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Family Drama

Thanks everyone, I am trying to let it go with the sibs but I just am so upset I want to take them to the gun range and have an accident well cant do it at the range will find another remote location. Yet, not willing to live with that.

Kyle, thanks for visiting for ya knew I was stress to the max and hanging out with me and mom. Sorry I was a bit grumpy and not my self. Thanks for helping me cook for Mom and Don. Dang it we never did make the ice-cream as we planned.. grrrrrrrrr

FYI, Mom is home from the hospital. It ended up beeing a acidic blockage, with no symptoms but heartburn when eats spicey food, the entire linning of her stomach and esophagus is gone. She is still unable to eat more than 3 bites or it comes back up. There are several Dr. apt's to come to see what perminate damage there is and or if it will heal in time. SHe looks awfull for in renal failure and refusses to go on dialysis but that is her choice.
 
All yall who are going to MTP, I think big hugs are in order for your support and to cheer me up.. yeahhhhhhhhhhhhh:twohugs:
 
Glad to hear she's home at least. Healing thoughts continuing to be sent her way...and yours!
 
Mom is still having issues. Now she is having trouble breathing,Is unable to take a normal breath. Her lungs are clear as in not filling with fluid again. Taking steriods hoping this will help. There is too much going on to know which end is up or down.
 
DimpleToes said:
Mom is still having issues. Now she is having trouble breathing,Is unable to take a normal breath. Her lungs are clear as in not filling with fluid again. Taking steriods hoping this will help. There is too much going on to know which end is up or down.
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Luv ya sweetie. You know how to get in touch if you need to talk. :twohugs:
 
I say this with tears. Mom was back in the hospital this weekend.. had to have 2 more units of blood and a unit of plasma. She is in congestive heart failure now and her kidneys are shutting down FAST. She has been in renal failure but now Dr's are telling her to get her things in order. She is letting all of us kids know her final wishes and signing all the legal paperwork for such. They sent her home to be comfortable with visitng nurses.

She has given up, her responce to not going on dialysis is "I have had a full life and tired of feeling like shit" She is back home and just waiting. Has to have an echo next few days and see her Renal Dr to find out how long.

I just found all this out tonight after work. sniff sniff

SO as you can see I have been a bit busy to attend any local events. She has been in and out of the hospital the last month and almost died once already.

It is so hard to watch your parent die knowing she does not want to do what could help her
 
Awwwwww so sorry to hear this hun. :cry1: You and your mom are in my prayers and thoughts. :twohugs:
 
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I'm so sorry to hear about your mom.

My thoughts are with you and your mom; may the peace that surpasses all understand reign in both your lives.
 
Much strength to you and your family in these trying times.
 
SORRY TO HEAR THIS.

It seems that people know when they have had enough suffering.:console:
 
I'm so very sorry Lisa. We are here for you. :grouphug:
 
Thanks everyone. means alot. I will post updates to let yall know how it is going and is also theraputic for me to vent. Thanks for allowing me to post this and listening to me.. hugssssss
 
If I may ask Dimpletoes, has your brother come around to seeing your mother, or is it more of the same?
 
9-13-10 Update,
Mom is home with Hospice now. Has a hospital bed in living room. Has to have someone with her 24/7. Is on oral Moraphine for walking to the bathroom and back to bed maybe 10-15 feet in total gets her totally out of breath. At least she is able to keep food down now due to meds taken 30 min before she eats anything which is a very good thing. The Hospice Dr. comes tomorrow to give his opinion on things, what other care he can give us, to check on her and possibly get an estimate on how long she has left. Between work and Mom, all my time is taken up and everyone is totally exhausted
 
9-13-10 Update,
Mom is home with Hospice now. Has a hospital bed in living room. Has to have someone with her 24/7. Is on oral Moraphine for walking to the bathroom and back to bed maybe 10-15 feet in total gets her totally out of breath. At least she is able to keep food down now due to meds taken 30 min before she eats anything which is a very good thing. The Hospice Dr. comes tomorrow to give his opinion on things, what other care he can give us, to check on her and possibly get an estimate on how long she has left. Between work and Mom, all my time is taken up and everyone is totally exhausted
by Dimpletoes
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Awwwww really sorry to hear this Dimpletoes. So your mom now has Hospice coming that has super rough. Yeah I know what you are saying-sadly David's grandpa when he was doing really rough-in his last days-towards the end-Hospice person come in and stay-help pretty much around the clock, his grandma and him along w the Hospice person had taken care of his grandpa, also David's mom-help from Hospice towards the end when towards the end -COPD it was really rough-sadly both his grandpa and mom died. His grandpa sadly passed away-May 17 07 and his mom June 10 09, sorry not mentioning this to steal or run away w your thread-not hijacking it, just saying I know what you mean-when you say even w Hospice help-really rough not sure how long she has left. Just wanted to let you know I knew what you meant that is all.

I am really sorry this happened to your mother. I do hope your mom does get better and things look up but if not-I wish for the best last days-filled w lots of love, comfort, support, and laughter-all good things, not sadness. I wish her great peace. I imagine you are exhausted not just emotionally but also physically-mentally-it really can take a huge toll on a person-that is being a caregiver-a lot bigger toll than many people can even imagine. May God be w your mom, your family and also with you-give you strength and peace of mind and heart-comfort during this intense chaotic emotional time in your life.

Try to be strong and keep the faith, it is tough I won't lie but try to keep the faith Dimpletoes. Good luck and best wishes-may your time with her be happy and peaceful and positive, may you all make great memories, try your best to try to cherish now the time you have w her.

I am very sorry to hear that your mother is dying, that is very sad and a tragedy. May your troublesome family siblings and family members straighten up and help you during this rough time in your life-may the past stay in the past-fences be mended-just surround yourself w friends-try your best even though it can be rough and it very much is-try to keep your eyes on God and let God help heal your heart.
 
Sorry to hear that things are not working out.

The main thing is to keep her comfortable and not let her suffer.:console:
 
All the above, I'm so sorry - she's very lucky to have you with her all this time, that is the most important, you've done everything possible :grouphug:
 
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