merciless tickling

[ticklerpilot]

who of you female lees out there like tickle torture with no safe word, it stops when the ler wants

 

[ticklemepls]

we have no safe word... we did at first but we dont need it (he knows me more than well enough).... it's not for everyone though... me, I enjoy the thrill of not being able to stop it and when I think that I would have yelled it, I find I can take more... so it's great- but you really need to have that trust there to fully enjoy it.

 

[jetergirl5]

That would be me! I very rarely get a safe word much less ever used one!

 

[robmic]

Personally, I've never used one. I DO pay attention to the people I'm tickling constantly to make sure they are not in any distress. Other than that, they are totally at my mercy, (or lack thereof!) 😛

 

[rhiannon]

I would do it, but my ler is kinda apprehensive about it. I can understand that, too....he probably wouldn't be able to really relax. So the safeword is more for him than for me.

 

[WilDnCrazyRia]

No safeword is wonderful. If you go in agreeing to no safeword at all you know that you are in for some intense torture.

 

[Ticklishz]

As long as both parties are ok with it--its the best. Something more fun about knowing only the ler can decide when to stop. As a switch I have done it both as a lee and ler.

 

[JazzBouchard]

My ex boyfriend and I would do that, no safewords, but it gets to a point that he sees I need to stop. He was not that merciless.

 

[rhiannon]

but it gets to a point that he sees I need to stop

Actually that's how it should be. That's what a good ler does!

 

[JazzBouchard]

Actually that's how it should be. That's what a good ler does!

Totally true! Who needs safewords anyways?

 

[tic30]

if the ler has any common sense whatsoever... he/she will know when to give a break without a safeword
the only time my hubby gives me a break is if i get a cramp or something like that...to me the whole idea
of being restrained is that im helpless and i know no matter how bad it tickles even if i cant stand it another
second, it will not stop. we dont use safewords, we use a kitchen timer lol

 

[Jelly Bean]

Used to use one with my ler but not any more. Having my limits pushed until my breaking point is intense and thrilling but as said above, you need to trust your ler.

 

[Druidici]

As a 'ler you can use no safe words,you just need to know how to read your 'lee..eyes,body language,etc.

 

[OmahaTickler]

As many of these replies have made clear -- part of the thrill for many ticklees is loss of control. The chaos of that uncertainty adds to the experience, the "these fingers/brushes/whatever are driving my flesh mad, and I can't make it stop....." A safe word can dull that thrill. I can't speak for the ticklee psyche cuz I've always been a ler, but I would guess that at least some of them get a charge from tickling because of its mystery and intrigue: when will he stop, where will he tickle next, etc. Ditto to the above comments: a good ler knows when it's time to stop.

 

[TicklexoxFreaK]

I would prefer no safe word even though I can understand why someone would want to have one to feel secure. I love being pushed to my limits and if i'm going to be tickled half to death we might as well go all out with it hahaha.

 

[ticklerpilot]

oh agreed, its a trust thing, its not for everyone, rare to find someone who is into it

 

[ticklerpilot]

exactly, its not tickle torture if the lee can make it stop whenever they want, but if you care about your lee you give breaks when you know its time, but that also does not have to mean the session is over

 

[porcelaindoll2]

My boyfriend/Dom/ler stopped paying attention to my safe words when he realized I would be a brat and use them to end play early when I could take more. He knows when to stop now anyway after being with me for almost a year.

 

[chicago]

I can't remember a time I've had a safeword per se, but often I have been tickled until I said whatever terrible humiliating thing the ler wanted me to say.

 

[Comfort Eagle]

I can't remember a time I've had a safeword per se, but often I have been tickled until I said whatever terrible humiliating thing the ler wanted me to say.

Seems a lot hotter than safewording to me.

 

[Desparting297]

I find yelling out a safe word makes me admit defeat and I'm far too stubborn for that lol

 

[gitcheycoocoo]

I have seen it stated by some on this forum and elsewhere that they want to be mercilessly tickled for long periods of time with no way of making it stop. Wonder how many of those we have on this forum?

 

[TickVix]

I don't typically use any safe words...mostly because I forget to put one into place BUT I think at times it may be needed. I for one need to catch my breath at times and if a ler stops when they want I may pass out lol.