I just started! I can't give up!

[shadowofsergei]

Well...I'm 18-years-old and I've just started getting active in tickling and becoming immersed in the tickling community not too long ago. I've had a foot-tickling fetish for as long as I can remember, but it just wasn't until now that something sparked me to be more outward with it.

My only thing is that I want to find a good tickle partner, but I'm just afriad that my inexperience with being active in the community is going to be working against me.

Any help or tips on actually finding a good ticklee? Do's and don'ts? Those sorts of things....

 

[amkes]

well you're a guy, so it is luck of the draw. and the city and state you live in will either help or hurt you. put a personal in the right area and see what you get. try and make friends on here should help increase your chances too

 

[Excess]

well you're a guy, so it is luck of the draw. and the city and state you live in will either help or hurt you. put a personal in the right area and see what you get. try and make friends on here should help increase your chances too

This is a start. I don't really know any way specifically due to the fact that I myself havn't been able to find anyone either (mainly because of where I live). However, I do know that I've met a number of females here who I've become good friends with. All I can tell you is just to talk here, maybe hit up the chat (but be warned, I'll be watching, so no funny business there), and just show everyone that you're a nice guy. Also, don't worry to much about the experiance thing, you'd be surprised how many here are in the same boat.

 

[taptoematt]

I found many female lees just by finding friends I like and trust, they don't even have to have a passion for tickling. I just developed a relationship and one day told them how much I like to be tickled. Believe it or not they had no problem making my dreams come true and before you know it, I was soon tickling them. One thing to remember, be careful about who you tell regarding tickle sites and posting on a forum ,some will be appalled. You might have to make a distinction between the lees on the outside and the lees here.

 

[maniactickler]

Good luck! ive been looking for 20 years with no results.

 

[RavenMoon]

Two words. Network and patience.

Network here as much as you can. You will build friendships which will give you confidence and may even result in a tickle buddy or two. Also check out the gathering sections and see if there is anything close to you. They are wonderful to go to if you are able to make one.

Have plenty of patience. Do not expect to find a partner real quick. It takes time and effort.

Taptoematt brings up a great point. Carefully weigh telling some close friends. You may just be surprised in finding a close one who is willing to accommodate you.

Good luck to you. I wish you the best.

 

[BrightEyes1082]

Good luck! ive been looking for 20 years with no results.

You might increase your chances by doing away with that disgusting sig pic!! 😉

 

[maniactickler]

You might increase your chances by doing away with that disgusting sig pic!! 😉

I cant get rid of a natural bodily function. 😛

 

[TMF Jeff]

You could choose not to make it the first thing people know about you 😎

 

[shadowofsergei]

You could choose not to make it the first thing people know about you 😎

There's actually only one other person that I've told...and I don't make it privilent to people I meet...

 

[Aragon]

I'm going to throw my two cents in, shoot, maybe even a nickel.

I have found that I find tickle partners all over, not necessarily for sex, but for tickling by being me. I have a couple of girls at work that don't mind being tickled by me, because I'm me. Quit worrying about things from a purely tickle perspective and make friends, preferably of the sex you wish to tickle. Introverts kinda have a problem with it at points, but being yourself, unless you are the next Charlie Manson will get you places, then worry if their ticklish. I have a girl who snuggles up to me, even in public, who mockingly begs not to be tickled. I have a few girls who I can tickle, a very select few that sex and tickling come in and that's all I need.
I am no Casanova and can be moody, what with being bi-polar and all, but people, for some odd reason, like me. I carry on a nice normal life and that is how I found women to tickle. I have dream women I would love to tickle, but deal with who I get with no complaints.