is 25 old & not to have a girlfriend?

[love feet]

To a 12 year old, you are ancient; to an 80 year old, you are a young whipper snapper.

Have you ever had a girlfriend, made out, felt someone up, et al?

Never had a girlfriend,

 

[love feet]

Yes, it is. But I've never had a girlfriend. Not in the normal sense anyway. I mean I've 'been' with girls but I've never been in a real relationship with them, like going out regularly or anything. I was always told I wasn't boyfriend material. XD

For me my life is not that computable with realaships as it is
I have loved people but as for getting close not really
I have Bean heart a lot too so that dos not help

 

[taptoematt]

Never had a girlfriend,

O.K, don't get alarmed or take this the wrong way...Please.
I had a friend who had the same problem in his twenties and never had a girlfriend.
We would set him up with girls and it just wasn't happening. Then we tried a gay male and problem solved.
I really don't think this is your problem, but if it is , it will take a little soul searching and you might want to talk to someone you trust.
If you know you're straight and still have no luck, give it time and It will all come together.
There is somebody for everyone.

 

[locker669]

Never had a girlfriend,

Get one. I have a friend that is in his late 30s and has never been in a relationship. His biggest regret is waiting so long to start looking.

 

[storm7400]

Never had a girlfriend,

 

[love feet]

O.K, don't get alarmed or take this the wrong way...Please.
I had a friend who had the same problem in his twenties and never had a girlfriend.
We would set him up with girls and it just wasn't happening. Then we tried a gay male and problem solved.
I really don't think this is your problem, but if it is , it will take a little soul searching and you might want to talk to someone you trust.
If you know you're straight and still have no luck, give it time and It will all come together.
There is somebody for everyone.

Thanks

just so all know i am straight it is not orientation at all
but i can see why you may think its the problem

 

[Crusoe]

WE ARE YOUNG, ALL OF US!

Don't even sweat it, dude. I turned 25 less than a month ago, and I couldn't be happier being a single, available, and curious fellow now. Mind you, the grass is always greener depending on where you stand. I luckily had my first serious relationship the summer before turning 25, and you know something? As wonderful as being with another person is, it takes A LOT OF WORK. The attention and the devotion and the adoration you must daily uphold can be exhausting after a while, particularly if your girlfriend demands those things of you by the baker's dozen. And let's face it, people in relationships want to be special, feel special, and share their importance with another.

So I would ask you this: Would you want to be in relationship now because you truly want to share time and energy and love and interest in another (and keep it constant)? Or is it the social pressure of being the age you are and not having a g/f that troubles you?

Screw social pressure, I say. We all need to chill out as human beings and know that there's plenty of time to be both single/curious and involved/in love.

 

[*persimmons*]

So is it old ?
or am i nuts!?...

no, i don't think it's old. everything in its own time. i think 25 is still young enough that you're figuring out who you are and when the time comes you'll be ready.

and my question to you is are you looking and just not finding someone you like, or have you not even had the opportunity (like a date)?

 

[love feet]

My life and my personality keeps sorrowing it up
I have big trust issues to!!!!