How to raise your sons and daughters with a TK Fetish.

[Raytheon]

The New One:
I'm eager to find out how many times the word "abuse" will fall in this thread. Hilarious. Thats about as absurd as saying the word "Hitler", as it has nothing to do with the topic.

I'd argue that trying to influence your child's sexual development ... and the sexual things you'd have to do to peruse that influence could and in front of a sensible jury would in fact be considered an abuse.

But you could well be right if I have misunderstood the question?

 

[..Glamorous..]

It is sad. America is scared of boobs. 🙁

I love boobs.

 

[Deleted member 66627]

I love boobs.

I do too!

But, our society is so anti-nudity. It's weird. Like if half of us were to walk around topless, it would upset the balance of the world or something.

 

[The_New_One]

I love rationality 😀

 

[rhiannon]

I think the OP may be more like how to approach it so to speak in a sense like "The kids eventually gonna find out"

I mean, it would prob be more shocking to have your child walk on on you havin the wife tied down and tickling her vs both of you havin sex in bed. Eventually growing up Sex will be a topic

I think it is a pretty good idea not to indulge in your tickling fetish with a child in the house! There is no way it will not hear anything!

 

[..Glamorous..]

I think it is a pretty good idea not to indulge in your tickling fetish with a child in the house! There is no way it will not hear anything!

Why?

 

[rhiannon]

Why?

Because if the child hears Mommy laughing and screaming in the next room, it will most likely check out what's going on? Would you have appreciated it if your parents were all moaning loudly while you were in the same house able to hear everything?

 

[..Glamorous..]

Because if the child hears Mommy laughing and screaming in the next room, it will most likely check out what's going on? Would you have appreciated it if your parents were all moaning loudly while you were in the same house able to hear everything?

My husband tickles me all the time in front of my son. He just ignores us, I mean tickling isn't sexual for me so maybe I'd feel differently if it was. I was just wondering. And, idk about the last part.. my parents have been divorced since I was little but, I really don't think it would have bothered me any.

 

[Knot Amewzed]

I love boobs.

I do too!

But, our society is so anti-nudity. It's weird. Like if half of us were to walk around topless, it would upset the balance of the world or something.

Did someone say boobs?

 

[Knot Amewzed]

Because if the child hears Mommy laughing and screaming in the next room, it will most likely check out what's going on? Would you have appreciated it if your parents were all moaning loudly while you were in the same house able to hear everything?

I am truly starting to believe that you only type to hear the random clicking noises that your keyboard makes.

 

[rhiannon]

My husband tickles me all the time in front of my son. He just ignores us, I mean tickling isn't sexual for me so maybe I'd feel differently if it was. I was just wondering. And, idk about the last part.. my parents have been divorced since I was little but, I really don't think it would have bothered me any.

It's different if it isn't sexual, but then it also isn't a fetish. But I doubt you would do a naked tie down tickling session with your kid next room, would you?

I also really doubt most people wouldn't be bothered if they heard their parents having sex. All those who stated on here that they don't want to know about their parents' sex life? Why would they want to hear it?

Most people also don't want their children to hear them, so they try to keep the sounds of sex low - and that is how it should be.

 

[..Glamorous..]

It's different if it isn't sexual, but then it also isn't a fetish. But I doubt you would do a naked tie down tickling session with your kid next room, would you?

I also really doubt most people wouldn't be bothered if they heard their parents having sex. All those who stated on here that they don't want to know about their parents' sex life? Why would they want to hear it?

Most people also don't want their children to hear them, so they try to keep the sounds of sex low - and that is how it should be.

Well most people are open with the sex lives, as I am and so is my husband. I have heard numerous people have sex and it has never bothered me. Even people I don't want to think about having sex. I guess it all depends on ones maturity. People have sex, what do I care if they do or if I can hear it. I live in a fucking apartment and I sure as hell can hear the fat slob next door having sex, doesn't both me one bit. If I heard my mom having sex (which I know she does because I'm one of 5 kids), why would it bother me? I'm not the one having sex with her. So I guess I shouldn't have sessions or even sex since my bedroom is next to my son's? That is insane. I'm into a lot of other stuff, sexually, that could be loud. Doesn't mean because I have children I'm going to stop doing the things I like. It's not like I'm doing it on his bedroom floor.

 

[rhiannon]

Well, everybody has their own feelings about it! Good for you if you are that open. Most people I know are not.

In my opinion, children shouldn't be confronted with everything out of pure egoism. Loud, excessive sex can be done while the child is with the grandparents or another baby sitter.

But, as I said, just my opinion! I wouldn't want to listen to my parents having sex, and they wouldn't want to listen to me! And that is although we talk about sex pretty open!

 

[TickleSwitch24]

a little off topic... but the topic is stale anyway

I do too!

But, our society is so anti-nudity. It's weird. Like if half of us were to walk around topless, it would upset the balance of the world or something.

Since that stemmed from a topic about Germans letting their kids run around nekkid at the beach, felt like mentioning something.

Last summer I was at the beach and a lady set up next to me with like 8 kids, two of which were nekkid, and I was so offended I left. That lady, in my opinion, is not too bright.

I work at a jail. In the state that I live in, we are rumored to have one of the highest rates of pedophilia compared to our population. I've seen these guys, I know their stories, it's hideous. And I know there is an absolute shit-ton of them in my area.

Might as well be going to the beach with a pile of 100 dollar bills in an open suitcase. No sicko is going to be staring at my baby's flesh. Just something to consider.

 

[..Glamorous..]

Well, everybody has their own feelings about it! Good for you if you are that open. Most people I know are not.

In my opinion, children shouldn't be confronted with everything out of pure egoism. Loud, excessive sex can be done while the child is with the grandparents or another baby sitter.

But, as I said, just my opinion! I wouldn't want to listen to my parents having sex, and they wouldn't want to listen to me! And that is although we talk about sex pretty open!

I'm glad you think that way. And that you plan to schedule your sex? Once you have kids, ya get it when ya can get it. I'm also glad you'll have babysitters at your disposal. But, most sex is no where near they way it is before you have kids.. sure once in a while it is or when the kids are away.

 

[rhiannon]

I'm glad you think that way. And that you plan to schedule your sex? Once you have kids, ya get it when ya can get it. I'm also glad you'll have babysitters at your disposal. But, most sex is no where near they way it is before you have kids.. sure once in a while it is or when the kids are away.

Guess why I don't plan to have kids. 😉 I'm a self-centered bitch who wants to have loud sex and tickling whenever and wherever I want. 😉

Since that stemmed from a topic about Germans letting their kids run around nekkid at the beach, felt like mentioning something.

Last summer I was at the beach and a lady set up next to me with like 8 kids, two of which were nekkid, and I was so offended I left. That lady, in my opinion, is not too bright.

I work at a jail. In the state that I live in, we are rumored to have one of the highest rates of pedophilia compared to our population. I've seen these guys, I know their stories, it's hideous. And I know there is an absolute shit-ton of them in my area.

Might as well be going to the beach with a pile of 100 dollar bills in an open suitcase. No sicko is going to be staring at my baby's flesh. Just something to consider.

That is the kind of argument that is used to get women to wear a Burka!

 

[Deleted member 66627]

Since that stemmed from a topic about Germans letting their kids run around nekkid at the beach, felt like mentioning something.

Last summer I was at the beach and a lady set up next to me with like 8 kids, two of which were nekkid, and I was so offended I left. That lady, in my opinion, is not too bright.

I work at a jail. In the state that I live in, we are rumored to have one of the highest rates of pedophilia compared to our population. I've seen these guys, I know their stories, it's hideous. And I know there is an absolute shit-ton of them in my area.

Might as well be going to the beach with a pile of 100 dollar bills in an open suitcase. No sicko is going to be staring at my baby's flesh. Just something to consider.

Those kinds of folks are the reasons as to why we are so censored.

It's not society's fault as a whole. It's the shit-stains within the society that ruin shit for everyone.

 

[Raytheon]

Guess why I don't plan to have kids. I'm a self-centered bitch who wants to have loud sex and tickling whenever and wherever I want.

haha thats a classic 😀

That is the kind of argument that is used to get women to wear a Burka!

rofl! Where do you get this stuff? How can you possibly compare the argument for keeping your children away from pedophiles and women forced into wearing burkas?!

 

[rhiannon]

rofl! Where do you get this stuff? How can you possibly compare the argument for keeping your children away from pedophiles and women forced into wearing burkas?!

Easy! I shouldn't have to keep my child away from pedophiles, pedophiles should be kept away from my child! Why do I have to lock my child up just because a pedophile might lust after it?

The Burka (or veil that covers a muslimas hair) is used so 'men don't look at women with lust'. So why does the woman have to cover up? Can't the guys just contain themselves??

You see the parallels?

 

[Raytheon]

rhiannon:
You see the parallels?

lol i do but there is a difference. Muslim women are required by their religion to wear their Burka where as you get a choice to look after your child. Your argument in theory is correct and I agree with you. But in reality do you trust your local law enforcement to keep someone from bum raping your kid?

 

[rhiannon]

lol i do but there is a difference. Muslim women are required by their religion to wear their Burka where as you get a choice to look after your child. Your argument in theory is correct and I agree with you. But in reality do you trust your local law enforcement to keep someone from bum raping your kid?

The Quran does not require the women to wear a Burka; it was men interpreting it that way, but anyways - I do not see why I should cover up my (non-existent 🙂 ) child just because a pedophile COULD be around! Then I can't let it out of the house unaccompanied! I have never heard about nude kids being kidnapped off the beach, they are usually disappearing on the way to or from school! That would be like me not wearing sexy clothes out of being afraid to be raped!

 

[Angel77]

I do too!

But, our society is so anti-nudity. It's weird. Like if half of us were to walk around topless, it would upset the balance of the world or something.

I do three!

 

[Angel77]

Would you feel comfortable with your parents sitting you down to let you know that they really enjoy having anal? Or that they just can't get enough 69? Or that they have a huge collection of dildos in their closet? Or that your dad gets really excited when your mom stomps on his nuts?

If my parent(s) sat me down to tell me anything about their private sex life, I would freak the fuck out. There are things your parents and/or your children do not need to know about you.

This. I heard my parents have sex a few times when I was a kid and that was enough to traumatize me for life, there's no way I'd want to know what their turn-ons would be......

 

[love feet]

do not do it!!

 

[natural tickler]

But what if your kids happen to stumble on your kink??? And if they ask you about it, you feel the obligation to tell them??

The next question I have is

If you are honest with yourself, and your kink, then why not be honest with them and tell them?? You seem to be giving them not enough credit, to the point you act like they would freak out or something.... some kids are more mature than you think

just my 0.02, returnable if not satisified