Help Ask Out A Girl

[jakobmobley123]

I found the girl I want to ask out but i'm not sure how to go about it.
Should I just ask out right or should I take this slow. Help would be much appreciated.

 

[TKpervert]

Ask outright. She might just say yes if you ask with class.

 

[MrMacphisto]

Dude, you're gonna have to be a little more specific for any major advice. There are so many factors to consider. First of all, how well do you know her? Second of all, what kind of personality does she have? Third, how does she react around you? You need to be careful about this. You'll want to try and pick up as much about her as you can through her body language and such. I'd give this a few days of interaction before you ask her.

 

[steph]

Keep it low pressure at first and if it goes well, take it from there. I'm guessing you're a pretty young guy? Ask her out for a nice breakfast or lunch or cup of coffee to start...

XOXO

 

[ms.brightside]

How exciting! I suggest going for the kill and asking her 🙂 I'm so excited for you!

 

[asutickler]

Just walk up, smile, and ask her. Unless you're some sort of serial killer, its best to just be yourself. 🙂

 

[devilsadvocate]

Talk with her for a few days, see if she's actually someone you could handle being with. then if that seems to be the case, go for it!

 

[jakobmobley123]

yeah

Well first off I only get to see her on wednesday which is at school. I have know her scene my Sophomore year of high school, I knew I liked her at that time but didn't bother to ask her out because she had a boyfriend. Well now it is my last chance to ask her because next semster I won't get to see her becasue she is tranfser to a different college.

 

[Mz Chaos]

Don't do it this way...

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[Helena]

Well first off I only get to see her on wednesday which is at school. I have know her scene my Sophomore year of high school, I knew I liked her at that time but didn't bother to ask her out because she had a boyfriend. Well now it is my last chance to ask her because next semster I won't get to see her becasue she is tranfser to a different college.

Hello jakobmobley123,
I'm Helena. Nice to meet you. How should you handle this situation?
You have liked her since your sophomore year of high school.
You are now in college, along with her, so you have liked her for a few years?
I like Steph's idea about going out for coffee. It sounds like you have only admired her from a distance.
Have some conversation with her during coffee, and see where things go.

 

[steph]

Thanks honey~appreciate that.
It's nice and low-pressure for the girl, and you can always take the party elsewhere if the chemistry's right...

XOXO

I like Steph's idea about going out for coffee. It sounds like you have only admired her from a distance.
Have some conversation with her during coffee, and see where things go.

 

[Goodieluver]

I found the girl I want to ask out but i'm not sure how to go about it.
Should I just ask out right or should I take this slow. Help would be much appreciated.

"Did you see the exorcist?......Did you like it?" and the rest will fall like widgets

 

[Illtcklu]

Keep it low pressure at first and if it goes well, take it from there. I'm guessing you're a pretty young guy? Ask her out for a nice breakfast or lunch or cup of coffee to start...

XOXO

Steph would you like to go out for a cup of coffee, sometime?



Even though I know Steph will say HELL NO!(LOL) That's the way I would ask.............. not knowing the full situation ( are you in college, high school, co- worker). Don't try to be too creative just yet!

 

[Mitchell]

Try to do it all very casually. One time, in high school, I made a huge mistake of calling up a girl who had known me from a class we had the semester before, and asking her on the phone. Bad idea. She turned me down, and I never went that route again.
What I would do is to wait until you see her, walk up, try starting a casual conversation about class, the weather, a movie you saw, etc. Then, hopefully, once you've gotten her involved in conversation, you can just casually say: "Gee, would you like to go out for coffee, or lunch?" That way, it all happens very casually.
Hope that advice helped. Good Luck.

Mitch

 

[jakobmobley123]

If she says yes what do I talk about on the date I'm not very comfortable talking to girls.

 

[Mitchell]

Try to talk about general things. Movies, music, school activities, and such. Many times a solid conversation can start by discussing general events.
Also, one thing I read, and learned over the years on dates, is to try and talk a lot about the girl. Ask about her interests, her life, her classes, her work, etc. Girls, especially as you're getting to know them, don't like a guy who is all "me, me, me". If a girl feels you are very interested in her life, work, opinions, viewpoints, and feelings, they will tend to respond more positively to you, and the date will go better.
Hope that helps. Gosh, I feel like a relationship advice couneslor, should I get a talk show or something? J/king. Seriously, good luck, bud. I hope it works out for you.

Mitch

 

[asutickler]

If she says yes what do I talk about on the date I'm not very comfortable talking to girls.

You can talk about anything, really... Its best if you don't make up a detailed game plan for yourself when you're going out on a date. You'll only wind up trying to remember a hundred different conversational topics, rules of ettiquite, and etc. Just be yourself, talk about things that interest you, and ask her about what she likes and dislikes in general. No matter how hot you think she is, when you get right down to it you're just carrying on a conversation with another person, plain and simple. Don't worry too much about making her like you... Just relax and concentrate on having an enjoyable time. 🙂