It's too bad it's so hard to tickle girls without seeming awkward or forced.

[Matt123]

How do you say, "You know, I'd love to tie you down and tickle you all over" without sounding creepy? :| Not exactly the world's most common pickup line.

 

[WheresThe Clip?]

How do you say, "You know, I'd love to tie you down and tickle you all over" without sounding creepy? :| Not exactly the world's most common pickup line.

You can't because it is creepy. Yet when I was a younger man that was the way I would think as well (wouldn't have the nerve to say it of course), and I would end up getting nowhere.

Much better to try and meet/date as wide a variety of girls as you can based on common interests such as: college, music, sports, cars etc., Once you have been on a couple of dates they will expect some physical contact anyway. Then you can try the odd very brief playful tickle, and see who responds well. But even then don't then start blurting out things like 'Tie you down' or 'tickle fetish' just let things advance a little more each time, all the while paying attention to the things that she likes such as kisses/cuddles etc.

 

[baldadonis]

I agree. In my personal experience its much easier, as well as much more satisfying to tie and tickle a significant other than attempt to bring this up with some girl you have just met and our trying to pick up. If your gf really cares about you, she may be quite excited or interested to give this a try.

I personally have never approached a girl and ever thought to mention tying and tickling. That would just be outside my comfort zone. I'll build up the tickles as the relationship progresses and work up to possible bondage gradually.

 

[RobAce]

Sometimes is isn't what is said its how you say it.
I had a habit I still use on occasion with women I know.
When we get into a playful argument or they do something that annoys me I simply look at them and say:
"You know I should tie you up, take off your shoes, put a mask on and beat you like a pinata with a feather duster."
Now no one takes this as a serious thing because I'm known to say all kinds of ridiculous off the wall stuff like this.
But more often than not I get that little "OOOOO, that sounds like fun Rob".
And viola, the ice is broken.

But its all in the delivery.....

Rob

 

[Iris]

delivery is important!!!

see now that whole pinata blindfold feather thing is cute!!! not intimidating.. and there's a 98 % chance any girl would go for it!! u rock ROBACE!!!

 

[Helena]

Sometimes is isn't what is said its how you say it.
I had a habit I still use on occasion with women I know.
When we get into a playful argument or they do something that annoys me I simply look at them and say:
"You know I should tie you up, take off your shoes, put a mask on and beat you like a pinata with a feather duster."
Now no one takes this as a serious thing because I'm known to say all kinds of ridiculous off the wall stuff like this.
But more often than not I get that little "OOOOO, that sounds like fun Rob".
And viola, the ice is broken.

But its all in the delivery.....

Rob

OOOOOOOO, that sounds like fun, Robby.
Tie me up, take off my shoes, put a mask on, and beat me with a feather duster! NOW!

 

[Stevereeno]

don't start off your statement with "You know..."

don't ask girls you don't know that question so early. wait until you have a vanilla sexual connection. stay at the basics before getting freaky.

when the both of you are in bed and you're making out and feeling each other up, whisper it to her. tell her how beautiful her body is and how hot she makes you and say, "I'd love to tie you up and make you feel good."

when she agrees, start off slow by just caressing her body parts (from head to toes before you stay on your favorites) with your fingertips. just barely touch her skin. try to touch the tiny hairs on her parts if you can. touch your girl the way her nightgown would touch her... a soft and loose touch. make sure you kiss her and tell her how the situation is making you feel.

use your nose, lips, teeth and tongue to caress her parts as well. once she's getting use to your soft touch, start to turn up the intensity and apply a pressure or touch that's more ticklish.

tickle her until she looks like she can't handle it and then stop and go back to the soft touches and the dirty talk and the making out.

stop and repeat the tickling once she looks rested and able to handle another round of tickling. keep going until you can't go no more or until she strokes out or until she promises not to file a police report.

 

[Marquis De Sade]

From personal experience, it's in how you say it. And sometimes you don't even need words. One of the most important things that factored into my own experience(s) was trust. First making sure she was comfortable enough to allow me to tie her down. Then I just started. Everytime she asked me to stop, I just looked at her. It's difficult to put that into text but it's that, You really want me to? look. And, well, she didn't. Couple the tickling with foreplay (what ever happened to that?), and you should both enjoy yourselves.

Dunno I why I used the fish there. No one else has and it was there so...whatev.

 

[Marquis De Sade]

WTF man? Did I kill this Thread or what? Geez...sorry. 😕

 

[Ayla ny]

I would never feel comfy asking to tickle with someone I didn’t know felt like I do. Hell, I hardly ever feel comfy asking for it even when I know they want to!

I think, in some ways, it’s more personal than sex.

*saves the thread from that thread-killer Marquis De Sade* 😉

 

[Marquis De Sade]

Thank you Ayla ny! And yes, I totally agree with you. It is personal. The above mentioned situation happened in the context of a relationship. No way would I do that to a stranger or someone I'd just recently got involved with.

 

[naughtylucy]

don't start off your statement with "You know..."

don't ask girls you don't know that question so early. wait until you have a vanilla sexual connection. stay at the basics before getting freaky.

when the both of you are in bed and you're making out and feeling each other up, whisper it to her. tell her how beautiful her body is and how hot she makes you and say, "I'd love to tie you up and make you feel good."

when she agrees, start off slow by just caressing her body parts (from head to toes before you stay on your favorites) with your fingertips. just barely touch her skin. try to touch the tiny hairs on her parts if you can. touch your girl the way her nightgown would touch her... a soft and loose touch. make sure you kiss her and tell her how the situation is making you feel.

use your nose, lips, teeth and tongue to caress her parts as well. once she's getting use to your soft touch, start to turn up the intensity and apply a pressure or touch that's more ticklish.

tickle her until she looks like she can't handle it and then stop and go back to the soft touches and the dirty talk and the making out.

stop and repeat the tickling once she looks rested and able to handle another round of tickling. keep going until you can't go no more or until she strokes out or until she promises not to file a police report.

That is some VERY good advice.

Lucy

 

[scrap]

Some personal examples

I used to joke around with it to my girlfriend. Not like, "Oh, I'm gonna tie you up and tickle you!" But it would be more like me kidding around with her playfully.

2 very SPECIFIC examples. These are two of the best times I tickled my girlfriend without her knowing I was *planning* it. I use planning lightly, because I wasn't trying to trick her, but rather I put something new in a comfortable context so that it felt natural. I think that's key. Sorry for all of the quotes, but most of it is dialogue.

I started out with the bondage thing, like when I found out she didn't see Star Wars and I made a big deal out of it. I told her, "Well, I suppose now I'm going to have to tie you to a chair and force you to watch it." And then I'd see what her reply was. When she started playing along with these statements we progressed. She'd say, "Well, that wont help me like them any more." And I'd reply with, "well, I suppose I could find a way to force you." And things went from there. I *playfully* tied her to an ab lounger some days later and put in star wars. I poked her a few times by *accident* and pretended to be amused by her laughter. I told her that I wanted to hear her laugh, and I tickled her through the movie.

Another GREAT way that worked with her was playing dumb. Honestly. I would say something to the effect of, "I think I should wrap you in this blanket so you never leave" (something sappy). But before she replied I would then say, "But nevermind, that wouldn't be any fun, you would just lay there and not do anything. what would I do with you?" She'd reply with something like, "Well, you could tickle my feet." And I'd say, "But if you are all wrapped up, how would I get to them? You're not making any sense." Playfully pushing her away. She'd reply "No, silly, you could wrap me up but leave my feet sticking out." I'd pretend like she opened my eyes to the thought, and she'd go "uh-oh" as if she thought she gave me the idea. I doubt she thought I was that dumb, but still, like I said before, it put the bondage and tickling that was about to come in a comfortable context. One that both of us could enjoy without feeling outside of our comfort zones.

I strongly recommend trying to introduce tickling to your partner by allowing it to feel like a natural progression of events. And NEVER take it to seriously.

I'm sorry this is so long, but I have one more thing to add. Me and my girlfriend were not having sex. We were waiting for marriage, and so ticking for us was not a result of any sexual foreplay or anything.

Stevereeno gave some excellent advice, I suppose this is just some advice for couples that aren't yet active sexually.

 

[Aragon]

I get to know a woman as a friend first and foremost. When they learn I am playful, they usually never complain if I tickle them and flirt with them.

After knowing a girl for a while, then if she and I are comfortable with one another, do I ever bring up bondage and sometimes not even then.

 

[Stevereeno]

why do you want to tickle girls, Matt??

 

[Deleted member 66627]

How do you say, "You know, I'd love to tie you down and tickle you all over" without sounding creepy? :| Not exactly the world's most common pickup line.

- Get to know her.
- Don't shove tickling down her throat.
- Don't pressure her.
- Don't hound on her.
- Don't obsess.

..And, she'll more then likely be aces with it.

Many also use the term "play", which might make it a little less impacting then your aforementioned quote.

 

[tkrunner]

I agree with Crystal's approach to this. Get comfortable with her and don't make her feel awkward or pressured.

 

[SlaverTickler]

Strippers

I was at the Nuddy barr tonight (Sunday June 22) and got a duel table dance. I had gotten dances from both girls before (and tickled them silly), and both of them have told me to bring my Fuzzy Cuffs with me next time. People can say what they want about Bad Girls, Good Girls, and just being out for my money yadda yadda yadda, I just want to have fun, and Stipper rock!.

 

[DimpleToes]

Sometimes is isn't what is said its how you say it.
I had a habit I still use on occasion with women I know.
When we get into a playful argument or they do something that annoys me I simply look at them and say:
"You know I should tie you up, take off your shoes, put a mask on and beat you like a pinata with a feather duster."
Now no one takes this as a serious thing because I'm known to say all kinds of ridiculous off the wall stuff like this.
But more often than not I get that little "OOOOO, that sounds like fun Rob".
And viola, the ice is broken.

But its all in the delivery.....

Rob

hmmmmmmmmmmmmm sign me up any time sweety