It's the end of the road..........

[tulipangel]

Well ya'll! Im leaving the pink text out since this is important.

I am no longer going to be a member here! And no, it's not cause of my boyfriend. His family had found my myspace and through that found this and are now starting a whole shit load of drama! I will defend my kinks and fetishes and be honest cause I have nothing to be ashamed of! Wow, thats a good way to come out of the tickling closet lol!

I would say goodbye to each one of you who touched my life but I would be here forever doing that. Each and every one of you touched me (not physically lol)! You have all made me feel welcome and made me feel normal for my kinks(or as normal as a crazy person could feel)!

I love you all and wish you all the best in life! You are all great people and have helped me through hard times and I will always remember that!

Have a great life and I do hope to one day come back to the site and see you all again!

Love,
Missy!

 

[PainTrain]

I hope you will be well, and stay strong in the face of adversity.

 

[natural tickler]

Well, I am indeed sorry you have to go, but I understand, home comes first. And, don't let drama steal away your joy for what you love. After all, it is your life, and don't let anyone try to tell ya how to live it


Always remember we're here for ya, and anything you need, give us a holla, and we'll leave the light on for ya 😛

ps, I'll save ya some momma jokes until you come back 😛

NT

 

[drew70]

Be well. I for one have enjoyed your presence here and am sad to see you go.

 

[ShadowTklr]

I never really got a chance to get to know you, Tulip, but you always seemed to me to be a very nice person.

I wish you the very best, and I look forward to seeing you again. I'm sure after some time sole-searching (I'm sorry. Whadya want from me? ) you'll find a way to incorporate us all back into your life.

That's my story, and I'm sticking to it.

Best of luck. 😉

 

[ticklingfeet4fu]

I am sorry to see you go. It is sad but you have to do what is right for you. If you feel this is the right thing to do then, may God be with you always and you take care of yourself. As NT said we'll leave the light on for someone as special as you.

 

[stloldg]

I will truly and deeply miss you, talking to you have lighten up some of my darkest days. I hope you find the peace you’re looking for; you will always be part of me and I hope to here from you again.

Much luv

carlos

 

[brokenblue]

Wishing the best for you Tulip. Best of luck. Take care always.

 

[Mimi]

Oh BULLSHIT girl! Don't you DARE leave us because those assholes your boyfriend callsa family are making life even MORE uncomfortable for you than they already were simply because they had to go nosing in your business and discovered you were human with a private kinky side! Those bastards have meddled enough in your affairs and happiness. THIS PLACE brings you happiness. THESE PEOPLE bring you happiness. Cut off ties with THEM if the situation is uncomfortable. But don't walk away from those who accept, understand, and love you as much as the folks here do.

Please reconsider babe. Seriously.

Mimi

 

[kis123]

Oh BULLSHIT girl! Don't you DARE leave us because those assholes your boyfriend callsa family are making life even MORE uncomfortable for you than they already were simply because they had to go nosing in your business and discovered you were human with a private kinky side! Those bastards have meddled enough in your affairs and happiness. THIS PLACE brings you happiness. THESE PEOPLE bring you happiness. Cut off ties with THEM if the situation is uncomfortable. But don't walk away from those who accept, understand, and love you as much as the folks here do.

Please reconsider babe. Seriously.

Mimi

Not only do I completely agree with Mimi on this, I've got a helluva lot more to say!!!

Tulip, please understand that what I write next is for your own good and because you need to be brought back to reality. Besides, many on this forum have come to adore you and would miss you over this load of crap! So here goes-I apologize in advance if I offend:

Wait a minute!! Who knocked the wind out of your sails? This certainly does NOT sound like the rebel who joined this forum!! I know you're a sub, but I never felt that you could be so easily controlled. If his family ran you off the board, what else will you allow them to do?? You're a grown woman and your man is cool with your kinks. You shouldn't give a flying rat's butt about what anyone else thinks! You'll never please them and in their eyes you'll never be good enough for their baby boy. He's a man and either stands by you or you are with the wrong guy and need to move on!! If you give them an inch, they will take miles until they just force you out. If that's what you want, then leave the forum like they want you to. If you are who I've come to know around here, bend over and tell them to firmly kiss your a**!! And while they're at it, tell them to find a life of their own and stay the hell out of yours!

 

[isabeau]

tulip i'm with Meems and kis on this.. don't you dare leave this forum. you have made it a brighter place. always upbeat and funny..darlin pm me.. give me your number anything.. i don't want to see you leave.. i mean this.. and i can get mighty mad if i need to be..

 

[Deadsea7777]

I do not know your circumstances, therefore I cannot tell you what would be the best course taking everything into account.

Nevertheless, you mention is not your boyfriend but his family.
You should take the opportunity to talk with your boyfriend from A to Z about your tastes in sensual pleasure. And if he does not have a problem (why should him?, a problem could be you belonging to the KuKluxKlan or the Nazy party, Al quaeda or the league pro Eugenics!!!).

Love between both of you is only between both of you and nobody else in the world. If he likes you then he should stand for you in front of his family. If he loves you his family has no choice but to accept.

Do not give up your freedom it may look like a grain of sand, almost nothing…..but remember that beaches are made out of grains of sand. Beware that grain by grain you do not get buried under six feet of sand.
This is a Liberal society; each one can do anything that is not prohibited by law. Sensual pleasure is not therefore you are free to indulge, and your boyfriend is free to love you or not.

And as my Italian teacher, she used to say “ If he/she does not like you,….then he/she does not deserve you”.

Well, if you ever return, change avatars names and cover your tracks better, and password, your computer is like your mail….private.

 

[tulipangel]

You are all very sweet and dear to me but for now I must leave! I might be back in a year, a month or a week. Who knows but for now its not looking good for me and I do not know how this will end (i do know its going to end bad though). I will never talk to his family again and I know that and im fine with it (trust me)! I hope things dont end with him over it but at this point, who knows! I will be back some day and thats a fact but as of now, I must go! I love you all very very much and you have all helped mold me into who I am and I will forever love you all! Like I said, for now I must go BUT you have not seen the last of me (yes that is a threat lmao)!
Much love and keep the giggles rollin'!

 

[Tamia78]

But.......why?

You already said that you are not speaking to his family anymore......so, just come back! Who cares what they think? To echo what Mimi and Kis said.....don't abandon the people who care about you! I'd hate for it to end badly, but your man doesn't have a problem with it, and for right now, that seems to be all that matters....


You want me to drop-kick somebody? Just call......lol

--T
ps. And, how the hell can I have a TWIN without you????

 

[tickleshotel]

Tulipangel,Hun I am with MIMI,Kis & Isabeau on this as well! Don;t you leave this forum because of your Boyfriends famiy creating Drama for you due to Eavesdropping about YOUR Personal Business!. I know Drama Sucks but you need to do what will make YOU happy! If your boyfriend is not involved in this giving you problems ,why leave? If you *Don;t* want to leave the forum and that is your decison,then DON;t!
You have a family here of friends that care,love,cherish you and NObody should even dare trying to take that away!

 

[kis123]

Sorry Tulip, but you're throwing out the baby with the bathwater. Either you and your boyfriend stand together or this is going to keep happening. It's about time he threw the gauntlet where his family is concerned. Let's face it-you're giving him something his momma' can't. If he wants to keep it, he should start acting like it and make them stop harrassing you.

One of the reasons any of this has happened at all is because you (at some point) allowed them to mistreat you. That should've been nipped in the bud a long time ago. Don't let them treat you like trash-I don't care how much money they have, you're a far cry better than they'll ever be. At least you're honest about who you are and what you like. What the hell were they doing on myspace anyway?? Trolling?? If they have such a high pedigree, they shouldn't be shopping around myspace anyway-too many "everyday" people around there who wouldn't be good enough for them.

You shouldn't run tulip, but you're a grown woman and I can't tell you what to do any more than his family does. Take care and God bless. Hope you get your bearings, realize this for what it is (manipulation, domination, humiliation, control) and come back home.

 

[Bugman]

If you really feel like you need to leave for a while tulip,then thats what you should do.i will miss you and i hope you are back with us soon!

 

[RobAce]

Tulip, I also don't know you very well...
but first off let me say that whatever decision you make, Ill stand behind you and still be here whenever you return.
Saying that, I must in all honesty agree with Mimi, kis, Tamia and several others that have said basically..."Your personal business is your personal business"
Also let me add, that this forum/fetish is a part of YOU! If they can not accept that then they can not accept you, and you know what...you better off finding now than years down the road.
Now my soon to be ex-in-laws never found out about anything like this, but when they found out I was truly part mexican and was doing things like teaching my children Spanish, teaching them about Mexican Hertiage it along with other factors made them "coax" my soon to be ex-wife along in the whole process of leaving me.
Im glad I found out only after 5 years of marriage than 10.
If someone can not accept the whole of you....ITS WRONG! You should not have to hide or supress who you are for a relationship, for freinds or for any reason. You are who you are, and should be loved, respected and admired for it.
Reconsider what your deciding and know you oboviously have a lot of friends and people who truly care about you...though many have never met you personally. That in itself should say volumes about who you are and what kind of person you are.
Tulip, If everytime one of us on this forum were to leave because of an issue about it....this forum would be pretty empty. Most of us at sometime have had to deal with something like this, and we became stronger afterwards.

Know this, you have friends and people who care right here.

Rob

 

[maniactickler]

Maybe she justs a little time to let it all soak in. im sure she will be back. and when she does, im going to dedicate a special flatulent release for her.

 

[aun_existe_amor]

I'm with the girls on this one........ DON'T GO TULIP!!!!!!!! If I say anymore I'll be repeating what the other girls have said. 🙁 Good luck 🙂

 

[unit5610]

You know that there's absolutely nothing you can do to get on your BF's family's good side. He now has to decide if he supports you or them. You know who you are...don't lose that!!!
Whatever you decide we're here to support you. We'll miss you greatly if you leave and look forward to seeing you here again!

 

[kis123]

We have a winner!!!!!

You know that there's absolutely nothing you can do to get on your BF's family's good side. He now has to decide if he supports you or them. You know who you are...don't lose that!!!
Whatever you decide we're here to support you. We'll miss you greatly if you leave and look forward to seeing you here again!

I just love this post-so simple and to the point that it's almost scary!

Yeah, what he said!!! It's become time that the BF decides who is most important and plant his feet firmly into some butts!

Ok, I think I had a little too much sugar with the lunch today!

 

[kered]

I agree with Unit. You walk your own path with our support. But I don't mind telling you that I will miss you. Let me end this post with what started our friendship.................ehem...........

Ain't no sunshine when she's gone....................

 

[kurchatovium]

Gonna miss you tulip so much. Please come back as soon as you can. So many people here wuv you, especially me.

 

[General Zod]

You will be missed Tulip 🙁