Buy another notepad for me, hon!
It seems that I've seen my own take on this issue. Many men don't mind f/m, as long as they're the m. I LOVE being the 'lee, as well as a 'ler. I think 'lees have the most fun, but that's just a matter of taste, I suspect. Anyway, as ashamed to admit it as I am, I avoid f/m clips, videos, publications like the plauge! I suppose it's because it just doesn't do anything for me. I have tried. I've read f/m stories, looked at a photo or two, seen brief scenes in majorly m/f videos, and I guess it's just not my cup of tea.
But keep that other notebook handy, steph. I'll tell you anything you want to know!
Unless you'd have more fun "persuading" me!!!