Ler AND lee?

[bickee]

I see that most of you are ler's and lee's, for me, I am like 95% ler...I don't mind the occasional tickle but the thought of being tied up scares the sh*t out of me!!! Isn't it torturous? I can't imagine! Yet I'd love to HAVE someone on that end...strange huh?

 

[LEE_LACH]

Bickee...You have to understand something: from my own personal expiriance (mispelled it, shoot!), a ler and a lee must have a special connection between them before allowing the ler to tie the lee up and tickle her. I, personally would not allow a complete stranger or even someone I know to tie me up. I have 100% confidence in my ler and that's why I allow her to tie me and tickle me. The tickling videos are done with security and a well-orginized staff.
Trust me, it's not as dangerous as it looks

Yours Truely
Lee_Lach

 

[Mitchell]

I'm both ler and lee. I love tickling, but I'm very ticklish, so I can be a lee as well. I've been on both sides of the tickle, although I will say I do enjoy ler more if I had a preference.

Mitch

 

[The_Laugher]

I am both a ler and lee and love both sides equally. I feel that it is important to share both sides and to understand what they entail and are like so I can give the best session possible as either. I also feel that I can not ask someone to let me tickle them if I am not willing to allow them to tickle me. It is only fair.

 

[WorkInProgress]

I'm a ler who is lee curious, and was actually disappointed that I wasn't all that ticklish when I got someone to tickle me at NEST, but it also needs to be remembered that, in this community, it is considered permissible to be just a ler, unfair as it seems. One does have the right to go to a gathering, play scales and arpeggios all over other people's bodies (by their invitation, of course), while not permitting so much as a pat on his or her own body from anyone else. Those are the rules here. So, Bicklee, you are free to be just a ler, and you're also free to try out getting tickled cautiously, to gauge your endurance.

 

[steph]

Yep, and that's exactly what's so great about it...😉
XOXO

...Isn't it torturous?

 

[kis123]

I see that most of you are ler's and lee's, for me, I am like 95% ler...I don't mind the occasional tickle but the thought of being tied up scares the sh*t out of me!!! Isn't it torturous? I can't imagine! Yet I'd love to HAVE someone on that end...strange huh?

I knew I'd find a kindred spirit around here!

I love tickling others and do occasionally switch and take one for the team. But, I've never been through tnt (tied-n-tickled) because it simply frightens me. I've never given that much control to anyone and the very idea scares me to death!!

But, for the right person I gain a trust relationship with........the payoff may be phenominal!

 

[kurchatovium]

me i am 95% lee now, I use the 5% to be a ler to instigate something 😉 😀 😛

 

[KoocheeKoo]

I see that most of you are ler's and lee's, for me, I am like 95% ler...I don't mind the occasional tickle but the thought of being tied up scares the sh*t out of me!!! Isn't it torturous? I can't imagine! Yet I'd love to HAVE someone on that end...strange huh?

The key is trust...knowing the "ler" is responsible and won't abuse their "lee"; will give their lee breaks, and stop at once if the lee wishes....no exceptions. I've only tied and tickled one woman in my life, and her safety was my upmost concern (esp. since she'd never been bound and tickled before). Traci knew she could trust me totally....the only reason she ever agreed to be my ticklee.

I know tickling can be wonderful, can be erotic; but if misused....can be a very effective and traumatic form of torture. I know because of something that happened to my younger sister over two decades ago....at the hands of a sadist who bound, gagged, and tickle-tortured her into inconsciousness. He didn't tickle her playfully, nor because she ask. He instead did what he did because he was a heartless bully who enjoyed torturing a petite 18 yr old girl who was powerless to stop him; torturing her in the worst way possible (sis has often told me she'd much rather be beaten than tickled....she can take a beating better; at the hands of her sadistic ex-husband sis experienced both 🙁

 

[thetickleking]

50/50

I'm about half and half - I love to be tickled as much as I love to tickle. I used to be predominantly a ler, but in the recent past, my love for being tickled has grown. I love to be tied up while I am being tickled, probably because I am so much stronger than my tickler (my wife). If she tries to tickle me when I'm not tied, I usually overpower her, and tickle her senseless. The hard part is, that she is not into tying and tickling, so she has to be in a really good mood to do it.

 

[Prinny]

I am Definitely both a 'ler and a 'lee. I very much enjoy being a 'lee. But I have this devilish side that just Has to tickle back, especially when I am being tickled myself. There is something so satisfying as getting my 'ler, especially unexpectedly, at the same time I am being the 'lee. As for being tied-'n-tickled, only my SmileyTkls is allowed to do that.

 

[ticklkitten]

I'm pretty much a switch but you have a point about how scary and vulnerable being tied up can be. It does require a lot of trust but I have to admit (and don't tell anyone this... it's a secret) that the adrenaline rush I get from that helpless feeling is one of the reasons I love tickling as a playtime so much. It's part of my addiction. Now getting mummified.... THAT was feeling vulnerable, blind and unable to move. Yeah...

 

[Iggy pop]

I'm about 80% Ler and 20% Lee. First, I am only moderately ticklish and I desensitize(forgive me but I'm feeling to lazy to look this damn word up) fast. So my potential as Lee is limited, but still can be fun. But I would have to say it is a ler that I really get turned on. I guess I like to be in control.

When dealing with someone that is nervous about being tickled, I often volunteer to be the lee first to show her that is not as bad as she thinks. When tickling someone for the first time I usually work my way up to bondage slowly. Tickling someone lightly and untied at first, then more agressively untied, then lightly tied, until a full balls to the walls tickling session.

 

[bratgirl365]

My personal opinion is you must have complete 100% trust in your ler!
It must be a person you are totally comfortable with and someone you know! Being tied up puts you in a very volunerable position, but for some that's the rush.
Bottom line, be careful 😛 and enjoy!

 

[Em Es]

You may not know until you try

I am a tickler at heart but have had women restrain and tickle me several times. Either the restraints caused my defense mechanisms to kick in or the ladies were not skilled ticklers, because it wasn't as wild as I thought it would be. Don't get me wrong, as I'm ticklish all over and those girls definitely got me going at times. But it did not reach the "beserk" level I always thought it would before the first time a woman tied and tickled me.

 

[Brewhaha]

I see that most of you are ler's and lee's, for me, I am like 95% ler...I don't mind the occasional tickle but the thought of being tied up scares the sh*t out of me!!! Isn't it torturous? I can't imagine! Yet I'd love to HAVE someone on that end...strange huh?

bickee,
You sound like someone who needs to go to the Motown gathering. My 95% lee would go well with your 95% ler. Just a thought...