraid of lil ole me :devil2: 😛 . Especially after you came to Calif 😉 lol
 
I don't know if this counts, but yes I have had ler give me the creeps. He couldn't stop staring hungrily at my shoes. It was making me uncomfortable. He finally asked to take them off and I said yes. Then when he did get me in bondage and started tickling me, he was way too intense. I should have said something, but instead I kept quiet. I woke up the next day in pain and had bruises all over my body. Needless to say I don't talk to that guy anymore. I have no plans of seeing him again.

Been there.... done that! Don't be afraid to tell someone that they are going to hard, that you don't enjoy it, or that you are uncomfortable. ESPECIALLY if you are at some sort of gathering or event. Also, the person may not know unless the lee speaks up. It might be something that he could adjust.

BUT... I dont' want you to feel guilty about it. We live and we learn, us lees! Like I said... I've also had some bad experiences. Enough to know that I will have someone nearby that I trust to end it if the ler doesn't understand "english".

And to answer the question in the thread--- I have not been afraid of a ler, because if I was truly afraid, they wouldn't touch me. No way!

But, I always have that moment when I am nervous and thinking... "Why did I agree to this?" Every once in awhile when Alex gets his hands on me and I know it is going to be just so ridiculously bad, sometimes I say, "I've changed my mind! I lied... I don't want to be tickled anymore!!!" Yeah- like he stops.

LOL LOL! :kissing:
 
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