Ladies on this site?

[Tamia78]

Maybe you ladies should put a link to this thread in your signatures or profiles or something. It may not help the hopeless, but...lol.

MrPartickler.....that's great idea!

 

[2tickleU]

******************************************************************************************************************************************************************************>>> This is a note to Slappy Spillmore , or whatever the original guys name is
>>> I tend to agree with you , in a way , because there are females who
get on here and tell everyone how much they would love to be tickled , or
how they need a 'Ler , or how they don't get tickled enough .
>>> But then , as soon as you pm them and say that you are available for
tickling them , they shoot you down with , "No Thanks , I am married" ,
or , "I already have a "Ler" , or "If you want to tickle me , you'll need to
come to the Nest in October". That IS a pile of crap !!! Because if there
is a nice female on here who loves to be tickled and I am a guy (which I am),
who loves to tickle . . . I am not going to complain about it if she contacts
me on a PM , Phone , Telegram , Email , or even a Stripper-Gram delivered
by a 900 lb. gorrilla ...telling me that she wants me to be her Tickler.
If it is something that a person really wants , they don't care how it
is wrapped !!! If I could just meet one female on here who would let me
show them what a nice person and able Tickler I am , she could keep me
as her "Ler or tell the others about me and share me with the other 'Lees.

 

[Ticklerguy4u]

******************************************************************************************************************************************************************************>>> This is a note to Slappy Spillmore , or whatever the original guys name is
>>> I tend to agree with you , in a way , because there are females who
get on here and tell everyone how much they would love to be tickled , or
how they need a 'Ler , or how they don't get tickled enough .
>>> But then , as soon as you pm them and say that you are available for
tickling them , they shoot you down with , "No Thanks , I am married" ,
or , "I already have a "Ler" , or "If you want to tickle me , you'll need to
come to the Nest in October". That IS a pile of crap !!! Because if there
is a nice female on here who loves to be tickled and I am a guy (which I am),
who loves to tickle . . . I am not going to complain about it if she contacts
me on a PM , Phone , Telegram , Email , or even a Stripper-Gram delivered
by a 900 lb. gorrilla ...telling me that she wants me to be her Tickler.
If it is something that a person really wants , they don't care how it
is wrapped !!! If I could just meet one female on here who would let me
show them what a nice person and able Tickler I am , she could keep me
as her "Ler or tell the others about me and share me with the other 'Lees.

You arent a female. You dont hear many stories of guys being physically hurt by women however you do hear stories of women getting hurt by men. The danger ratio of meeting weirdos is higher in the males than females.

Of course you wouldnt complain about email and stuff. However, these ladies get solicited PMs, emails, IMs on a daily basis. Some by guys that dont even post on the forum and just signed up just so they could get a female-for-the-night. They arent women..just lees..or objects.

How are they are supposed to know you and how much of a nice guy you are if you cant even take the time to get to know them. Its a double standard. Why shoud they trust you, because you say so. The minute you say I am here for only one thing..already you are considered untrustworthy. Why, because you are telling them in so many words. I have no interest in you as a woman just a fantasy. The minute you say I give my number to you without knowing you..you are saying I am reckless. Why, because you give something as personal as a your number to anyone online without even having any idea who you are handing it too. Without you sharing a little bit of yourself makes them feel like you got something to hide. To them, thats Shady. Where do you work, what do you do for a living, what are some of your interests besides tickling. Do you have something to hide?? Untrustworthy, Reckless and Mysterious..not qualities she is looking for in a ler.

I mean, geez..at least offer to have a pizza with them before you admit "i just want you as a tickle toy..nope, I dont really care to know you..just be there."
I mean sh*t man. They arent prostitutes. Yes, these girls want to be tickled but not just by anyone. If they arent worth you getting to know..then you arent worth getting to tickle them. And that is how they see it. I mean it isnt like a date where you are going to be sitting on separate ends of the table. You are actually going to be putting your hands on her. If you can't be their friend, then no dice on the tickle-play. At least let them get to know you before you expect them to just meet you in a hotel or something. Some of guys have actually realized this and are actually the more trusted of the bunch because we can talk about something other than tickling. If that is too much work for you, I hate to say it, but you'll get out of it..what you are putting into it..NOTHING.

 

[Fidji999]

You arent a female. You dont hear many stories of guys being physically hurt by women however you do hear stories of women getting hurt by men. The danger ratio of meeting weirdos is higher in the males than females.

Of course you wouldnt complain about email and stuff. However, these ladies get solicited PMs, emails, IMs on a daily basis. Some by guys that dont even post on the forum and just signed up just so they could get a female-for-the-night. They arent women..just lees..or objects.

How are they are supposed to know you and how much of a nice guy you are if you cant even take the time to get to know them. Its a double standard. Why shoud they trust you, because you say so. The minute you say I am here for only one thing..already you are considered untrustworthy. Why, because you are telling them in so many words. I have no interest in you as a woman just a fantasy. The minute you say I give my number to you without knowing you..you are saying I am reckless. Why, because you give something as personal as a your number to anyone online without even having any idea who you are handing it too. Without you sharing a little bit of yourself makes them feel like you got something to hide. To them, thats Shady. Where do you work, what do you do for a living, what are some of your interests besides tickling. Do you have something to hide?? Untrustworthy, Reckless and Mysterious..not qualities she is looking for in a ler.

I mean, geez..at least offer to have a pizza with them before you admit "i just want you as a tickle toy..nope, I dont really care to know you..just be there."
I mean sh*t man. They arent prostitutes. Yes, these girls want to be tickled but not just by anyone. If they arent worth you getting to know..then you arent worth getting to tickle them. And that is how they see it. I mean it isnt like a date where you are going to be sitting on separate ends of the table. You are actually going to be putting your hands on her. If you can't be their friend, then no dice on the tickle-play. At least let them get to know you before you expect them to just meet you in a hotel or something. Some of guys have actually realized this and are actually the more trusted of the bunch because we can talk about something other than tickling. If that is too much work for you than you I hate to say it, but you'll get out of it..what you are putting into it..NOTHING.

WHAt a fantastic reply!!!
no woman could have said it better ( you're sure you are male, btw 😀 - sorry, just kidding)
thank god men like you ( don't even say 'lers) exist on this planet.
god bless you!!

fidji

 

[isabeau]

i got a pm from a complete stranger, giving out his phone number. so yes i said no thanks . gesh

isabeau

it was the first pm i had received from this person.. i mean he doesnt even know anything about me.

 

[Ticklerguy4u]

WHAt a fantastic reply!!!
no woman could have said it better ( you're sure you are male, btw 😀 - sorry, just kidding)
thank god men like you ( don't even say 'lers) exist on this planet.
god bless you!!

fidji

Thank you. Its just common sense. 😎

 

[Fidji999]

Thank you. Its just common sense. 😎

agreed, but why hide your light under a bushel by saying so.
there would be no need for this whole thread if it was that easy 🙂

 

[isabeau]

agreed, but why hide your light under a bushel by saying so.
there would be no need for this whole thread if it was that easy 🙂

hon because some guys here arent as intelligent and tactful as Ticklerguy4u thats why. like i said before, if someone wants to get to know me, pm me and just ask general questions, dont give out a phone number on the very first pm..

isabeau

ps i never give mine out until i am comfortable with both females and males first.

 

[Fidji999]

hon because some guys here arent as intelligent and tactful as Ticklerguy4u thats why. like i said before, if someone wants to get to know me, pm me and just ask general questions, dont give out a phone number on the very first pm..

isabeau

ps i never give mine out until i am comfortable with both females and males first.

that's what I meant, so unfortunately though it actually IS common sense, it takes someone who seems to be a special guy to see it that way.

 

[kis123]

hon because some guys here arent as intelligent and tactful as Ticklerguy4u thats why. like i said before, if someone wants to get to know me, pm me and just ask general questions, dont give out a phone number on the very first pm..

isabeau

ps i never give mine out until i am comfortable with both females and males first.

I've been a member almost three years and have only spoken on the phone with about six people, usually receiving their number first then calling on my blocked line (a girl's gotta' be careful, you know). Out of those six, I really got pretty tight with two. I subsequently met those two (one at a gathering) and we did end up having a session. One was a gentleman I had met a few months earlier while he was on business in my city and the other was one who took the time to talk and get to know me at the gathering. Both took the time to let me relax into things because they knew I'd never done anything like this before and I was a "deer in the headlights" most of the time. Honestly, I didn't know what I wanted when I left home or what to expect when I got there. I ended up opening into a brand new experience well worth flying 1200 miles for. We're both still friends as well so it wasn't like a "hit-it-and-quit-it" type of deal.

Sometimes guys PM me and it makes me feel dirty-no depth or substance, just trolling for lees. I don't know why since I'm mostly ler who occasionally switches. That shows me that they haven't done thier research and just started PMing females at random.

Simply put, it's all in the approach-if a fella takes the time to make the woman feel comfortable and is patient, he'll get a lot further than trying to "eat the whole roll" at once!

 

[Tamia78]

Thank you, Ticklerguy4u!!!!

Man, you said exactly what I was thinking! Seems to me like the responses that 2tickleU got (Married, NEST) were a really polite way to say "NO THANKS, I DON'T TRUST YOU!" I don't know how many times this was said in this thread alone: We aren't only tickle-toys! Granted, there are some males and females on here that do that kinda stuff, and I hope they stay safe. As a female, I can't see myself just trotting off to meet some guy I barely know, just because he SAYS he's a nice guy. He may even have a person to vouch for him. But I'm one of those girls who has to "see it to believe it". Of course we wanna be tickled, but it's the QUALITY of the tickler that makes us want to be tickled by them again and again. Looking forward to October, and meeting many people who have become friends!

God, I LOVE this thread!

WOMEN RULE!!! (Yes, yes, and men do too!)

 

[reflexology414]

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I still stand by the factors that I menitoned in my previous post.

Far too many women here get bombarded with messages when they dare to show themselves at the board. Between the sheer number of replies and occasional creepy messages, it can make this quite intimidating for them. I've corresponded with a number of women who reported such experiences, and they said it made them reluctant to meet anyone in real life.

Where gatherings are concerned, I wouldn't know, because there aren't enough TMF women in my region to make such an event possible. Hopefully those of you who do have gatherings in your area will enjoy the experience.

The Chicago gathering I was planning appears to be dead in the water, but if anyone would like to help me try to salvage it, I'd love to hear from you. It's going to require networking and advertising beyond the TMF, in the city itself.

 

[2tickleU]

To all of you "Know-it-alls"

This is for all of the people on this tread who think that they know it all . . .
I have been giving out my phone # for many years and I have NEVER had
a bad experience as a result. I have met a lot of women by doing it .
I met both of my wives by doing it !!! I don't see why talking on the phone
is any different than PM'ing with someone. I even met someone on this site
and we exchanged phone #'s . We met at a hotel , 1000 miles from my
home and it was a nice , calm and pleasant couple of sessions. Once again ,
I have NEVER had a bad experience from giving out my phone # , ONLY
GOOD ONES , so why am I going to listen to you clowns ??? My friends
trust me , my employees trust me and I don't need to hide behind a PM
if I want to get to know someone. Maybe this is just an excuse for you
because you can't afford to call long-distance ??? Most reasonable humans ,
make there next move based on their past experiences and that is what
I am doing . I have had over 100 'Lees in my life , and some of them were
AWESOME !!!

 

[Ticklerguy4u]

This is for all of the people on this tread who think that they know it all . . .
I have been giving out my phone # for many years and I have NEVER had
a bad experience as a result. I have met a lot of women by doing it .
I met both of my wives by doing it !!! I don't see why talking on the phone
is any different than PM'ing with someone. I even met someone on this site
and we exchanged phone #'s . We met at a hotel , 1000 miles from my
home and it was a nice , calm and pleasant couple of sessions. Once again ,
I have NEVER had a bad experience from giving out my phone # , ONLY
GOOD ONES , so why am I going to listen to you clowns ??? My friends
trust me , my employees trust me and I don't need to hide behind a PM
if I want to get to know someone. Maybe this is just an excuse for you
because you can't afford to call long-distance ??? Most reasonable humans ,
make there next move based on their past experiences and that is what
I am doing . I have had over 100 'Lees in my life , and some of them were
AWESOME !!!

Or maybe some of these girls get more PMs than you think and by you just avoiding knowing them..get lumped into the ignore list. If it isnt such a big deal to talk on the phone then why is it such a big deal to PM/IM until they are comfortable. I told you..you may think you are the only one PMing them but they get bombarded everyday by guys interested in one thing. If you want to lumped into that catagory by all means..you are number 204. Wait your turn then. As for the other women..great more power to you. so what happened to these women..why are they still not with you. Is it because you dont know them and have nothing else in common but tickling? what was it?

Im not here to insult you dude, Im just telling you like it is. If you wont have at least a PM conversation with some of these women..you wont be having ANYTHING with some of these women. Believe me, your and mine's absense would hardy be missed if we didnt at least let them get to know us a bit before calling or being called. As for your friends and employees trusting you..what makes you think that they are trusted. They dont know them either. Its the way it is ...either accept it or not.

 

[2tickleU]

"Rock On" Slappy Spillmore !!!

For the most part , I agree with Slappy Spillmore in the origianal post.
The women on here are two-faced and rude , but there are a few nice ones.

 

[Ticklerguy4u]

You are right they are two face..one's a ticklee that loves tickling and the other is a person that likes conversation. I have no problem having a conversation with them first but I guess I have little more control of myself.

 

[steph]

Well m'love...unfortunately there are too many who advertise they're sluts and give the rest of us a bad rap~I mean, can NO ONE be discreet any more? Good Lord, some of you~grow up!

XOXO

I wouldn't be surprised if we were talking about the same guy. What I hate is when some men forget we are ladies and talk to us like we are sluts. Dude... if you want stroke material... they sell magazines for that... the ladies on here are not here to supply your jollies.

 

[maylee]

the same problem happens in bars

Hi, I've recently joined and with one post in the personal ads got many responses. Just about all of them were very polite....a little repetitive, yes, but I can't really blame them for being vague and unimaginitive,....my post was vague and unimaginative. The same problem occurs when you meet someone in a bar, really. you get the same questions over and over. Posting things and showing some of your personality definately helps.....intelligence and witty sarcasm almost always catches my interest 😉

that being said, all women need to be very careful meeting anyone online. I don't care if it's here or someplace as average as ef**kingharmony!!

 

[Ticklerguy4u]

Posting things and showing some of your personality definately helps.....intelligence and witty sarcasm almost always catches my interest 😉

Um, the square root of a isolete triangle is the same number as that of the two remaining sides.

Like...we all didnt already know this. 😀

 

[maylee]

Um, the square root of a isolete triangle is the same number as that of the two remaining sides.

Like...we all didnt already know this. 😀

HaHa....yeah, i guess those are pretty obvious requests. Could you be rich too while your at it?(heehee...just kidding)

 

[Ticklerguy4u]

HaHa....yeah, i guess those are pretty obvious requests. Could you be rich too while your at it?(heehee...just kidding)

no, but my name does start with R though..is that close enough or were you only looking for a Richard?

 

[primetime]

i just read this entire thread and needless to say, it has been quite interesting. a few things stood out though.

1) unless you were living in a cave, it is common knowledge that the women of the TMF must receive half a trillion PMs everyday. most of those PMs come from men who want tickling sessions. so, if a woman doesnt immediately reply, it is possible that she hasnt gotten to yours yet. also keep in mind PMs arent personal ads. i would understand if you had SOME sort of contact with them before, but to PM them out of completely nowhere will make them a little cautious.

2) it's funny when people (men/women) say "get to know me first before we talk about tickling." to me this is strange. why? how else can we get to know you on a more personal level? the threads on this forum are dedicated to topics, not to learn people's personality traits. granted, a person's personality can come out through their writings, but still, no one is talking about personality traits. the icebreaker IS to talk about tickling. that is the one common trait that everyone on TMF shares. it's just like meeting someone for the first time. you will find that one common thing that you share, then build from there. on this website, that would be tickling. so, if someone PMs another and they talk about tickling first, that makes complete sense.

3) even if you do talk about tickling, it does depend on what you are talking about. if you immediately talk about tying someone up and tormenting them, yeah, that would be a little strange. be careful of your content when you PM a woman here on the TMF

4) let's face it folks, it is hard to get to know someone on this site. there are "cliques" here and for a new person, it is hard to get into the "clique". what cliques you ask? let's be real, anyone ever notice that the same group of people always seem to reply to each other, which can cause hijacking of threads? i'm not pointing anyone in particular because there are so many different cliques. not that there is anything wrong with cliques, i encourage them actually, but for a new person, it is difficult to get to know someone. much like someone brought up earlier. a woman can get a PM, but her male friends might "scare" her away from that person. it is a reality. which is probably why new people do not take the time to research posts. some people have a billion posts in many different forums. no one has time to research everything.

so, what have we learned? nothing. women will still get weird PMs, guys will still feel jilted and everything will resume as normal. fellas, be nice to the women here. they DONT HAVE TO RESPOND to you. just be nice to them. if they arent nice to you and treat you like crap, to hell with them. women, please understand that there are many new people here and they really dont have time to research your posting history. also keep in mind that the one common trait that they and you share is tickling. so if they talk about tickling in their first PM, understand why. if they are crude, then of course ignore them, but if they are civil, please be understanding.

carry on folks......

 

[lk70]

also keep in mind that the one common trait that they and you share is tickling. so if they talk about tickling in their first PM, understand why. if they are crude, then of course ignore them, but if they are civil, please be understanding.

The thing is....it's not that I mind talking about tickling so much (as you point out, that's why we're all here), it's just getting these lists of questions and nothing else:

what are your most ticklish spots? (please rate on a scale of 1-10)

what spot can't you stand to have tickled?

what's the longest you've ever been tickled?


I don't know, to me it feels like some sort of test and I do just feel a little odd answering those questions when the person asking is someone I don't know at all and who has no posts for me to research. I've said this before to many people privately, and I think also in a thread or two- to me, tickling is personal. It's a form of intimate contact, so for me to just list specific information that someone asks for out of the blue is unlikely to happen.

 

[2tickleU]

Great Post , Mr. PrimeTime !!!

Hello Primetime ,
your last post on this thread was so cool , especially the part
about new members. I met one really cool 'Lee last year in CA
and another one today on the phone , and she is Perfect-'Lee FINE.
These two females make up for the several "Meanies" that I have
run into .
Michael Jay , (as of today , I am HAPPY- 'LEE involved)

 

[Angel_2]

After reading some of your guys post I can't agree more with you. There is no way in hell I would want to meet someone from TMF unless I have talked to them on the phone and meet them in real life. Also if I did meet someone from TMF for the 1st time I can say there would be no tickling what so ever on the 1st 2nd or 3rd time we meet. Some people seem to have a 1 track mind. Look I understand we are all here b/c we have 1 common intrest but its like some people(not all) only want to talk about one thing. I myself love to talk about tickleing and feet but I can talk about other things too. For example I have 2 female friends in real life that I see most of the time and we are very open with each other. I told them about my love to tickle and Feet and they were fine with it. They had no problem with it. Anyway now when we see each other the subject of tickling or feet don't even come up. We are able to hang and chill with out the subject coming up at all. When I pm someone male or female its not to talk about tickling or anything like that. If I pm someone its to talk about anything but tickling or feet. For example I pm'ed someone(not going to say who b/c that won't be right to that person) and we talk about sports all the time. I can't recall if the subject of tickling has come up but I don't think so. I find the pm system a good way to get to know the person in a non tickling way. If you want to talk about tickling thats what the tease the so and so thread is for. I can only imagine how the women of TMF feel when they get a pm asking where they are ticklish or how ticklish there feet are its gets old real fast. And as far as the women go ALL WOMEN NO MATTER WHO OR WHAT SHOULD GET RESPECT. IMO I think there should be a rule put in saying that if you want to pm someone IT CAN'T be to ask if they are ticklish or anything of that sort. Its not fair to the men or women who get asked that(Well to the women more b/c I know they get asked that all the time. The men I am not shore on) I just think a pm should be used to get to know a person on a personal leavel only. Like ask them what type of music they like, what is there favorite food. things like that not how ticklish are your feet. If you want to know that there are more then enough threads about that. Well thats my two cents for the day. I hope this helped and I look forward to more replys about this topic.