Frustration

[bare feet]

I just had a little something on my mind and just wanted to come out and share it with all of you. There are many things in this life that I want real badly, but can't have due to circustances beyond my control. One is my first girlfriend, but that's another story for another message board. It also frustrates me that I can't have someone to tickle me. I have been on the net for four years looking at tickle pics, surfing tickle sites, and filling out message boards and personals. I have gotten responses, but they never carried over to meeting them in person. I have had just one tickle session in my life and it was with this woman who wasn't a very good tickler at all and she seemed kinda psycho. I hate the fact that I have been one of the few people who have never been tickled constantly or have had some of their fantasies satisfied. It frustrates me that I don't live out on the West Coast, where a lot of the gatherings take place. I wished I live in LA, because it seems like a lot of tickling takes place there. One reason why I don't post here as often as I like is because of a lack of experience. I'm sorry to drag you all down with this, but I am very frustrated right now and just wanted to let some of this out. Thank you.

 

[bare feet]

Forgot some stuff....

I also wanted to say that I wish there were more women who were more open with tickling. I would really love to be tickled by women. But I rarely get responses from them. I don't know if it's because I'm African American or what. I have the most ticklish feet that anyone would want to tickle. My navel is the most ticklish anywhere. In fact, I'm real ticklish everywhere. If all goes well, I will be attending my first gathering in Memphis in late April. But it still isn't 100%. Why can't there be gatherings in North Carolina?

 

[TicklingDuo]

WOW, Barefeet....you DO sound frustrated. But, don't think that you're alone. The people who post here one a regular basis are only a small part of the overall community and you are far from being alone in not having a tickling partner. There are a number of gatherings on our coast as well as those in the midwest and east coast. If you can find your way to one, like the Memphis one you mentioned, you'll likely have a great time. Have you checked the gatherings section? I seem to recall someone trying to get togehter a group closer to your area. Of course, you could also try to connect socially with some of the gang that's in the Carolinas and surrounding areas. That's how we're finding other people. Look for friendsfirst. Thn, you may be lucky enough to find someone who's right for you when you've grown more comfortable about tickling being out in the open.

Just a thought. Good luck!

Ann

 

[Dave2112]

Sometimes it seems to take forever to find your niche in this whole thing. But when you do, it'll be with someone who was worth the wait, trust me. There are gatherings all over the place these days, as Ann stated, so keep checking the appropriate section. I understand your frustration on feeling "outside" of something and not really knowing where you stand. I went through a similar period...

...I called it "The '80's".😀

 

[TicklingIsLife]

I know exactly want you're going through bare feet, I haven't had a tickling session of any kind ever...🙁 🙁 🙁

 

[TickledToDeath]

Patience BareFeet! It will happen.
You may have to venture a bit outside of North Carolina for your first gathering but you will indeed find people close enough if not IN NC.

They are out there.


TTD

 

[njjen3953]

I know exactly want you're going through bare feet, I haven't had a tickling session of any kind ever...🙁 🙁 🙁

That my friend, is your own fault. Albany is 3 hours away. South Jersey is even closer and there is a Hyenas gathering this Saturday. NEST is in May in Philly and the Connecticut gathering will be in the summer.

If you really wanted it, you would just come to a gathering.

Jen

 

[bare feet]

Thanks, guys!

I just wanted to thank you guys for all the nice comments. It was nice to hear that I am not the only one suffering from tickling withdrawal. But I also want to let you know that I am looking forward to meeting all of you wonderful people. I really want to meet the women, particularly QBWeaver and Jobelle. I wonder if they can tickle as well as they say!

 

[QBWeaver]

Hi Barefeet!

Thanks so much for offering yourself for me to enjoy! Come to Phili! And then you can tell me if I'm devious enough. Taking the words of others isn't as much fun as experiencing it yourself.

Come on up in May!

 

[JoBelle]

Well, Barefeet,

I'm a simple ticklee 😉 with tickler tendencies. Am I a good tickler? I've a few references. Hawkikim?? Where are you dearie? And don't claim it was a tickle "fight," as you know I was the only tickler~!*giggle*

Yes, come to Memphis. I'll be there, and we can go a round or twelve before you fall under the grace of QB in Philly. Could you take all this? Tsk tsk...to tickle such a willing Lee...and not not feel the least bit spoiled about it!

Jo ...who talks pretty big about being a tickler until I see a wiggling finger! 😛

 

[hawkikim]

Hawkikim?? Where are you dearie? And don't claim it was a tickle "fight," as you know I was the only tickler~!*giggle*

Hmm, Jo, I don't remember it QUITE that way! I think I got you a couple times!

But yes, you ARE a tickler in ticklee's clothing! And those nails on my feet and ankles, well, anyone who doubts THAT ain't been there!!!!!

Gonna get ya next time, "dearie"!!!! LOL!!!!!!!

Kimmie

 

[bare feet]

Jobelle's little piggys

Jobelle, when we meet in Memphis, your feet will be mine! Imagine them being bonded and your toes tied back by rope. I get a little feather and stroke each one of your toes from big to little:

This little piggy went to the market(koochy koochy koo! Tickle tickle)
This little piggy stayed home(tickle tickle tickle! HA!HA!)
This little piggy had roast beef(koochy koochy koo! HA!HA!)
And this little piggy had none(tickle tickle tickle)
And this little piggy cried wee wee wee all the way home(HA!HA!)

Be prepared to have some ticklish little piggys!

 

[mpath]

a familiar tale

I hear you, bare feet.

It's hard to find a good tickler/ticklee who's close & convenient for you. I choose to look at it like this: it would probably be just as hard to find a lovely green-eyed, red-headed nuclear physicist who was also nearby. Sure they exist, but odds are against you just happening to meet one without some extraordinary effort on your part.

For me, travel is the key. I found long ago that if I didn't limit myself to locals, I could find the friend/friends I needed. Basically, women who are *openly* into fetishes/ kinks/ tastes/ lifestyles like this are few and far between. I suspect many more MAY be secretly into it, but hey, who knows? and quite frankly, who has time & energy to waste trying every locked door in town with the same key? lol Now THAT leads to frustration...not to mention a bent key. 😛

Barring that, (and if you need that quick fix) go to a local Dom&Sub place and pay a few bucks to have your fantasy fulfilled. That kinda thing was never my style--too impersonal for my tastes--but others swear by it. (And I'm sure they live out their fantasies far more frequently and perhaps less expensively than I do too. To each their own.)

So my recommendation.... spend money! 😛

Seems crass, but it's true. If you're a guy, in general, they, probably won't come to you when you call....you've done the personals thing so i'm sure you know this to be true. So you'll have to go to them, and that may cost a few bucks. The brave ticklers you seek are out there, though, so go meet them! 🙂

me? hey, i'm on a plane this upcoming weekend. 😉

just my $0.02

 

[TkldSlly48M]

Leaving

 

[TickledToDeath]

Tkldslly48...

Hold the phone.....ASKING your wife to tickle her or tickle YOU, COST you your marriage?
Please elaborate?
IF not in here, feel free to e-mail me.
[email protected]

TTD

 

[JoBelle]

Bare Feet,
WhatEVER gave you the idea that my feet are ticklish?? Nope they aren't. Nopt one little bit. Not at all. Nope, no way...no how, not mine, they don't wiggle, I don't scream, not ticklish...SORRY!

However, I bet yours are. 😉
Jo

and tkldsilly48, my guess, she was too insecure to talk to you about the real reasons she wanted to leave and used tickling so it would make you feel bad and give you "issue" with it. Just my uninformed two cents.

 

[TicklingIsLife]

That my friend, is your own fault. Albany is 3 hours away. South Jersey is even closer and there is a Hyenas gathering this Saturday. NEST is in May in Philly and the Connecticut gathering will be in the summer.

If you really wanted it, you would just come to a gathering.

Jen

🙄...if were only that easy for me, I would be the first one there 😛 😉 😀

 

[TickledToDeath]

Bare Feet,
WhatEVER gave you the idea that my feet are ticklish?? Nope they aren't. Nopt one little bit. Not at all. Nope, no way...no how, not mine, they don't wiggle, I don't scream, not ticklish...SORRY!

However, I bet yours are. 😉
Jo

and tkldsilly48, my guess, she was too insecure to talk to you about the real reasons she wanted to leave and used tickling so it would make you feel bad and give you "issue" with it. Just my uninformed two cents.

Damn good point, Jobelle! I bet that is exactly what happened. She hid the real reasons cause they were probably Lame and unsubstaintiated and picked the ONE thing she knew would get to him and make him feel guilty and degraded.

As for those feet of yours....hmmmmmm now why don't I believe you?
Hmmmmmmmmm?
😛



TTD

 

[TkldSlly48M]

Leaving

 

[Knox The Hatter]

Bare Feet,
WhatEVER gave you the idea that my feet are ticklish?? Nope they aren't. Nopt one little bit. Not at all. Nope, no way...no how, not mine, they don't wiggle, I don't scream, not ticklish...SORRY!

Knoxxie doth haveth his doubts

 

[steph]

And the Goddess QB is wicked~if you get to NEST, you're toast!
But be sure to get her back for me ok?

XOXO

Hi Barefeet!

Thanks so much for offering yourself for me to enjoy! Come to Phili! And then you can tell me if I'm devious enough. Taking the words of others isn't as much fun as experiencing it yourself.

Come on up in May!

 

[tulipangel]

Hun,
Im in the same boat as you kinda! I had ONE session and don't get tickled (really) now! My session was 5 yrs ago! Keep your chin up! Have you checked into dungeons? Im sure there are woman who would tickle you there 🙂
If you need to talk, PM me! I post like a monster on here and dont have all that much exp. 🙂

 

[TicklishMike]

I feel yah

man.. I know what ur going through

 

[Aragon]

You know barefeet, I'm just over the mountains from you in Tennessee. I have the same problem in finding people. I just happen to be the sort that doesn't let places like this cause me less chances. Be friendly, be flirty. When you date a girl, be honest. I have found that tickling is either hated by a "normal" girl or just ignored. Now Personally, I would love to get a chance at Steph, Layla, or Chickles, and many others, but I live nowhere near them and am starting up a business.Now, I doubt from a girl your dating that you would get in the tickling situation that you could with the beautiful women on here, but hey, be open, best in the situations.

 

[steph]

I thank you as always, for the mention, sweet darlin' Aragon

Oh and bare feet~please don't think it has anything to do with your race~we have MANY black members on TMF who are hugely popular, both on forum at at our play parties~I'd name names but I don't have their permission.

XOXO

You know barefeet, I'm just over the mountains from you in Tennessee. I have the same problem in finding people. I just happen to be the sort that doesn't let places like this cause me less chances. Be friendly, be flirty. When you date a girl, be honest. I have found that tickling is either hated by a "normal" girl or just ignored. Now Personally, I would love to get a chance at Steph, Layla, or Chickles, and many others, but I live nowhere near them and am starting up a business.Now, I doubt from a girl your dating that you would get in the tickling situation that you could with the beautiful women on here, but hey, be open, best in the situations.