Girlfriend or Lady Friend

[perky1001]

Im in a delema.
First of all I got a girlfriend who has pretty feet, she's not ticklish at all, but she lets me tickle them anytime I want. I will tickle them for hours but I don't get a single peep. Now I have a few lady friends. Three of these girls I know, have alright feet (not ugly but not pretty), I know from first hand that these three girls are extremly ticklish on their feet. I only got to tickle for a few seconds, but got a great reaction. Now, my girlfriend is exreamly jealous. These three girls wanna hang out, and I try to arange it so I can be alone, in a house with them, so that the chances of them being barefoot is increased. Now It's been awhile but Im meeting with two of these girls in the next couple of weeks. And i'n gonna tickle their feet to death. But If I get cought by my girlfriend, its over.
So, do I wan't pretty but not ticklish at all,
or
alright feet, but ticklish enough to satify my fetish.
What should I choose. The chance to tickle all the time with no reaction, or tickle some times with a great reaction.
What would you guys choose, or has this happened to you?

 

[TickleMantis]

What would I do?

I'd think about how much I loved my girlfriend and what, if anything, our relationship meant to me.

But then again I could be crazy. Although I doubt it.

 

[shark]

ditto that.

 

[Deleted member 2452]

is there a ring on your g.f.'s finger?

if not then your relation ship is still in the "dating" phase.
during the dating phase you are suposed to find out if you are compatable with one another.
it is obvious that you aren't compatable. you are already looking for a chance to tickle a girl who is ticklish. i advise you to end the relationship with the non ticklish lady, and start a serious relationship with the most ticklish one of the other 3 that you know, and want to tickle.
your call, but why stay with a lady who will never satisfy all your needs?
steve

 

[Myriads]

why stay with a lady who will never satisfy all your needs?

Because the mythic concept of the 'other' who completes a person and fills every want small and large is a pipe dream.

What should I choose. The chance to tickle all the time with no reaction, or tickle some times with a great reaction.

Relationships are comprimises in so many ways. If tickling is a make or break chriteria in your life then you'll need to evaluate this interaction. Meaning you'll probably end it and move on. (Rather then 'cheat' and continue it, for that's what stepping out on her and tickling these other women is for one who is aroused by tickling) On the other hand, perhaps all the other wonderful qualities the woman has, more then make up for the fact that she can't be tickled, and though annoying on one level, it can be overlooked.

It all depends on what you feel is important. None of us can make this choice for you.

Myriads

 

[Neutron]

If...

You're willing to junk a relationship to fill a want (note I don't say need) then you're no better than an animal.

Tron

 

[Shrivaya]

Is your girlfriend ticklish anywhere else? Does it have to be her feet?

 

[tklr5150]

I think most people have hit the nail on the head. If this is a new or frivolous relationship, just sort of dating, and if you decide that a girl's ticklishness outweighs other qualities you're looking for, than make a clean break now before it complicates things further down the road. If this is a more committed relationship, you may want to rethink your priorities. But either way, going behind your current gf's back is probably going to end badly whether you mean it to be "cheating" or not.

 

[maverick83]

Perky, I honestly believe that this situation is one that none of us can really assist you on. The compatibility issue is for you to decide. You need to identify your priorities. What is important to you, in a relationship? Personally, I get that information lined up before I get into a relationship. Once you've got an understanding of your priorities, figure out whether or not your current g/f fulfills them.

Also, if I may...Neutron, I disagree entirely. The pursuit of relationships is a means of fulfilling wants. (Of course they are not needs. None of us actually need to be with someone.) If you intend to make a comparison for animals, consider this. Animals have no standards. They have no concern for compatibility. Their sole intention is to reproduce. If you ask me, our tendency to seek out partners who we are compatible with is the opposite of animal behavior.

 

[magic fingers]

Perky, I have to agree w/Myriads. There's more to a woman than ticklish feet. Obviously you like this girl, otherwise you wouldn't be dating her in the first place. And even though she's not ticklish, apparently she enjoys having her feet tickled. I once dated a woman who's feet weren't ticklish at all, but she loved it when I tickled them, because it was so relaxing to her, and because she liked it so much, I also enjoyed that fact that I was making her feel good (and believe me, it's a real turn-on, knowing that you're making your partner feel good) And what do you know about these other girls? Are you even attracted to them, or just the fact they have ticklish feet? They may not even like being tickled. Bottom line; I guess it depends on how serious you are with your current girlfriend, but if you are serious about her, I wouldn't reject her just because her feet aren't ticklish.

 

[giggledude]

Two conflicting images spring to mind - someone about to settle for someone (s)he thinks is good enough only to meet the perfect person, which often involves ditching someone in as humiliating a way as possible at the altar; someone chasing unattainable perfection for ages, sometimes a whole lifetime, when happy love is close at hand and available from a trusted companion. Not exactly your situation, but pick your poison. Errors in love seem so likely, as there are few transactions in which we're so demanding of our partner, and so little honest ourselves (a loose paraphrase of a description of matrimony from *Mansfield Park*).