Guys, what reaction have you gotten when you revealed your fetish to g/f's or wives?

[TiklMafiaHitman]

Just trying to get a feel for what the average woman who is NOT already into tickling thinks of a tickling fetish. Were any of your women wierded out by it? Did they begrudgingly try it to make you happy? Did any of them think it sounded like fun right from the start? Did you ever reveal your fetish to a woman you were only casually dating, and not in a relationship with? And were some of them not surprised by the time you told them, because you had tickled them so much already? Thanks.

 

[Bugman]

Just trying to get a feel for what the average woman who is NOT already into tickling thinks of a tickling fetish. Were any of your women wierded out by it? Did they begrudgingly try it to make you happy? Did any of them think it sounded like fun right from the start? Did you ever reveal your fetish to a woman you were only casually dating, and not in a relationship with? And were some of them not surprised by the time you told them, because you had tickled them so much already? Thanks.

Never been married,but as far as girl friends yes to all of the above.

 

[taptoematt]

My wife caught me watching some Howard Stern tickle chair reruns and said with puzzling restraint " you like that ?" Sratched her head and walked out of the room. She's been OK with it ever since.

 

[Redmage]

When I was in my teens I introduced all of my girlfriends to one form of BDSM or another. Never had a problem. Since college I've never dated a woman that I didn't already know was kinky.

 

[unclebill]

It was a problem for me when I was married, and it still is a problem when I go on dates. Women in my neck of the woods just aren`t into tickling. I`ve been fortunate to have dated quite a few extremely ticklish ladies over the years, and while I am able indulge in my fetish I seldom take it to the level I desire. Thats why when I travel to Los Angeles I try to pay a visit to either Passive Arts or The Dominion. Those two dungeons are like a Disney World for adults. 😎

 

[Luv2Tickle69]

Only one g/f was a little weirded out about it initially....but with time, she eventually came around. Other g/fs took to it very nicely.....in more current stakes, my wife has been okay with it from word 'go.'

 

[Love2DayTrade]

I always tickle my girlfriends and I've only had one who was annoyed by it. That relationship didnt last long. The others have either simply laughed their heads off or laughed their heads off and tickled back.

I've told only one that I "have a tickle fetish" and she was ok with it. She thought is was a bit different but after I told her she turned into quite the tickle monster.

 

[Comfort Eagle]

I told one girlfriend, and while she acted like she thought it was cute, she only really let me get her good once(but it was REALLY good), and eventually told me she didn't like it much at all. But by that point, I had figured out she was a skank, and we hadn't been getten along well anyway, so she was probley just being a bitch.



Still, I got her GOOD that one time. 😀

 

[Coda]

I've had two girlfriends, both of whom shared serious relationships with me. Both took the idea of enjoying tickling in stride because it's fairly normal play-ish behaviour. They listened to me explain my attraction to feet in detail as well, and while we really cared about each other in both cases, I think that neither was completely comfortable with it because they didn't understand exactly what it was like to have that fetish. Their concerns included that I might be seduced by another person because of that weakness, and that if I were to glean sexual pleasure from their feet, that I was merely objectifying and not really caring about "her." While I can imagine that someone might develop these concerns for a lack of understanding of what it's like to have a fetish like this one, neither was warranted (nor does either describe a circumstance that I had ever even considered).

The toughest thing about being in my position is that with two experiences with such parallel resemblance, it's almost automatic to think that "all women" would have the same feelings given the same truthful description of me. Logically, though, I've never found it easy to believe that women and men are all that different, and it seems almost impossible to think that zero members of the opposite sex would enjoy the knowledge of a vulnerability like this in a guy they knew.

 

[Strider]

Most of my girlfriends have been kinky in some way or another, so they really haven't blinked when I told them. Interestingly, many were way more hesitant about being tickled than about being spanked or whipped. One of my exes was into blood play, but the idea of tickling made her run for the hills. I don't know if this is just my experience, but I've noticed many hardcore masochists for whom tickling is a hard limit.

 

[tcklft]

I've met a few girls who didn't like being tickled or weren't ticklish; I gotta indulge my kink, so we just went our separate ways with no hard feelings. I've yet to meet a girl who didn't enjoy getting her feet rubbed.

 

[Comfort Eagle]

I don't know if this is just my experience, but I've noticed many hardcore masochists for whom tickling is a hard limit.

I know about myself. I think that's really funny.

 

[brianspencer66]

I had one g/f when I was 30 who knew I had this fetish and we even practiced it though she was not the least bit ticklish for some reason. Anyway to show you how I pick em she happened to be in group therapy once a week and mentioned it to the whole class. Her instructor told her that I suffered from some sort of aggression complex. Needless to say I was not very happy about that or her mentioning this to her class. 🙁

 

[A's tcklr]

one girl of mine was open to the bondage and tickling fetish. she enjoyed the playful side of it, we never got around to the bondage part. she was scared of being that helpless and that ticklish, she was open to it though, just didnt get the chance. we had some troubles though and went our seperate ways.

 

[Mike_The_Lee]

Just trying to get a feel for what the average woman who is NOT already into tickling thinks of a tickling fetish. Were any of your women wierded out by it? Did they begrudgingly try it to make you happy? Did any of them think it sounded like fun right from the start? Did you ever reveal your fetish to a woman you were only casually dating, and not in a relationship with? And were some of them not surprised by the time you told them, because you had tickled them so much already? Thanks.

when i told my ex g/f about it she thought it was rather cute and whould use to tickle me quiet often and vise versa i tickled her (though she wasnt that ticklish, good for her, bad for me)

 

[duannewalton]

I didn't reveal it to them per se. They just sort of caught on the way I kept tickling them, playing with their feet, checking out their stockings, socks, etc. Most of the time, they were more than happy to indulge me. Once a girl and I were watching Bugs Bunny and they showed the one where Bugs is in the Department store and got his foot tickled by the manager. I started whistling and whooping and she cracked up laughing.

 

[Barbershopman]

My wife is ticklish to an extent, but not intp tickling like I am. When I finally opened up to her about my fetish, she not only lets me tickle her but purchased videos for me for my birthday. How cool is that!!

 

[Onlyfornow]

I had one g/f when I was 30 who knew I had this fetish and we even practiced it though she was not the least bit ticklish for some reason. Anyway to show you how I pick em she happened to be in group therapy once a week and mentioned it to the whole class. Her instructor told her that I suffered from some sort of aggression complex. Needless to say I was not very happy about that or her mentioning this to her class. 🙁

What a bitch :/

 

[knight]

Two women in my life really apply here. My high school girlfriend was very playful, and very ticklish. I used to tickle her all the time, but this was before I really discovered the depths of my fetish, and I never really told her how much tickling her turned me on, because I was kind of blind to it. I had at least two opportunities to really go to town with her, when we were alone, but I didn't take them. But she never really fought me that hard when I would tickle her.

Then there's my wife. She is insanely ticklish, and hates to be tickled. But she does know about my fetish, and - wonderful woman that she is - has never thought of me as weird or sick in any way. In fact, she occassionally lets me tickle her when we're in a more..intimate situation.

 

[jameslee]

sum friend knew dat already but no girls know dat yet

 

[Deleted member 2452]

i never got a "bad" reaction

i always told the girls i dated on the very first date. a couple i even warned in advance, lol. every single one was cool about it. not one called me names, or had a cold attitude. and all dated me for a respectable time.
that's why i have always preached that honesty is the best policy. be upfront with the lady.

 

[the wiz]

When I told my wife over 20 years ago, I got the usual look, (this dude's a freak) not the good freak either.

After 20 years, I still get the same look; most people do not understand why we love what we love. Everyone wants to put a negative connotations with tickling, but like everything else it’s up to the person not the group.

 

[storyteller]

Just trying to get a feel for what the average woman who is NOT already into tickling thinks of a tickling fetish.

Average woman, here, who wasn't already into tickling when told about it by a male friend who was.

Were any of your women wierded out by it?

I don't think I was, although I think he told me about having a foot fetish first. And, no one had ever told me that they had any kind of fetish before, so I asked a lot of questions.

Did they begrudgingly try it to make you happy?

After he revealed his foot fetish, I rather made a point of wearing sandals around him at various times or dangling my shoe off my foot where he could see...

Did any of them think it sounded like fun right from the start?

Can't remember when he mentioned that he had a tickle fetish too. He'd probably have to address how he thought I took that revelation. As for me, I did some research into tickling as a fetish, which led me here. Now, I'm up for it. Still waiting to be tickled though!!!

Did you ever reveal your fetish to a woman you were only casually dating, and not in a relationship with?

That's how we were. Friends who casually dated.

And were some of them not surprised by the time you told them, because you had tickled them so much already? Thanks.

HAH!!!! I'm STILL waiting for him to tickle me and worship my feet!!!!

What can I say? He's S--L--O--W on the uptake!!!

Looks like someone else will be my first tickler if he doesn't hurry up!