MY opinion which may offend.

[kcantankerous]

Tickling is one thing, but foot torture stuff is just plain sick. I don't care who you are your a sick bastard if you like that crap.

 

[TickleMantis]

I'm not into that stuff, just tickling for me but let me ask you a question...

Can you choose not to have a tickling fetish? Did you wake up one morning and suddenly decide to have a tickling fetish?

I imagine if you asked someone the same question but in regards to foot torture, you would get the same answer as you would give to the question above, no. They don't choose to have that fetish, just as a gay person does not choose to be gay. Being aroused by something does not make you, in your brilliant diagnosis "a sick bastard".

Sick is when they act on it, unless of course it is consensual. A woman agreeing to have her foot tortured in a safe environment is fine. Suddenly grabbing a woman and torturing her foot, that is sick.

Sick is when you cause pain other people. If a person were attracted to little kids, they could not help that. Its not their fault, however the second they give in to their urges and molest some poor child then that is when they become sick.

I just think you should take more effort in clarifying yourself before you run around calling people bastards.

My two cents anyway.

 

[shdwcoder]

And who is to define "torture"? I personally find having my feet tickled is torture in itself.🙁

 

[TickledToDeath]

And who is to define "torture"? I personally find having my feet tickled is torture in itself.🙁

Good to know. Will keep that info in mind. heh heh heh.


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[TickledToDeath]

IF we are talking beating feet and bastinado, I am not much into that either but THOSE that ARE shouldn't be trashed for it. To each their own. There are those who think we who are into tickling and tickle torture are sick also. Dosen't make it true.

TTD

 

[shdwcoder]

Good to know. Will keep that info in mind. heh heh heh.


TTD

Yikes!! I didn't know you were listening!!!!!

 

[TickledToDeath]

Yikes!! I didn't know you were listening!!!!!

HEH HEH HEH
Sometimes I have my bat ears on and my little minions looking out for info such as this. I also have a gooooooood memory about such info as well and as said in Miranda rights, what you say can and will be used against you(especially in the court of tickling)!😉 😀


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[shdwcoder]

Oh! I do declare! Whatever is poor girl to do?😱

 

[Lazarus]

...

I happen to enjoy Bastinado while getting my feet tickled; it heightens the sensations....

If I'm a sick freak, well....

Freaky I be.

 

[ShadowTklr]

Tickling is one thing, but foot torture stuff is just plain sick. I don't care who you are your a sick bastard if you like that crap.

I'm sure that to those of us who understand the dynamics of our own fetish, your comment is more amusing than offensive. It appears to me that you may still be in some sort of denial about your own fetish, so you seek to differentiate yourself from others with more "profound" desires.

You're exactly .0001% removed from the "sick bastard" who likes foot torture. [BULLETIN: People who like foot torture usually include tickling as a means of foot torture] In fact, in the eyes of mainstream society, you're SO closely related to the foot torturer, that they can't tell you apart.

To them, you look like someone calling his brother a son of a **********, but who still sees himself as unblemished.

Fetishism is a desire borne of abstract representation. Some fetishes are easy for other fetishists to understand, and some are not. The word "Torture" is almost always an abstract term as well. It is symbolic of the desire, not the literal intention.

Think about it. How would you "torture" a person who loves to be tortured? Even hardcore BDSM players have limitations. Even "Edge Play" takes tolerance to the perimeter. It doesn't seek to literally traumatize and injure the masochist.

So, as you keep the undesireable fetishes out of your realm of understanding and acceptance, remember that you are the same sick bastard to someone else.



😎

 

[Lazarus]

Also....

MANY BDSM people Meems and I have talked to consider tickling to be a "Hard Break"....

These are people who handle candle wax, whips, nipple clamps, spanking, whipping, and all sorts and manner of painful torture, can't handle tickling, by their own admission.

 

[ShadowTklr]

Re: Also....

MANY BDSM people Meems and I have talked to consider tickling to be a "Hard Break"....

These are people who handle candle wax, whips, nipple clamps, spanking, whipping, and all sorts and manner of painful torture, can't handle tickling, by their own admission.

An excellent point, Laz. I've been told the same thing many times myself. 😎

 

[ticklesenseless]

In fact, if you visit some of the BDSM sites, you will see many ads where tickling is mentioned as a hard limit. I don't understand why but then I don't need to. Every person has their own needs and desires. Some can be labelled, some can't.

I believe any form of play or physical/mental expression is fine so long as it is between two consenting adults that are mentally capable of making the decision to consent and know what they are consenting to. So long as that is the case, and they are not playing out in public where non-consenting passerbys might get a shock, who am I to judge how they play.

 

[TickledToDeath]

Re: Also....

MANY BDSM people Meems and I have talked to consider tickling to be a "Hard Break"....

These are people who handle candle wax, whips, nipple clamps, spanking, whipping, and all sorts and manner of painful torture, can't handle tickling, by their own admission.

In my experiences and travels, I too have met countless folks who are into hard core S/M and B/D who have said that tickling is a hard limit for them. Amazing how they can handle, whipping, spanking, being paddled, caneing, cutting, hot wax(which could be sensual if done right by the by) but if tickled, they totally loose it! What disturbs me is when those same people call tickling and tickle torture, "childs play" and "baby games". 🙄 🙄


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[steph]

Hi Sweets~
Maybe you should clarify what YOU define is torture~do you mean someone forced against their will, the spanking TTD mentioned? I'd like to her you explain a little more?
Thanks! 😛

XOXO

Tickling is one thing, but foot torture stuff is just plain sick. I don't care who you are your a sick bastard if you like that crap.

 

[TickledToDeath]

Re: Re: MY opinion which may offend.

Hi Sweets~
Maybe you should clarify what YOU define is torture~do you mean someone forced against their will, the spanking TTD mentioned? I'd like to her you explain a little more?
Thanks! 😛

XOXO

Steph,

Are you asking ME to clarify or explain something a little more or the starter of this thread?


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[steph]

Hi TTD~I think you explained yourself pretty well. I was asking knogz because I think what's "torture" is in the mind of the beholder, hm? Like someone posted earlier, for them on their feet is torture. For me, it never is. I think he was talking about the burning cigarettes, needles and that but I just wanted to make sure.
XOXO

 

[TickledToDeath]

Hi TTD~I think you explained yourself pretty well. I was asking knogz because I think what's "torture" is in the mind of the beholder, hm? Like someone posted earlier, for them on their feet is torture. For me, it never is. I think he was talking about the burning cigarettes, needles and that but I just wanted to make sure.
XOXO

That's what I thought.....just checking Steph. Foot torture is something completely different with stuff that you said, burning etc. .
Extreme tickling bordering on tickle torture is another story and as far as I am concerned is fine by me as both LER and LEE so long as it is fine with the LEE to allow no holds barred no mercy tickling!😀 😉 😀


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[steph]

Ok good, (I'm with you BTW on THAT kind of torture!) I was just curious what exactly knogz was bothered by. I think we've figured it out without him, because it looks like he disappeared on us now (He's ALWAYS doing that!) 😛

XOXO

 

[starfires]

Tickling is one thing, but foot torture stuff is just plain sick. I don't care who you are your a sick bastard if you like that crap.

So you seriously believe that every person who likes to torture feet has been born to unwed parents? Just kidding.
You are, of course, entitled to your opinion. Just as I am entitled to the opinion that feet in general are only incidental to the discussion topic at hand, and a high percentage of the foot-related threads lower the Signal to Noise Ratio of the forum significantly.

 

[TicklishSinner]

Is that true?? people into the nipple clamps, spanking, and painful things can't handle tickling?? Why is that??

 

[Spenser]

indeed,

If your intention was to offend, you have done a very fine job of it.

I enjoy a number of fetishes, as well as does my wife, and (this and) that is exactly why we are creating our parties by invitation only these days; selectively.

Spenser

 

[steph]

Nah! I'm NOT offended, just asking for clarification. He's absolutely entitled to his opinion...

XOXO

indeed,

If your intention was to offend, you have done a very fine job of it.

I enjoy a number of fetishes, as well as does my wife, and (this and) that is exactly why we are creating our parties by invitation only these days; selectively.

Spenser

 

[nerobob]

He's got a point. You might see a mother tickling her kid, or people playfully tickling each other, but I have never seen a mother burn the soles of a child feet.

 

[rajee]

THOSE that ARE shouldn't be trashed for it. To each their own. There are those who think we who are into tickling and tickle torture are sick also.

I agree with TTD and those who stated the same sentiment. You should judge others at all or until you lived 1 day in their mind
and body.
To each their own. Fulfill your own needs til your heart's content as long as it's consentual if it involves more than yourself.
TTD 😀