Wolf, I already said there is no therapy for it. All one can do is trying to limit and control it, and I have been coming here a lot less than I used to before.
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Wolf, I already said there is no therapy for it. All one can do is trying to limit and control it, and I have been coming here a lot less than I used to before.
In that case, almost nobody here has a tickling fetish, because most of us can have sexual pleasure without tickling being involved.
A lot of people on here get turned on by tickling, but not ONLY by tickling. I agree, if you can only get turned on by tickling, you probably do need some sexual therapy.
You know....it cannot be the world's responsibility to take care that that one person who can't control their fetish doesn't have a problem. Just because there are alcoholics doesn't mean nobody can drink alcohol.
Someone who gets worked up too much by the online material....should stay off the internet! It's pretty easy - just cancel it!
The Last Laugh
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Why are you people still feeding this tttony character? His arguments are based on incorrect assumptions, unreasonable generalizations and his own personal experiences that aren't shared by the vast majority of people here. Debating with such a person is utterly pointless. He just wants other people to feel bad because he feels bad. Stop replying so he'll eventually give it up and go on being a self-hating tickling enthusiast on his own without trying to bring down everyone one else with him.
Why is he even on the TMF if he hates tickling so much, anyway? And why is he trying (unsuccessfully) to ruin it for the rest of us?
Why is he even on the TMF if he hates tickling so much, anyway? And why is he trying (unsuccessfully) to ruin it for the rest of us?
By the way your clips suck, the models have dirty feet lol
Dont you see that he came here to tell me I should shut up because I dared saying tickling is a fetish that can be harmful? and that because he has to sell.
Discussing on tickling as a fetish means being a troll? alright then lol
I didnt say everyone who likes ticklnig got abused as a child, but believe me it's more than 1 in a thousand.
You think it's normal getting aroused by tying up and tickling a person? go out in the street and ask 100 people and then tell me.
I come here because I have a tickling fetish that has ruined part of my life even though I have been trying to control my fetish.
You continue to seem to fail to understand what I am saying, but that's ok.
I dont want to achieve anything. This is a tickling forum, and I wanted to discuss tickling as a fetish because I have had it all my life. Nothing more, nothing less.
Okay. Well, there are people who suffer from their fetish. There are more people who do not. There are people who have this fetish because they were abused, and that is sad and terrible, but there are more people who do not have a horrible past like that. Is the topic discussed to an end now or was there anything else you wanted to say?
I think I said what I had to say, but I hope to hear from other people as well.
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Thanks for your concern, but the rest of us are too busy enjoying our sex lives to care.
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No shit it is a sexually related fetish for me .. that doesn't mean it came from a child hood trauma. Please do not assume we are all like you.
When I first started reading this thread, I was going to jump in with my 2 cents worth, but after 7 pages in one day....!?!? Holy crap! One thing that may or may not have been addressed here,(I didn't read every single post), is, if you had been traumatized from being tickled in your youth enough that you now hate tickling, why would you be in an enthusiasts forum on tickling in the first place????
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I think we should call it quits on this one.
OP had a point to make. He has the fetish due to a childhood trauma, views the fetish as a curse on his life that he will deal with my minimizing his attention to it, and assumes that others with the fetish are in the same boat. This assumption is one that many responders to his thread disagree with. Taking OP’s view, he sees clip producers as being like people who put alcoholic beverages in front of alcoholics so they can profit from the alcoholics’ purchase. Responders say that the clip producers are more like the owner of a liquor store -- lots of people buy the liquor for their own harmless enjoyment, and if some are harmed by the temptation, it isn’t really the store owner’s fault or obligation to close the store.
I think the points have been made.
OP had a point to make. He has the fetish due to a childhood trauma, views the fetish as a curse on his life that he will deal with my minimizing his attention to it, and assumes that others with the fetish are in the same boat. This assumption is one that many responders to his thread disagree with. Taking OP’s view, he sees clip producers as being like people who put alcoholic beverages in front of alcoholics so they can profit from the alcoholics’ purchase. Responders say that the clip producers are more like the owner of a liquor store -- lots of people buy the liquor for their own harmless enjoyment, and if some are harmed by the temptation, it isn’t really the store owner’s fault or obligation to close the store.
I think the points have been made.
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I'm going to tackle this in stages. Though I feel like I'm feeding a troll, I will treat this as a serious discussion worthy of both my time and my energy.
Firstly, the "preying on people with tickling fetishes by producing clips and art." Correct me if I'm wrong, but isn't that a simple buy-sell relationship? It's the same as anything else. It's my choice if I want to go buy some tickle abuse videos and masturbate until I go blind. They didn't stick anything in the water that manipulated my brain into wanting to purchase a fetish clip, it was just something that I thought "hey this looks awesome, I'm willing to fork out some money for it."
As for the abuse? Lol. My fetish came from a love of being out of control and a love of causing eternal torment in a very enjoyable way, and also because I love reactions, and knowing that I caused someone to laugh that hard, and knowing that it is because of me that they are having a good time, and also because it's FUN. We are in a fetish community. There is no normal. Normal is like right and wrong. It was created by human beings in order to pigeon hole things they agreed and disagreed with. I'd tell you where to stick your perceptions of what is normal, but it might be too logical for the bizarre and randomised nature of this thread, so good day.
Firstly, the "preying on people with tickling fetishes by producing clips and art." Correct me if I'm wrong, but isn't that a simple buy-sell relationship? It's the same as anything else. It's my choice if I want to go buy some tickle abuse videos and masturbate until I go blind. They didn't stick anything in the water that manipulated my brain into wanting to purchase a fetish clip, it was just something that I thought "hey this looks awesome, I'm willing to fork out some money for it."
As for the abuse? Lol. My fetish came from a love of being out of control and a love of causing eternal torment in a very enjoyable way, and also because I love reactions, and knowing that I caused someone to laugh that hard, and knowing that it is because of me that they are having a good time, and also because it's FUN. We are in a fetish community. There is no normal. Normal is like right and wrong. It was created by human beings in order to pigeon hole things they agreed and disagreed with. I'd tell you where to stick your perceptions of what is normal, but it might be too logical for the bizarre and randomised nature of this thread, so good day.
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