Ladies WHY?

[casper314]

Ladies,

I cannot understand.

WHY DO YOU WANT YOUR MALE TO GO CLOTHES SHOPPING WITH YOU??????

I know there are some metrosexual that love shopping; however, in a whole. The only shopping males like is for food, drinks, and buying some type of electrical or mechanical toys.

What sick perverted joy do you get from seeing your male standing like a 6 yo boy; looking lost, daze and confused. Holding your purse as you look at endless racks of clothes your not going to buy in the first place.

You ask us which one would we would pick; so you can pick the opposite.

You ask us if the item makes you look fat; yet, you say you don't want us to lie to you (which is like walking into a hyper sensitive field of land mines).

And after hours upon hours of mind numbing window shopping you might buy a pair of shoes you saw 15 hours earlier.

WHY??????? OH GAWG WHY????????????????

 

[slacker2114]

It's simple: they do it because most of us are dumb enough to go, despite the fact that men's methods of shopping are the exact opposite of a woman's.

 

[Fire_Sprite]

Never go with a girl when she buys her clothes, and for the love of god never let her come along when you're buying your clothes.

Its one of the few ground rules I have for my relationships.

 

[TklDuo-Ann]

LOL This gal is more like a guy when shopping. I go in and take a quick walk through. If I see something I like that's a fair price, I grab it. If not, I leave. An all day shopping spree for me takes less than half an hour...and that includes standing in the checkout line. lol

 

[BellaRisa]

I don't ask anyone to shop with me, male or female. On the rare occasion that I shop (I'm not the OMG CLOTHES kinda girl and I do 90% of my shopping online) I use it as time for me, to meander and wander and pick things at my leisure and enjoy the afternoon on my own, grab a muffin and a new book, etc. Occasionally I'll shop with Jhoti but it's not a regular thing and usually while we're at a fair or something...I NEVER shop with either of my significant others, they don't wanna go and I have no interest in forcing them. I'll ask what colors they like me in or if a certain style looks good on me in general, but that's it, I wear what *I* like.

Hell, I don't even shop for groceries with my husband, one of us stays home with the kids OR the shopper will take them along and give the other parent time alone; I think we've been in the store at the same time maybe 10 times in 17 yrs 😛

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[MasterPaladin]

I very rarely go with her but the times I do.

1. everything looks great
2. which ever one you like better hun
3. hun they both look good
4. you look good in anything you wear
5. what ever color you like best
6. if you can't make up your mind hun buy them both

she never asks me to go anymore I wonder why. lol

 

[Tamia78]

I want my man to go shopping with me for the simple fact that it's something I like to do, and I like hanging with him. It says something great about him that he's willing to do something he doesn't particularly want to do because he likes hanging out with me. And for THAT...................he gets a nice surprise when we get back home!

--T

 

[casper314]

I want my man to go shopping with me for the simple fact that it's something I like to do, and I like hanging with him. It says something great about him that he's willing to do something he doesn't particularly want to do because he likes hanging out with me. And for THAT...................he gets a nice surprise when we get back home!

--T

I was going to reply.

Than i thought better of it.

 

[lemoncake]

I don't like having people going clothes shopping with me, I take forever to think about things. I also feel like I have to speed through the store if someone is right next to me. I like to buy stuff and then model it for whoever I am dating, its more fun.

 

[Deleted member 66627]

Oh hush. You do it because you care about her. Now shut up and tell me if these jeans make me look fat. 😛

 

[Marquis De Sade]

Fact: I'm better at shopping than most women are. Most of the women I know I should say. Just to clear that up. 😉

 

[slap'n'ticklee]

I want my man to go shopping with me for the simple fact that it's something I like to do, and I like hanging with him. It says something great about him that he's willing to do something he doesn't particularly want to do because he likes hanging out with me. And for THAT...................he gets a nice surprise when we get back home!

--T

I love ya for that for its my sentiments exactly 😀

I don't even make him come shopping for hours upon hours. I'm lucky to get a couple of hours in and if it is a bit longer than the norm we will stop for a drink and cake (oh yeah ) I just like having my fella there even if he does whinge :sticksouttongue*

If I fancy a long trip then I'd take my sister, we are very alike and it makes it much easier without a bloke hanging back and dragging his heels

 

[-Hari-]

bah, i know the feeling, i beleive they do it for a few reasons,

1, to be a walking clothes peg
2, to carry bags
3, to stop other men from hitting on them when they're trying to shop.
4, to drive them to and from town.
5, so they can say "do you like this underware?, i cant afford it, maybe you should buy me it so you can see me in it"

 

[Gothika]

not all men are like that with me i love going out with my gal everywhere even shopping

 

[Gothika]

bah, i know the feeling, i beleive they do it for a few reasons,

1, to be a walking clothes peg
2, to carry bags
3, to stop other men from hitting on them when they're trying to shop.
4, to drive them to and from town.
5, so they can say "do you like this underware?, i cant afford it, maybe you should buy me it so you can see me in it"

well not so true not all woman are like that my gal does everything for her self cuz she wants to and if she needs me to carry something on that rare ocation i have no problem with it

 

[slap'n'ticklee]

bah, i know the feeling, i beleive they do it for a few reasons,

1, to be a walking clothes peg
2, to carry bags
3, to stop other men from hitting on them when they're trying to shop.
4, to drive them to and from town.
5, so they can say "do you like this underware?, i cant afford it, maybe you should buy me it so you can see me in it"

1. Not something I do
2. Same as 1
3. I wouldn't notice even if it had, and I doubt it would anyway
4. I drive myself in my own car 😉
5. I don't do that either, I pay with my own money

Hari, what sort of girl do you hang with?

not all men are like that with me i love going out with my gal everywhere even shopping

Thats beautiful, you are smashing and how it should be and Sae is a lucky woman 😀

 

[MasterPaladin]

Oh hush. You do it because you care about her. Now shut up and tell me if these jeans make me look fat. 😛

and if I said yes very then what ?

 

[Bugman]

I have never dated a lady who asked me to go shopping with her,and i give thanks for that.

I did make the mistake of going to Wal-Mart once with my younger brothers wife.What should have been a simple half hour excersion turned into a three hour plus ordeal.

Did you know Wal-Mart carries 10,435,902 different items?I didn't untill i had time to count them all.

 

[tickledorange]

The only place I make him go with me is the grocery store, and that's because he wants to go. Then, he picks out what he wants and I don't have to hear that I buy the wrong food.

 

[-Hari-]

1. Not something I do
2. Same as 1
3. I wouldn't notice even if it had, and I doubt it would anyway
4. I drive myself in my own car 😉
5. I don't do that either, I pay with my own money

Hari, what sort of girl do you hang with?

The wrong kind, clearly 😛

I wasnt overly serious in my post, im sure your not ALL like that 😉 Just a few random and typical answers, its basically how some of us guys FEEL when dragged around shops rather than what I actually think girls are thinking at the time.

I love how when you walk past another guy in the same situation, you sort of exchange that respectful sigh towards eachother as you both no how bored you both are 😀

 

[Musicroxmysox]

Ugh shopping. Yea so not into that. I only go when I have to. And then alone. And get out as quick as possible.

 

[asutickler]

😀

 

[Tamia78]

I was going to reply.

Than i thought better of it.

That's right...........just admit that I'm right, lol

I love ya for that for its my sentiments exactly 😀

 

[BlackestLily]

I very rarely go with her but the times I do.

1. everything looks great
2. which ever one you like better hun
3. hun they both look good
4. you look good in anything you wear
5. what ever color you like best
6. if you can't make up your mind hun buy them both

she never asks me to go anymore I wonder why. lol

You are definitely a man who knows the system. Buy both?! EXCELLENT. 😀

 

[fireguardian]

Oh GOD! I hate taking a guy with me to go clothes shopping! Personally clothes shopping isn't all that fun I just want to get what I need and be out but sadly it generally doesn't go that quickly and I have to try stuff on get a different color or size or nothing works blah. This is why I wish i had the time to make my own. I am working on that. But seriously the only time I have taken a guy is when I have something I already tried and need a blunt honest opinion on. And since I am enough of a critic I usually dont have to invite a guy with me. So in short I guess since I don't have fun half the time clothes shopping why would I torture a guy friend by making them go