new ticklish girlfriend advice

[Dandy Jack]

For Goalie34

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For Goalie 34

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Let me see your best stuff

Enlighten us with some analysis

You read my take on the tread about the guy who wants to tickle his aunt's feet

Then come back to me

With your answer to that tread and my advice...

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present your best writings

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You hold yours waiting for someone

to say it's good!

Tell them to make your arrangements

It won't take long

For them to sing about your sad ass

Next time if you don't know what you are taking about

shut your face

We don't need a clown like you

inside of this place...

click your heels 3 times

and go Blank Blank Blank yourself!!! Imagine what you want

Dandy Jack

 

[rhiannon]

Rusty has given some great advice here! Just don't know how to best go for it if your relationship isn't even sexual yet...that makes it more difficult.

 

[Dandy Jack]

Find it and be gone

Do us all a favor be a memory

Dandy Jack

 

[jujimbo]

Once dated a girl who was so ridiculously ticklish on her feet she already went crazy for just massaging them lightly. Was hard not to tickle her even unintentionally. Dangerous too, as she would kick about if it tickled too much. I also said 'sorry' sometimes when massaging her feet and it tickled and asked me to "Stop". Her reaction was to my pleasant surprise: "Why did you say sorry?"
She secretly knew it was a turn-on for me to tickle her anywhere and she didn't mind getting tickled anywhere beside her feet (and she also knew to tease me with her feet nonetheless and didn't mind going barefoot around me, I just couldn't tickle them too often, only now and then and easily).

I'd say, try to take it slowly and learn her limits. Maybe eventually she'd give you more on a special day. Never just always go straight at her feet and try to respect her weakness, unless she gives signs she wants it to happen (like e.g. she keeps teasing you with it).

 

[Dandy Jack]

Mane O I hope that you get what you deserve

I am sure that won't be much!

Dandy Jack

 

[daddy]

I think there is no set answer on how to handle such situations. This is because a huge part of this is determined by the dynamic interaction of the personality types between the guy and girl.

I personally have always been very direct with anyone I dated and always tickled them all over.

If by the second date, if I wasn't tickling, I knew it wasn't going to work.

But my experiences should not be used as a guide. Each person's personality type and confidence level factors into what approach will be most effective.

JD

Agreed...100%

peace out,
daddy

 

[Dandy Jack]

Picture The World Without Any Color
You Could'nt Tell One Face From Another
For There Is Only One True Color...
The Color Of Love!

Not correct

There is another color...

The color of hate

and the color of Ignorance...

We need to get rid of those colors...

But to get rid of them

You have to leave Earth

Dandy Jack

 

[122]

Oh, this is simple (not)........... Ummmm, OK.

1. Get to know each other, i don't mean "hello im .........." I mean intimately.
2. Build trust, build it in every way and in every part of the relationship.
3. Go for the suggested massage/LIGHT tickle, see how she reacts. If she likes it, keep it light, playful and short.
4. Build it up, maybe suck her toes? Or kiss them lightly. Do this gradually over a period of weeks.
5. If she asks you ANYTHING like "do you like my feet?" or "do you like it when i Giggle?" admit it, say yes i do!
6. Ask her if she likes it when you do something, say something like "do you like me stroking your feet/back/neck?" If she says yes, see it as an ok to proceed, but with haste!
7. Don't press the issue, remember it's not an issue.......... You want to tie her up and just go for it, she doesnt know that, and you should be careful not to give that impression.
8. Continue with the rappor you have built, the anticipation will often be better than you think, give it time and be patient, the best things come to those who rush, pressurise, dive in head first without thinking and have no regard for anyone else! Oh, wait, thats not right.

Good luck!

 

[ReefMD]

Rusty Shackleford and 122's advice are both great.

Joker, I assume your relationship then is first and/or second base only? If so, and you said you are already taking it slow, perhaps ask her for a clarification regarding why the feet are brought up being ticklish? I assume she's doing it to tease you? If so, perhaps frame the tickling in a playful context at first. Continue with the light tickling, ease into the feet when she's comfortable with it. Again, the massaging thing sounds good. See if there's anything she'd like to do to you in exchange?

Good luck!

 

[TheYoungJoker]

you guys are great...i really appreciate all of the great advice and will definitely be taking some of these ideas

 

[love feet]

Go very slow!

 

[giggle-maker]

I have to throw some cents here (two of them to be exact)

Girls just naturally respond to confidence. Plain and simple.

But it's not "plain and simple" to those without it. So here's a little roadmap.

NEVER EVER act akward about tickling! PERIOD! Rusty Shackleford touched on this from both ends; the abysmal fail of being awkward and the full blown triumph of not being awkward. If you keep a casual tone when talking about tickling, then it will be!

I go on my own personal experience here. I have a sockless-sneaker fetish. Probably my biggest fetish as it were. When I talk about this to girls, I don't go mental on it, I just tell them that I'm attracted to girls that can and do wear their sneakers without socks. Admittedly, it's more mainstream now with almost every girl out there with an awareness to Kristen Stewart (an outspoken sockless-sneaker girl) plus an entire fashion customer base built on making socks as invisible as possible to create the "sockless look".

But still...tickling is easily aknowledgable as a turn on and should not be a subject of nervousness. Treat it as just another part of you and if she accepts you she will accept it as just another part of you.

 

[DontAskJusTckle]

If everybody starts rhyming in here now, I will find me another forum!!

Hmm. Normally I wouldn't bother, but it's tough to resist an incentive like that. What the hell.

The writings that are Dandy Jack's

Are chock full of wisdom and facts

You'd do well to listen.

Who cares if it's pissin'

Off some of the whiners and quacks?

 

[rhiannon]

Good thing you're not "everybody", huh? 🙂

 

[SpiffyTickler]

Good thing you're not "everybody", huh? 🙂

Careful! You're going to hurt his ego.

 

[2ltamerica]

Dandy Jack always makes me think of Bender from Futurama

 

[southernwellnes]

she may just enjoy the attention of it than anything else. She may not be into it but enjoys the fact that people will touch her or give her attention because she is ticklish. Some girls just enjoy laughing and attention and may not be into like you. Take the slow approach and slowly work it in. I know its hard to be patient but its worth it

 

[luvgirlsfeet]

Move slowly with it, don't rush...no need to. Since she brings up her feet it tells me she is dropping some small hints so maybe you should tickle her feet a little without having to tie her up. See how she reacts to it. Just don't make the big move just yet, too soon lol.

very good advice