My Best Friend's Girl

[giggle-maker]

So I started to gather up my stuff and changed out of my swimming suit and I turn around and there's Fabiola sporting a pouty look and playfully sticking out her bottom lipShe whispers in my ear "If you stay for another drink with me, I'll let you tickle me some more."

After a quick re-read I found this to be a glaring "things that make you go hmmm"

We are on a tickle forum. Therefore, in order to post a fictional story here it must (or at extreme minimum should) revolve around tickling.

This girl Fabiola, is not a member of our forum and therefore, whether likes being tickled or not, does not have any prior knowledge of a tickle fetish. She can use any means of physical activity in order to bribe him to stay but goest straight for tickling?

What seems more likley? Fabiola telling coldneck that if he stays they can:

a. hang out more and do 'whatever'

or

b. can tickle her more


All this plust the best friend is some Broc Lessner wannabe with "no sense of humor concerning his girlfrined" ???


sorry bud....gotta declare shenanigans here.

 

[Barney Stubble]

After a quick re-read I found this to be a glaring "things that make you go hmmm"

We are on a tickle forum. Therefore, in order to post a fictional story here it must (or at extreme minimum should) revolve around tickling.

This girl Fabiola, is not a member of our forum and therefore, whether likes being tickled or not, does not have any prior knowledge of a tickle fetish. She can use any means of physical activity in order to bribe him to stay but goest straight for tickling?

What seems more likley? Fabiola telling coldneck that if he stays they can:

a. hang out more and do 'whatever'

or

b. can tickle her more


All this plust the best friend is some Broc Lessner wannabe with "no sense of humor concerning his girlfrined" ???


sorry bud....gotta declare shenanigans here.

No offense, but this ranks among the sillier responses. There's another subforum for "fictional" stories. This story is here because a) he claims it's true and there is no credible evidence to the contrary...and b) he was asking for advice. The story DOES involve tickling, so reading this response, I'm sure many are going "hmmm."

And it makes perfect sense that she would entice him with tickling. Based on her reaction to the previous tickling he gave her, she definitely likes it and she knows he likes it. Maybe she's not the slut people here are making her out to be. She probably wanted to entice him with something a little more socially acceptable than "Hey, wanna fuck?" Maybe that's how the girls in your circle roll, but Fabiola seems to have a lot more class.

And what's so unbelievable about a take-no-shit buff guy who is possessive about his girlfriend? I can think of at least 6 guys I know right off the bat who fall into this category. I'm sensing some real desperation to disprove this story, and the reasons for that aren't hard to guess.

Sorry bud....gotta declare envy and jealousy here.

 

[rhiannon]

And what's so unbelievable about a take-no-shit buff guy who is possessive about his girlfriend?

What's unbelievable is a guy who KNOWS about the no-shit-attitude and Popeye-body of his best friend and STILL fooling around with his girl although he thinks there are cameras around....but hey, maybe it's just unbelievably stupid!

 

[ElFewja]

Gigglemaker: I also disagree with your post.

I don't think it necessary that a post on the tickling discussion necessarily revolve around tickling. There is tickling related material there for sure. Also, I believe that the op's main point wasn't necessarily the tickling, though it was related; rather he is concerned about the situation and how to handle it.

Because the post is about a situation that has happened and how to handle the fall out, rather than it being a story about something that had just happened, I'm more inclined to believe that it's a real incident. That touch of humanity, the oh-shit element of the post, is not something I would expect to occur in a fictional story most of the time.

I would also argue that the original story is probably lacking in necessary details for our discussion. I believe had said he was tickling her feet in a hot tub. Well, I would also assume that he had a bit of a hard on while doing so. From what we know, she took notice that he enjoyed tickling her and thought that enough to lure him elsewhere/for other things. And she was right. So, given that, I think there is something we're missing that would indicate to her that the op enjoyed tickling her. Regardless, they had had that physical interaction and because, for whatever reason, she noticed he enjoyed it, I don't think it's too farfetched that she would say something like that to him. I say this because you could replace this with a number of other physical interactions, massaging for example, and the story still holds.

A lot of guys are jealous types that don't appreciate people flirting with their girlfriends... much less engaging in sexual activities together. I don't think that that is necessarily related to the persona/build of the boyfriend. Rather, it's an addendum: he is this and also this. I don't see either him being who he is or a jealous type as unlikely, nor do I see the combination of the two (for lack of a better word, characteristics... I know the one is like a stereotype and the other is an actual characteristic, but work with me here lol).. nor do I see the combination of the two characteristics being unlikely.

Beyond all of that, again, I think the story is vague in several parts because the story isn't the op's main agenda. It's possible that there was more tickling -- and I do tickle when I make out so I would believe that -- and that we weren't informed.

Regardless, I look at the original post as a here is what happened, what should I do type of deal, which would indicate its truth to me.

 

[Irvine]

Well, I hope Cold dude came out of this alright. Its really a tough thing and he seemed to be leaning to not saying a word but I think I'd wanna talk to his girl first. I would like to assess the situation first. Just because he SHOULD tell his friend does not mean right away is the best time. Thats not to say that he can hold off forever but at least pick his time when he won't get shredded.

 

[coldneck]

Yo Bitches!
I'm Still Alive 'n Well!!
Just like my Dad's old Johnny Winter albums.

To all those that wished me ending up "in a body cast" I gotta say:

Really?!? You really want someone ending up in the hospital?


No respectable woman that I know would ever wish that on another guy.


Really, though...why follow the thread for 6 pages and then cry "fake"?!?
That makes no fucking sense.

On the other hand, I appreciate the real advice I received.


I'll fill you guys in completely, when I get back home.

It's all good!!!

 

[stockytickler]

I'm happy to hear it, and that was sort of my concern -- it didn't sound like a confrontation would be especially pretty. Good luck, man, and we'll catch you on your way back. 🙂

 

[gig1965]

Wait till they split up, then tell him once he's over her.

 

[rhiannon]

Coldneck, I don't wish you that you go into the hospital. I frankly don't really care. From what you were saying about your best friend it sure sounded like a possibility though. But maybe you should have thought about it before you messed around with your best friend's GF!

 

[GQguy]

There is no greater catalyst for a man to lose their mind than having his woman fooled around with by another guy. It unlocks the inner caveman. Want to turn a church going man into a murderer....hook up with his girl.

"Be a man!" I loath this statement. Especially when it's made by women. What do they know about being a man? These things happen. We are breed to have sex with the most attractive person(s) we can find. Women choose sex partners while men are lucky enough to be chosen. Some men get chosen more often while other men never do. Self control is crucial...but when you drink and smoke for the purpose of losing that self control men will revert to their more primitive selves. Every guy has their limit. And the tickling! I don't think I've ever had a woman say "You can tickle me some more" and I've had my share of hookups. See....men are constantly at the mercy of a woman's will. We're truly opportunist in the truest sense. Sometimes fate smiles at you and a hot Latina woman who is ticklish wants you to stay for a drink so she can get tickled. I don't care who you are.....but what man here wouldn't be tempted? But the converse doesn't work for women. See....when you say "be a man!" what does that mean. To "be a man" and follow our nature i.e. get the blowjob? Or to "be a man" and completely deny our nature as men?

But!!!!

Self control and discipline despite our innate nature are prerequisites for my friendship. I've been in situations similar to the one mentioned wayyyy too many times and despite being highly attracted to my buddy(s) girls allowing anything to go to the next level WILL erode the respect that your friend and his peers have for you. Avoiding those situations is best. Far from holier than though....I know if I started tickling her and she kept following me...I'd be freaking toast! And that's after only a few drinks. If I'm wasted and high on weed(never tried) I'd have most likely taken it further than you did. To prevent this I would have broken chemistry with her loooong time ago. Ask her if she has any single girlfriends. Tell her about your last hookup and talk about your buddy! I would definitely not touch her. Definitely no tickling. Is one tickle ever enough if you're attracted to the girl? That's why you never start. But like someone said.....girls come and go(no pun intended) but your buddys are for life. And respect and trust aren't easily gotten. I've made some of my best friends in these situations. My friends knowing that I resisted temptation to keep our friendship going elevated their view of me as a friend. You missed an opportunity to go to next level of friendship with your buddy.

You're a shitty friend. You know this. Be a good friend from now on. Odds are this isn't the first time she's fooled with another guy and i'm sure this won't be the last. As Libertine said be there for him whenever it happens again.

GQ

 

[BMoreTklr]

I think I've chimed in on this issue but to make it even simpler, this rule applies to both males and females. Thou Shalt Not Smash the Homey!

 

[coldneck]

The Final Countdown

So I show up at the sports bar and Jeremy's already there. After some small talk and a pitcher, the topic turns to the party:

"So didja have a good time? I was a little umm...busy Haha!"
Oh yeah. You really know how to do it up right!
"I think Fab was a little pissy that I had strippers there, but she'll get over it. You guys seemed to hit it off, which is cool because she fucking hates all the guys at work.... even the Mexicans!"
Yeah, I'm glad you brought that up. She did seem a little upset, so I hung with her for a while. She's cool. Good work, man!
"Thanks bra. (he says that a lot). Sooo...what did she say?"
Oh you know, just kinda pouting at first, then shooting dirty looks at the girls. I told her she had nothing to worry about, that she's the hottest chica at the party by far, and she should cut you some slack ... It's your birthday.
"Dude! You're Keith Stone!" (beer commercial reference, followed by a fist bump).
I wanted to tell you that after she got so drunk, I was the one who put her to bed in the guest house. She was praying to the Porcelain God, and I didn't want you to have to babysit, so I stayed with her a while and made sure she was OK.
"That was you?! Thanks bra! I owe ya one. Man, I was so WASTED!"
Yeah, so was she. I knew she was when she started kissing on me a little (at this point he raised his eyebrows some).
"Whatja do?"
In my best Austin Powers, I said to her, 'Oh...Behave, you cheeky monkey!'
"Haha! Good one bra! (fist bump)
Hey, I'm just glad she didn't try it AFTER she puked!
"No shit, man!HAhaha! Yer killin' me! Seriously bra... thanks for watching out for her, that's really cool of you." (raises beer mug).
Anytime...BRA!!! Bro's before Hoes! (raise the mugs)

So, there ya have it kids, a text book example of CYA! It really couldn't have gone any better if I don't say so myself.
I told him what he needed to know, no more, no less. No harm, no foul. No nickle, no dime, No Quarter.

He's having a World Series watching party at his outdoor theater this weekend and invited me over, and said Fab's friend Paola is gonna be there. Which is good news. That chiquita is a dead ringer for Selma Hayek. Schwing!!
Should be interesting, to say the least.

 

[BellybTickler]

Congrats bro! 😀

 

[Barney Stubble]

Out fucking standing!!

You are the man!

Seriously, you did the right thing. There was absolutely nothing to be gained by spilling your guts the way many advised you to do.

On the flip side, the euphoria you feel from your clean getaway might make you a little cocky and over-confident. Don't let that happen. Remember, this could have just as easily gone really bad for you.

I'm sure that R and the other moralistic town criers will no doubt experience considerable difficulty in hiding their chagrin over your evasion of what they no doubt consider a well-deserved ass-kicking. These bitter disappointments will likely manifest as accusations of fabrication. They figure that since something that good never happened to them, they're going to do their best to make sure nobody believes it happened to you. Ignore them.

Again, way to go, man!

 

[primetime]

So I show up at the sports bar and Jeremy's already there. After some small talk and a pitcher, the topic turns to the party:

"So didja have a good time? I was a little umm...busy Haha!"
Oh yeah. You really know how to do it up right!
"I think Fab was a little pissy that I had strippers there, but she'll get over it. You guys seemed to hit it off, which is cool because she fucking hates all the guys at work.... even the Mexicans!"
Yeah, I'm glad you brought that up. She did seem a little upset, so I hung with her for a while. She's cool. Good work, man!
"Thanks bra. (he says that a lot). Sooo...what did she say?"
Oh you know, just kinda pouting at first, then shooting dirty looks at the girls. I told her she had nothing to worry about, that she's the hottest chica at the party by far, and she should cut you some slack ... It's your birthday.
"Dude! You're Keith Stone!" (beer commercial reference, followed by a fist bump).
I wanted to tell you that after she got so drunk, I was the one who put her to bed in the guest house. She was praying to the Porcelain God, and I didn't want you to have to babysit, so I stayed with her a while and made sure she was OK.
"That was you?! Thanks bra! I owe ya one. Man, I was so WASTED!"
Yeah, so was she. I knew she was when she started kissing on me a little (at this point he raised his eyebrows some).
"Whatja do?"
In my best Austin Powers, I said to her, 'Oh...Behave, you cheeky monkey!'
"Haha! Good one bra! (fist bump)
Hey, I'm just glad she didn't try it AFTER she puked!
"No shit, man!HAhaha! Yer killin' me! Seriously bra... thanks for watching out for her, that's really cool of you." (raises beer mug).
Anytime...BRA!!! Bro's before Hoes! (raise the mugs)

So, there ya have it kids, a text book example of CYA! It really couldn't have gone any better if I don't say so myself.
I told him what he needed to know, no more, no less. No harm, no foul. No nickle, no dime, No Quarter.

He's having a World Series watching party at his outdoor theater this weekend and invited me over, and said Fab's friend Paola is gonna be there. Which is good news. That chiquita is a dead ringer for Selma Hayek. Schwing!!
Should be interesting, to say the least.

Damn!!! That's the one thing about guys. To hell with getting an ass kicking! Yeah, technically you didn't do the right thing, but why get an ass kicking? You left out some details with your friend, but hey, you were in the situation, not any of us. None of us here are in your shoes, so you did what you had to do.

But, get ready for people (they know who they are...) to chime in and rip you for not being completely honest with your friend.

It does sound like you may try to hook up again with Fabiola. If so, you might be risking your luck. By the way, can we see a pic of this Salma Hayek look a like friend? I LOVE Salma...

 

[rhiannon]

Yeah dude, you're the man! You made out with your best friend's girl and lied to your best buddy! Congrats, bro! When are you going to do it again??? Let us know, and make a video, will ya???

 

[MatrinZachs]

Not cool, not cool, not cool. This is how it starts.
You claim innocence.
He believes you.
You think you are in the clear.
Not now but later the someone talks it could be her it could some lurker at the party
Then your friend confronts you or the lady depending on which one of you he is most emotional about. My money is he comes after you because if a she is giving great oral sex on a regular basis he thinking is compromised for sure
Good sex makes a
look like a
So he going to then and while because everyone else is your

tell the truth or your goodbye.

 

[ChicagoDavid]

Count me in as one of the moralistic town criers. I’m not really faulting OP for not fessing up, for the reasons I gave in an earlier post. But if you fool around with your best friend’s girl, and then lie to him about it, you shouldn’t be celebrating.

 

[coldneck]

Count me in as one of the moralistic town criers ... But if you fool around with your best friend’s girl, and then lie to him about it, you shouldn’t be celebrating.

First of all, Senator, I didn't LIE. I told him the fucking TRUTH. Just not all of it, OK?! Ever done that?!?
I'm protecting him, but you probably don't get that because you see things in Black & White.

Go chase Frankenstein with torches and burn him this Halloween instead of me. DaHam!!!

And for the record ... I will be celebrating with my friend Jeremy tomorrow night, instead of ruining a great friendship.

That, my friends, is the GOOD that will come of this.

Isn't that what really matters?

 

[rhiannon]

First of all, Senator, I didn't LIE. I told him the fucking TRUTH. Just not all of it, OK?!

Try that one in court! 🙂 I'm sure it won't fly! 🙂 At least admit to yourself that not telling the whole truth is still lying. And by the way, did she actually throw up? 🙂

I'm protecting him

LOL...from what??? You are protecting yourself, and nothing more! You're not even protecting him from that cheating slut that he calls his girlfriend!

It's okay, you're a shitty friend, sometimes we're all egoistical asses, but at least don't try to make it sounds better to yourself and deal with feeling bad about it!

 

[kis123]

I completely agree with Rhiannon in this case. I could be WAY off track here, but something tells me that if these guys put themselves in the friend's shoes and it was THEIR girl that their bestfriend cheated with, i'm guessing they wouldn't be giving them a pat on the back.

For me, sex is sex, and cheating is cheating. I guess it would really depend on the couple themselves as to whether it was considered cheating, if it wasn't, you don't have anything to worry about. That being said, chances are if you feel guilty it's cause you know what you did was wrong. I think own up to it. Yes, obviously he's going to be pissed at you, but maybe he'll realise that he actually deserves better than being with someone who's that quick to give herself to other people. Just a thought.

To the OP:

Sir, you are completely deluding yourself.

You had oral sex with your "best friend's" girlfriend, then basically lied about it in order to preserve your friendship. Now I want to get those details straight because I really want to understand your POV.

Guess what? I don't understand at all. You shouldn't have allowed that to happen under ANY circumstances; that is unless you wanted to all along and are just using the alcohol and weed as excuses to do what was really in your head and heart in the first place.

Switch this around and you're Fabiola's boyfriend and she just blew off your best friend. Exactly how long would he remain your best friend? Then you find out he lied to you about it in order to remain friends? Is any of this coming clear to you?

There's no way in hell I would've allowed this to happen with me and my best friend's SO. No way, no excuses......nada, zip, nothing. No amount of alcohol could get me to do it either. If you didn't want to have sex (which is what you did no matter what others are saying to you) then you didn't have to.

So now what? You told a half truth which might as well be a whole lie. You gotta' live with that and I don't see you getting too far before the rest catches up to you.

Drunk or not, you made a horrible decision and now you're making it worse by lying. Good luck because you're going to need it.

 

[ChicagoDavid]

First of all, Senator, I didn't LIE. I told him the fucking TRUTH. Just not all of it, OK?! Ever done that?!?
I'm protecting him, but you probably don't get that because you see things in Black & White.

Go chase Frankenstein with torches and burn him this Halloween instead of me. DaHam!!!

And for the record ... I will be celebrating with my friend Jeremy tomorrow night, instead of ruining a great friendship.

That, my friends, is the GOOD that will come of this.

Isn't that what really matters?

I, for one, am done with this thread, and I think that everyone else should be as well. If OP really concludes that he did not lie to his friend, and told him the truth, well, then there is no point to any discussion.

 

[kis123]

I, for one, am done with this thread, and I think that everyone else should be as well. If OP really concludes that he did not lie to his friend, and told him the truth, well, then there is no point to any discussion.

I agree with you.

Anyone that self-delusional is not going to listen to reason or do what's necessary (like telling the truth) to fix what he messed up. I'm not beating up on him, everyone has at least one royal screw up in their life. It's what he does afterwards that'll make or break him.

Again I wish the OP good luck but........I don't think it's gonna' fare well with him.

 

[rhiannon]

Again I wish the OP good luck but........I don't think it's gonna' fare well with him.

To me personally, two sayings come to mind: What goes around comes around, and Karma is a bitch!

 

[uticklish2]

Stolen fruit always tastes sweeter!