How to raise your sons and daughters with a TK Fetish.

[Paultickler]

Ok, I'm 23 and not considering having children already, but I always asking to myself how to explain them what's going on with me. Even if my girlfriend like it too.

 

[AngelOfDarkness]

I don't really see a need to tell your children that you have a tickling fetish.

 

[Sandrock74]

Ok, I'm 23 and not considering having childrens already, but I always asking to myself how to explain them what's going on with me. Even if my girldfriend like it too.

Where to start with this?

Are you really 23? You want "childrens" already? Why wouldn't you marry your "girldfriend" first, then have kids? Why would you feel the odd need to tell your kids you have a tickle fetish? Trust me, no kids want to hear about what floats their parents boat!

I don't know what my parents do in their bedroom and I couldn't be happier!

 

[Elphaba]

I gotta say, Paul, I do have to agree with the two above...

Don't tell your children, what good could possibly ever come from it?
If my parents told me how they got their kicks I doubt I could ever look at them EVER again.

 

[Deleted member 66627]

Besides explaining sex in it's base form; I wouldn't think you'd need to elaborate further on your kink interests.

 

[Raytheon]

Imagine what you'd tell a judge in a child abuse case ... that would be just about spot on 😉

 

[Skulls]

I agree with everyone as well. I wouldn't say anything to my children about that stuff.

As for being 23 and thinking of children, I am also 23 and although my gf and I do not live together yet, we have been a couple for 7 years and I recently started seriously thinking about what it would be like to be a father. I can't wait....I think I'd want a daughter.

 

[Musicroxmysox]

Seriously, imagine being the child in this situation and having "dear old dad" tell you his sexual kinks.

It's great to inform your future children about safe sex and stuff, but some things are best kept private.

I'd say your worrying over something you don't and shouldn't even do.

 

[Skipadeedoodah]

Is there a particular reason you feel the need to tell them? I understand the desire to have an open and honest relationship with your kids, with an open line of communication, but honestly, if my parents told me about some fetish they had I'd be a little I don't think they'd want to know, and I definitely don't think they'd need to know.

 

[chicago]

Would you feel comfortable with your parents sitting you down to let you know that they really enjoy having anal? Or that they just can't get enough 69? Or that they have a huge collection of dildos in their closet? Or that your dad gets really excited when your mom stomps on his nuts?

If my parent(s) sat me down to tell me anything about their private sex life, I would freak the fuck out. There are things your parents and/or your children do not need to know about you.

 

[Comfort Eagle]

Tickle board, sometimes you really make me facepalm...

 

[Deleted member 66627]

Uh

Are you really 23? You want "childrens" already?

I had and clearly WANTED mine at 18.


So?

 

[TickleSwitch24]

lol

Tickle board, sometimes you really make me facepalm...

So far, im gonna have to second the facepalm on this one.

Maybe you could elaborate a little on what is "going on" with you? Is there something about it you can't keep private? Are you worried about a "don't tickle daddy, it's weird?" kind of situation? Are you going to need to explain away the stocks in the basement and boxes of feathers? Or why the electric toothbrushes always disappear?

 

[Goodieluver]

I think the OP may be more like how to approach it so to speak in a sense like "The kids eventually gonna find out"

I mean, it would prob be more shocking to have your child walk on on you havin the wife tied down and tickling her vs both of you havin sex in bed. Eventually growing up Sex will be a topic

 

[baldadonis]

Yeah, this post is a little unclear to me. If you are asking how to raise kids in a home where you have a tickle fetish, then I would say you do it the same as you do with other kink you might have, by keeping your business to yourself. As other people have said, you kid seriously doesn't want to know about your business. Even if he/she eventually becomes a teenager and is curious about the laughter coming from mom and dad's bedroom, they aren't going to be asking. Your kids do not and should not know about your sex life.

And if your question was how to raise your kids to have a tickle fetish, then you need to strongly reevaluate your priorities before you become a parent.

 

[Artoo]

I totally misunderstood the title of this when I read it. 😀

 

[chicago]

I totally misunderstood the title of this when I read it. 😀

Me too.
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or did we?

 

[baldadonis]

Read this thread for some context to help decide how to interpret this one.

http://www.ticklingforum.com/showthread.php?t=161322

 

[leafstk]

I think what he is saying is he is considering NOT to have children because of his tickle fetish.... and doesn't know how he would explain it if they found out.

He's from Argentina, so just a case of less than perfect english I think 😉

If that is the case, I don't see how having this fetish should interfere with our want and/or need to have children with our partner eventually. As others have already explained, some things should remain private and there's no real reason why should ever have to explain it to them, should you choose to have them in the first place 🙂

 

[Goodieluver]

All i know is no damn man is tickling my daughter(either if i have one or the unborn one in my dangles)

 

[Raytheon]

To drag this thread to a more ... acceptable ... place:

Anything on here with the dreaded C word in it is bad. But its a taboo that never gets talked about. It was something really hard to explain to the girlfriend after she dragged me away from a mum tickling her kid. Having to almost convince her it defiantly wasn't sexual and the 'inner workings' of my likes. Dude, easily one of the hardest things I've had to do in a long time!

 

[..Glamorous..]

I had and clearly WANTED mine at 18.


So?

I second that, I was 19 when I got pregnant. Either way, I for one am not going to be explaining anything to my child. It's not his business, it's mine. I'm not quite sure why anyone would think they need to tell their children something like that.

 

[emilyemilyemily]

Where to start with this?

Are you really 23? You want "childrens" already? Why wouldn't you marry your "girldfriend" first, then have kids?

i'd check to confirm that he's foreign (which he has stated before he is) before making fun of his spelling and grammar.

 

[The_New_One]

It sure isn't your childrens business, thats true. I dont know what my parents were into, and I'm pretty glad about that. You don't have to tell them how EXACTLY they came to be.

I'm eager to find out how many times the word "abuse" will fall in this thread. Hilarious. Thats about as absurd as saying the word "Hitler", as it has nothing to do with the topic. I guess some americans would drop dead instantly when they saw naked rugrats playing on german beaches, being the most natural thing in the world. Hilarious. No, actually its pretty sad.

 

[Deleted member 66627]

I guess some americans would drop dead instantly when they saw naked rugrats playing on german beaches, being the most natural thing in the world. Hilarious. No, actually its pretty sad.

It is sad. America is scared of boobs. 🙁