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Hey..well its like 3:30 in the am..I don't think anyone gives a fuckin shit anyhow. I just can't take this anymore. Life really fuckin Sucks ya know. my wife has had cancer now for at least 6 monthsa or some shit like that. really sucks. don't knowif shes gonna make it or not.i just can't stand going through this cshit or not anmore. i think some one will take care of her if i'm gone. just don't want to live anymore. i just don't want to. i just gotta get out of this fukin world. anyhow i have my friends shotgun it will be quick and painless. the world s not real for me anyhow. so i'm gonna put an end to all this fuhkin shiet. yeah well thanx for reading my post seeya
 
I feel like this thread is an experiment and not actually genuine. In case I'm wrong, though, I'd like to vote that you not kill yourself.
 
Anyone who is struggling to keep it together for his wife and/or children/family isn't going to make a public plea like this, let alone destroy his family by offing himself before they get there. If he/she does, its an incredibly insulting and selfish action.

Fucked up and just wrong dude. I wish you well
 
Well his uncharacteristically shitty grammar indicates he's intoxicated or high. He's logged off so I don't really see the point of posting something encouraging.

Although I have to say if it is true then a guy killing himself when his wife is terminally ill is one of those situations that make me wish my emotions had an off switch. I hope there's no kids involved.
 
I REALLY hope this hasn't happened --- I'm sure MANY others hope the same.
You're an INCREDIBLY nice guy, this would be too great a loss.
This is NOT a solution!! It's a permanent mistake.
Please return so you can tell us you didn't, and better, won't.
 
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WHOAAAA!!! I know life is tough, believe me I know ALL too well and I'm only 27. But if you take your life, how is that going to make your wife feel? She needs you now more than ever and honestly that wouldn't be fair to you or her. It's not about "someone else" taking care of her. It's about you being the husband that you vowed to be and stick by her side. Look I lost my mom to cancer, and exactly two years later I lost my dad. So yeah, life is hard, but it doesn't have to be as hard as we sometimes make it out to be. You're in my prayers, and I hope you reconsider your thoughts and feelings pertaining to taking your life. Hopefully you haven't done so already.
 
I am not judgemental anymore when it comes to evaluating my life. I do set some goals and look back occasionally but I don't judge my life anymore. It's a day to day thing, much easier To cope THis way.
 
I don't know what to say, someone here may have his address or phone number, if so check on him!
 
I really hope that nothing has happened to Matt. Matt, if your reading, there are places and groups you can talk to that will help with the emotional stress. there are also phone lines with councilers on standby for stuff like this. I hope you try talking with them before you do anything drastic.
 
I realize we may have missed our chance here due to the time delayed nature of the forum format, but I hope you've reconsidered.

Even apart from seeking never to see a member of our community hurt, I think it's extremely difficult to justify abandoning your wife in her time of need. How do you think your suicide will affect her chances of beating her cancer?


There are two ways out of this situation. Either you'll make it through this, in which case it's worth hanging on; or you won't, in which case there's no need to kill yourself, since you'll not be making it out anyway.

Attempting suicide doesn't improve the situation in any way.

Please reconsider.
 
Free Will

I begrudge no one the right to end their own life if they see fit. That being said, every person you've ever met will be effected by the event. Hope you think it over carefully before you go. Being an athiest myself, and prone to dangling participles, I will just wish you good luck.
 
For sure a cry for help..if it's real...most suicides the note is found after the fact.....if it,s fake ..it's a great way to get attention and i,m sure that person realizes if they want to come back to the forum ..they will need a new I.D...or a huge apology ,.claiming to get help etc..etc..
 
Chrisums said:
In a situation like this speculation should come second. Regardless of what we think, an individual has posted a very likely situation that could push a person over the edge, was speaking in a manner not akin to how they normally are (hinting at the possibility of that they were under some sort of influence- drugs or alcohol both of which increase the risk of this being reality) and stated that they had a weapon in their possession. If it were me, I would have reported the IP the next day. But it has been 3 days without a single word since an out of character post by an individual suffering an ungodly situation.

I say again- it seems appropriate for someone able to access this individuals IP address to report this.
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^ I second this.
 
matt, I'm so sorry about what you're going through.

As someone who is going through a similar situation you are, with the closest person in the world to them having cancer, I can tell you that suicide is not the answer. Your wife needs you. As difficult as it is, I prevail upon you to seek counesling for your feelings.

With all the difficulties I'm having, I'm sure suicide has crossed my mind. Then I think: "Wait, if I do that, there will be no one to take care of my cancer stricken mother, and she will be devestated, and lose her will to fight her disease. It would be the ultimate selfish act on my part".

I hope and pray that you are just taking a break from the forum, to sort out your thoughts, and that you realize that suicide is NOT the answer!

If you return to the forum, and need to vent, my pm box is open anytime.

Take care, and Good Luck to you. PLEASE dont do what you said. There are alternatives.

Mitch
 
Has anyone PM'ed a moderator or clicked on the report post button yet?
 
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