john_smith
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I'm only 19 and im new to this site. I was just looking for someone to give me some general advice on tickling. Anyone is welcomed to post comments. Thanx!
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Take it from an old timer who gets all kinds of tickling fun. Be open and honest with everyone about your love or tickling, keep it innocent when talking to them so as not to alarm or offend, and before long you will have all kinds of sessions.
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Lol, I've known those terms since I was 15. 
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Welcome to the TMF, John Smith, and congratulations on your first post. 😀 This is a wonderful place, have fun here.
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thanx for the advice guys, and no, unfortunatly i font no these terms, cud someone please fill me in. fanx
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Howdy John,
Welcome to the forum. I hope you find the answers you seek here. You may want to be a bit more specific in your statement of what you are looking for advice upon, that way folks can be more helpful!
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Welcome to the forum. I hope you find the answers you seek here. You may want to be a bit more specific in your statement of what you are looking for advice upon, that way folks can be more helpful!
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Welcome John! Hey, I'm always willing to give advice...
Give some more details about yourself, there are a LOT of different kinds of advice out there!
Give some more details about yourself, there are a LOT of different kinds of advice out there!
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Well here are some things you may want to now about me. I'm male, i enjoy m/f tickling and f/f tickling. I prefer to tickle rather than be tickled. I've enjoyed tickling from a very early age but am very inexperienced.
As for the advice i would like, its generally on anything. I'm so inexperienced i'm afraid. I dont no how i can admit to a girl about my love for tickling. I dont no the best time to admit to her about my love. I also dont no the best ways to tickle a girl. Whether it would be to tie her up or keep her loose. I am just looking for guidence. I'm glad you've all made me feel welcome! thanx
As for the advice i would like, its generally on anything. I'm so inexperienced i'm afraid. I dont no how i can admit to a girl about my love for tickling. I dont no the best time to admit to her about my love. I also dont no the best ways to tickle a girl. Whether it would be to tie her up or keep her loose. I am just looking for guidence. I'm glad you've all made me feel welcome! thanx
Ahhh...first Welcome to TMF!
Second, slow down...
You don't have to divulge your "dark secret" too her...you don't even have to mention you like tickling or not...simply tickle her during normal conversation when a moment comes up, like if she makes fun of you, you could tickle her for "revenge".
Now this assumes that you talk to girls on a regular basis...if you do, that is great, simply integrate tickling into your talking...if you don't then back up a bit and just talk to girls...they won't bite, and if they put up the hand...keep on moving, their loss!
I wouldn't worry about tying up girls just yet, simply start with rib or belly tickles, most girls your age think its cute and fun to tickle..and if not...again their loss!!
Hey, what you need is a gathering, depending on where you live, ...wander over to the Gathering section and find a gathering in your area. (A gathering is a bunch of ticklers/lee's meeting somewhere to tickle and be tickled in a safe, environment)
Just some ideas and thoughts...and if you are the shy type, just have some faith in yourself and just talk to the girls(I was the most SHY person EVER and I slowly got over it by just doing it)
Again welcome!
Second, slow down...
You don't have to divulge your "dark secret" too her...you don't even have to mention you like tickling or not...simply tickle her during normal conversation when a moment comes up, like if she makes fun of you, you could tickle her for "revenge".
Now this assumes that you talk to girls on a regular basis...if you do, that is great, simply integrate tickling into your talking...if you don't then back up a bit and just talk to girls...they won't bite, and if they put up the hand...keep on moving, their loss!
I wouldn't worry about tying up girls just yet, simply start with rib or belly tickles, most girls your age think its cute and fun to tickle..and if not...again their loss!!
Hey, what you need is a gathering, depending on where you live, ...wander over to the Gathering section and find a gathering in your area. (A gathering is a bunch of ticklers/lee's meeting somewhere to tickle and be tickled in a safe, environment)
Just some ideas and thoughts...and if you are the shy type, just have some faith in yourself and just talk to the girls(I was the most SHY person EVER and I slowly got over it by just doing it)
Again welcome!
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fanx, dats very helpful
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Welcome!
Here's a good thread for you to read, John Smith. I have to admit that I learned a lot by reading it.
It's called "Question about bringing up tickling."
http://www.ticklingforum.com/showthread.php?t=60569
Here's a good thread for you to read, John Smith. I have to admit that I learned a lot by reading it.
It's called "Question about bringing up tickling."
http://www.ticklingforum.com/showthread.php?t=60569
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I'm 30something (high end) and new to this scene; the only word I would have known a month ago was "dom"--and that only in the context of a woman who dominates a man sexually. I now know the other meanings of "dom" and the other two words solely because I read posts here.
A month ago I would not even have known what lers and lees were. I would have thought... Lei? Hawaii, perhaps?
Not ashamed to admit my ignorance.
I guess it is like using a computer. When I don't know what something is or does, I ask someone ten years younger. 😀
A month ago I would not even have known what lers and lees were. I would have thought... Lei? Hawaii, perhaps?
Not ashamed to admit my ignorance.
I guess it is like using a computer. When I don't know what something is or does, I ask someone ten years younger. 😀
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thanx for the advice guys
Hi John...
Good, you filled us in, that helps a lot. So we've established you're a ler, no need to be afraid. Tickling is fun and playful, approach it gently with a girl. I'm with tommy~Wait to see how she feels about it in general before getting into the "to tie or not to tie, that is the question" zone. 😉 (We can deal with that topic later)
Work on your massage skills~most girls are fools for a guy who knows how to use his hands, take a class maybe or get a good book at Borders. It's going to take practice. Tell your friends, you're working on your "skills" and "I'd love to practice on you if you'll let me" (Always be gentlemanly about it, especially in the beginning stages. It wil take you far...) As you're massaging, throw in little tickles here and there, see how she reacts. If she hates it, respect her wishes and go find another friend to "practice" on.
Hope this helps~it's the way I'd approach it if I were a guy. You'll become more confident as you get older and get lots of practice under your belt. You'll find your way.
I'm almost twice your age and my guy friends who know I'm into it don't really say anything anymore, they just walk up to me and do it because they know by now they'll get a good reaction out of me and I think they think it's funny to hear me squeak and try and get away.
XOXO
Good, you filled us in, that helps a lot. So we've established you're a ler, no need to be afraid. Tickling is fun and playful, approach it gently with a girl. I'm with tommy~Wait to see how she feels about it in general before getting into the "to tie or not to tie, that is the question" zone. 😉 (We can deal with that topic later)
Work on your massage skills~most girls are fools for a guy who knows how to use his hands, take a class maybe or get a good book at Borders. It's going to take practice. Tell your friends, you're working on your "skills" and "I'd love to practice on you if you'll let me" (Always be gentlemanly about it, especially in the beginning stages. It wil take you far...) As you're massaging, throw in little tickles here and there, see how she reacts. If she hates it, respect her wishes and go find another friend to "practice" on.
Hope this helps~it's the way I'd approach it if I were a guy. You'll become more confident as you get older and get lots of practice under your belt. You'll find your way.
I'm almost twice your age and my guy friends who know I'm into it don't really say anything anymore, they just walk up to me and do it because they know by now they'll get a good reaction out of me and I think they think it's funny to hear me squeak and try and get away.
XOXO
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