hard vs soft tickling

[mike273273]

Hi all. This is my first post.

I was watching a video clip the other day where a girl was tickling her bf, and she was tickling him hard the whole time, scratching hard, digging in etc, and he was barely laughing, just grunting. I have seen a few videos where the hard method is used as opposed to soft, what do you all think?

Personally I think soft would be more effective, soft and slow would be more tourtourous as opposed to soft and fast, but soft and fast should be effective too. I think hard tickling would more so hurt.

Although i think I saw a video where a lady was tickling an asian man (on one of those clips4sale sights) and she was tickling hard and he was still laughing.

Any thoughts?

Mike

 

[ilovethickbbws]

Hi Mike and welcome 🙂
If I'm the ticklee, I love hard and soft tickling both, as well as everything and anything in between. Receiving hard tickling anywhere on my body will definately have me in uncontrollable hysterical laughter. Soft tickling will have the same effect on some parts of my body. On other parts of me the soft tickling will give me goosebumps and result in very intense, semi-orgasmatic feelings of pleasure, shooting through my entire body. I have no preferences and I like getting a mixture, as I love it all.
If I'm the tickler, I'll use the technique which is the most effective, as well as preferred by the Woman I'm tickling, thus insuring that she gets maximum tickling enjoyment.

 

[steph]

For me, hard sucks~I bruise easily and you WON'T get a second chance 😉...Everyone's different though....
XOXO

 

[Canadian Ninja]

Soft is much more sensual and, even if the 'lee doesn't share your fetish, can be a decided turnon. Soft it is.

 

[curvygirl]

I agree with soft. I love being tickled softly and slowly. But after being tickled for awhile I tend to become less sensitive to the touch and may require a bit of a firmer touch in certain areas. Being a lee and ler has its benefits.

 

[The Pianist]

Depends on the circumstance. Idealy, I prefer soft tickling... but that generally require the lee to not be able to do anything about it (ie, have her hands restained somehow). Its just there something erotic about having a girl squirm, wriggle and giggle around the place while you're lazily scratching and dragging your fingers around the place keeping her on the verge of laughter.

Unfortunately if they're not restrained, it generally means that any attempt to do this softly and slowly will be quickly squashed (whether they like it or not by their reflexes)... so then its harder and faster... get them in hysterics and idealy win the battle so you can hold them down and then start the teasing again...

 

[stdave]

I think a combination of both soft/hard tickling can be pretty devastating. But as Steph says, if the lee is very sensative then soft tickles is the way to go.

 

[Newcastle Uni]

A lot of mike's have joined recently. Far be it for me to ask whether they are all the same person? But are they??

 

[luvgirlsfeet]

Soft and slow is the best way for me for both tickling and being tickled

 

[toyou444]

Soft for me! I hate it when someone jams their fingers in my sides from behind. 1...it hurts. 2...they get mad when it doesn't tickle me! Come up and lightly glide your fingers down my sides and then try to figure out how you can peel me from the ceiling!

~ toyou

 

[Mimi]

Welcome to the forum, Mike, and congratulations on your first post! We're thrilled to have you with us. 😉

As to your question, you'll get a different answer from nearly every lee you ask. Some prefer soft, some only respond to hard, some enjoy both. I think typically it's best to start with soft and work up to hard only if the lee responds well to a firmer touch. Many lees bruise easily or only feel pain when tickled roughly, and that can ruin a session quicker than your neighbors walking in. 😉

Mimi

 

[Tcklsh_Kandy]

The soft ,slow ,teasing tickles DRIVE ME INSANEEEEEEEEEE . 😱

 

[Red Jester]

Different areas really. Hard tickling won't work on a girl's feet anymore than light strokes on someone's ribs.

 

[switchtickler]

Please Please Please

Soft. You cam make a 'lee jump and twitch and maybe even laugh from hard tickling, but it's not necessarily becuase it tickles. It's an automtic physical reastion, and not always a pleasant one. Especially if you dig your fingertips into my ribs, I'll jump . . because it really hurts! Start suave, you can always go harder when they beg you to.

 

[Ticklemmmeeeeee]

Interesting thought... most here said it and I reiterate, there is a time and body part for both kinds of tickling...first, a word on being tickled very hard...my dad always tickled me so hard I would pee my pants and eventually cry, he never did stop until I ended up crying...then he would kiss me all better but it hurt really badly...his favorite place to tickle was in my sides and ribs and it would tickle like hell until he got so carried away that he dug in and then it didn't tickle much anymore it just felt like it would kill me...ironically I loved it and sought him out frequently...aaanyway, these days I prefer firm tickles most of the time whenever I get that intense level of "I need to get tickled" feeling....but the soft sensual tickles are quite yummy and soothing as well as erotic depending upon where they are administered and by whom...I do however crave the very intense tickles now and then along with some pretty severely disturbing side cravings of bondage and umm..other stuff,lol...those times are relatively disturbing to me after the fact but it's really good at the time.
~tm

 

[Jimblast]

Ticklemeeeeeeeeeeeee!

LOL! Hey! I tried to PM you but your PM box is full! Feel free to contact me at my email [email protected] or on here by PMing me.....would love to catch up with you! Hope all is well!

Jim

 

[Ticklemmmeeeeee]

Jim!..hey you! I will email u in a bit...good to see u too! 🙂

 

[unit5610]

The soft ,slow ,teasing tickles DRIVE ME INSANEEEEEEEEEE . 😱

Yes!! I couldn't have put it better. I find it so much fun to both give and receive in that manner, but it also depends on what the 'lee gets the most "enjoyment" from.

 

[tickleshotel]

Soft flutters of a fingertip slowly up,down or across the middle of my inside of my inner elbow,faint blow in my ear, slow erotic brush of my hair with gentle caring fingers,slow tickle on my neck or my toes,soles with mustache,facial hair all drive me into orbit...
That said,I also can enjoy the hard eager passionate tickles when I am helpless in a pair of stocks that leaves me laughing contagiously until I laugh silently,and when finished,I am breathless,have to recuperate but feeling so happy and content almost like ticklish eupheria if I can use such a expression

 

[NG02]

You know I think I know why Lers tend to take the hard tickling approach. I believe it has to do with the Lees laughter, the Ler not satisfied with the intensity of thier Lees laughter will tend to dig or scratch harder in hopes of bringing a louder, more authentic(so to speak) laugh but in actuality the Lee laughing is already at its climax(also so to speak...lol). And the Ler just doesnt notice it until either the Lee complains or in Ticklemmmeeeeeeeeeee's the Lee may start crying. But then also like Ticklemmeeeeeeee(I like typing that) some Lee might be insearch or a more firm touch. So I guess you gotta just feel your Lee out and have some communication.

 

[lk70]

The soft ,slow ,teasing tickles DRIVE ME INSANEEEEEEEEEE . 😱

YES! The soft teasing tickles make it a more sexual experience for me, though. Firmer tickling gets me laughing and trying to deflect the tickler's hands- lots of fun and also arousing.

 

[Sole Stroker]

Definitely the softer, slower variety, especially when receiving. Hard fast tickling sends me into a kind of sensory overload where I can't stop and enjoy the sensation. Slow tickling drives me absolutely crazy!

 

[ufodude]

The soft ,slow ,teasing tickles DRIVE ME INSANEEEEEEEEEE . 😱

Amen! Not like I have a lot of experience in the tickle world, but that sums up exactly what I like to do when I get the chance.