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Having a tickling fetish sucks sometimes for relationships

Ease her into it, most people that "hate" tickling can be relaxed into it, given enough time. Start off with a massage-type slow tickle on the back and feet.
 
So if you didn't have a tickling fetish, how would the relationship not be a detriment?
 
Unless you've figured out some technological workaround, there's already a problem sexually with someone who hates being touched.

And before people start beating me with sticks I know that survivors of abuse, for instance, have perfectly legitimate bases for these fears, but as someone who's been in a relationship like this, maybe they ought to visit a therapist and talk it through, pick up some anti-anxiety meds and stop TORTURING the other person in the relationship.

Not everyone's gonna be into the same things, it's a reality. There's probably stuff she's into that you couldn't get your head around. I like GQguy's signature on this: "If she won't indulge your fetish, I bet you that cuter, smarter girl across the bar will. Lets go find out." 🙂
 
Thanks for the shout out Stockytickler!

DatAsian said:
Long story short, I met a girl who is easily one of the most beautiful women I have ever seen and we both like each other. The problem is, I have a huge tickling fetish and she seems rather reticent when it comes to anything sexual; when I mentioned tickling she stated that she hated anything that relates to being touched.

I know that in any healthy relationship, both individuals aim to please one another but it never feels right when the other person is "doing it just to make me happy".

I still want to see how things turn out but sometimes having a tickling fetish sucks because it definitely becomes a detriment to a relationship at times.
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I think you're skipping steps buddy. A girl has to be OK with your touch before you can even think about getting in some tickles. If you're not there yet....it's just weird. I've had random women grab my butt....and it's weird...regardless of if I'm attracted to them or not..and I'm a dude! I think once you start hugging her...and know that the kiss is impending, then a tickle is welcome. If you're having sex then you can torture her for a few seconds. It's all based on your level of intimacy. From the sounds of things though you're not there yet...take your time buddy!
And it's wayyyyy too soon to talk about relationships.

Girls tend to like being touched by guys they like....even if it's a tickle. I can bet you that the Brad Pitt's most painfully ticklish fan would undergo a 10minute tickle session if it made Brad Pitt happy. We're not Brad Pitt but same idea...our women will bend over backward to please us if they are attracted to us. Attraction is FAR more than just looks! And if she's attracted and won't indulge you...read my sig


GQ
 
The problem is, I have a huge tickling fetish and she seems rather reticent when it comes to anything sexual; when I mentioned tickling she stated that she hated anything that relates to being touched.
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Seriously - I don't think she likes you in a more-than-friends-way! Otherwise she either wouldn't have said that, because it basically means she doesn't want to be touched by you at all, or she has really been through a lot of crap to be that much against being touched in general.
 
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GQ hit the nail on the head. You have to take it slow with them, but they are worth it. Also, he couldn't have been more right by saying attraction is more than just looks and when a girl is attracted to you, she will do what makes you happy, to a certain extent of course. Take it slow and don't do anything she isn't comfortable with. That would only make matters far worse.
 
I know exactly how you feel. I want so bad to tickle my sister-in-law. She has really nice feet and I get a serious boner just thinking about tickling her. If anybody has any suggestions, I could really use the help.
 
dont know if this makes you more wiser...

I have never ever been in a relationship, I have never beed abused (if i think right wath it means)
I have always been by myself in school, maby 1-2 friends in some periods..
Im a shy person, dont like my looks, long story short... Im 26 now, having big problems beeing touched, like hugs or just sitting next to someone on a bus eaven if its a person I know. Not so long ago, I really just want to be huged.. I want to have friends. I get so happy when a team mate puts a hand on my sholder and maby also gives me a smile. Maby Im not a horrible person afterall, Im maby okey.
I think thats why Im more into tickling. I want to smile. And all reading on how good and nessesary it is for people to have fysikal contact and I dont mean having sex. Just a hug or just a hand on your sholder. Somekind of feelgood hormones starts.
I got panicattaks and Im depresed. I hope someday I can be "normal".

I think its nessesary to take it really slow. Not giving up.. hugs can make miracles.. Atleast for me and specially from a person that I feel really cares about you.
I think I finally found some amazing people, to call my friends.
 
You missed the point... she doesn't just not like being tickled... she does not like to be TOUCHED. That's a whole 'nuther can of worms. She has some issues with intimacy or whatever... that's gonna be a tough relationship and I'll betcha there are a whole lot of other issues you don't know about yet.

But, to your original comment, yes, tickling can get in the way sometimes. BTDT.
 
I know exactly how you feel. I want so bad to tickle my sister-in-law. She has really nice feet and I get a serious boner just thinking about tickling her. If anybody has any suggestions, I could really use the help.
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I truly hope this is not meant seriously.
 
'she hated anything that relates to being touched'

ok wait, so she doesnt like to be touched period... massages, rubs, nothing? yeah that kinda screams shes not that into you... sorry...
people stated earlier that you need to work up to that first anyways, you cant just meet someone and be like 'HEY I WANNA TICKLE YOU'... doesnt work that way and a good way to weird people out....
 
I hate to keep this broken record skipping but...Being touched? She 'hates anything related to being touched'? How does she get dressed! But seriously, you say having a fetish is bad, (meaning no offense to you or her) she seems to have a problem more detrimental than your very mild fetish.
 
DatAsian said:
I still want to see how things turn out but sometimes having a tickling fetish sucks because it definitely becomes a detriment to a relationship at times.
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You have to definitely get that under control. I've dated and met a lot of women and I've tickled-tested just about all of them. Some were a little more accepting of the fetish whereas others were not.
 
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