Question....

[Never_tickled]

The whole tickling thing looks like something fun to try, but I notice that a lot of the content on this website is overtly sexual. Just curious if tickling is a sexual thing with you guys, or can someone try it out without it being sexual?

If not, then I'm not interested. If so, it looks like fun. I'm a rookie...never been tickled...but I'm pretty strong, and can take a lot. I don't break easily.

Thoughts?

P.S. I'm a female.

 

[milagros317]

For some people here, tickling is always sexual and turns them on (some as the tickler, some as the ticklee, and some in either role).

But there are others here for whom tickling can be good clean fun, with no arousal or sexual component and no nudity. You should seek them out if that's what you want. 😀

And: Welcome to the TMF and good luck in your quest.

 

[thisisopera]

It doesn't have to be sexual at all! For me; it definatly can be a turn on, but it depends on the tickler and the situation.

 

[TklDuo-Ann]

The view of tickling as sexual, non-sexual or some of both varies from person to person. Many (probably most) here view it as sexual to one degree or another. Personally, it's primarily playful fun with friends. But, it can also be erotic/sexual with my hubby.

My advice...? If you have an interest, go for it. Just honor what it is to you and try to be open to how others view it.

 

[Never_tickled]

For some people here, tickling is always sexual and turns them on (some as the tickler, some as the ticklee, and some in either role).

But there are others here for whom tickling can be good clean fun, with no arousal or sexual component and no nudity. You should seek them out if that's what you want. 😀

And: Welcome to the TMF and good luck in your quest.

Thanks for that. Thanks also, everybody, for your responses. You say I should seek someone out -- how do I do that?

For someone who has never ever done this before....what should I be looking for? I honestly don't want to be taken advantage of.

 

[Deadsea7777]

The whole tickling thing looks like something fun to try, but I notice that a lot of the content on this website is overtly sexual. Just curious if tickling is a sexual thing with you guys, or can someone try it out without it being sexual?

If not, then I'm not interested. If so, it looks like fun. I'm a rookie...never been tickled...but I'm pretty strong, and can take a lot. I don't break easily.

Thoughts?

P.S. I'm a female.

You can kiss a child and is not sexual, you can kiss your mother your father your sister and is not sexual. Same with caressing. Same with almost every form of contact between humans.
So maybe you can do tickling without being sexual.

However somehow is like friendship between a man and a woman.... a very slippery surface so watch out.

 

[Never_tickled]

I guess I'm just looking to test my limits. I don't even know if I'm ticklish.

I wouldn't mind doing the tied-up thing, but I don't want my first experience to be with some psycho.

Is there some sort of classifieds or something where I can find out more, or would you guys advise against it?

 

[Deadsea7777]

I guess I'm just looking to test my limits. I don't even know if I'm ticklish.

I wouldn't mind doing the tied-up thing, but I don't want my first experience to be with some psycho.

Is there some sort of classifieds or something where I can find out more, or would you guys advise against it?

Well, maybe you can do a clip for a serious producer, like the ones that put clips on the TMF, and ask your face to be covered up, etc to protect your intimacy. Or maybe you can contact Tickleabuse and have a session. He runs a very good tickle shop.
One way or the other you will have a first safer experience, if somehow no so intimate....just a suggestion, only.

 

[Never_tickled]

Good info!!! Thank you, DeadSea

 

[MrTicklefeet]

Just curious if you'r so outside of this reality as you say, what inspired you to come here and become a member?

 

[Never_tickled]

Just curious if you'r so outside of this reality as you say, what inspired you to come here and become a member?

I'm sorry...I don't get that. What do you mean by "outside of this reality?"

That is precisely why I'm asking questions, because I am still an outsider. Having never experienced it, and knowing very little about it, I have questions.

I'm just not interested in the sexual aspects of it, but looking at this forum, it appears that you cannot seperate tickling from sexuality.

As I said, it looks like fun, but having never been involved in this lifestyle, I have questions. I became interested in this after stumbling across some videos on YouTube. At first I thought they were funny, but alas, my curiosity was piqued.

 

[TklDuo-Ann]

I suspect the question was more one of how you came to find us.

 

[TangerineTicklee]

The whole tickling thing looks like something fun to try, but I notice that a lot of the content on this website is overtly sexual. Just curious if tickling is a sexual thing with you guys, or can someone try it out without it being sexual?

If not, then I'm not interested. If so, it looks like fun. I'm a rookie...never been tickled...but I'm pretty strong, and can take a lot. I don't break easily.

Thoughts?

P.S. I'm a female.

It can go both ways for me; either sexual, or just plane fuuun. 🙂

 

[RobAce]

I used to think it was only a sexual thing. Until I went to a gathering and did it with friends. Then it no longer seemed sexual to me and I was able to separate "fun tickling" with friends and such and "sexual tickling" with G/F's or playmates.

However, if you are looking for someone for a first experience I would advise against ads and such. Unless you use it to find someone and then get to know them. I have done a lot of first sessions with friends and such, and when ever someone new wants to try I always have a strict policy of talking to them and meeting them and waiting at least 2 weeks before anything happens.

Why? I want to ensure my safety as well as their own. I prefer to have a connection or at least know the person before any play happens. Call me crazy but its easier to know warning signs and where a persons boundaries are if you know them a little.

2 words to remember before engaging in any play....Safe and Consensual.

Hope that helps.

Rob

 

[texastickler]

Tickling can be a fun play for friends as well as lovers! It certainly does not need to be sexual! I have had it both ways though!

 

[LD_Tickler]

People looking to tie up girls on the internet are usually creepier than your average joe (that, or they live in the middle of nowhere).

We creepy guys get no love...

 

[luca002]

it really depends from persons

 

[TicklingTips]

I was going to PM you, but it kind of looks like I can't?

This might sound like a bit of a plug, but my whole website is about non-sexual tickling. Hopefully you'll find something useful there. www.ticklingtips.com

 

[TangerineTicklee]

I used to think it was only a sexual thing. Until I went to a gathering and did it with friends. Then it no longer seemed sexual to me and I was able to separate "fun tickling" with friends and such and "sexual tickling" with G/F's or playmates.

However, if you are looking for someone for a first experience I would advise against ads and such. Unless you use it to find someone and then get to know them. I have done a lot of first sessions with friends and such, and when ever someone new wants to try I always have a strict policy of talking to them and meeting them and waiting at least 2 weeks before anything happens.

Why? I want to ensure my safety as well as their own. I prefer to have a connection or at least know the person before any play happens. Call me crazy but its easier to know warning signs and where a persons boundaries are if you know them a little.

2 words to remember before engaging in any play....Safe and Consensual.

Hope that helps.

Rob

I agree with this, wholeheartedly.

Great post. 🙂

 

[milagros317]

Thanks for that. Thanks also, everybody, for your responses. You say I should seek someone out -- how do I do that?

For someone who has never ever done this before....what should I be looking for? I honestly don't want to be taken advantage of.

I guess I'm just looking to test my limits. I don't even know if I'm ticklish.

I wouldn't mind doing the tied-up thing, but I don't want my first experience to be with some psycho.

Is there some sort of classifieds or something where I can find out more, or would you guys advise against it?

There is a personals section here:

http://www.ticklingforum.com/forumdisplay.php?f=29

Some women who used it were deluged with many creepy responses. It might well be better to attend a gathering or munch in your area and meet many people at once. There is a section for notices of gatherings:

http://www.ticklingforum.com/forumdisplay.php?f=77

If arranging a meeting in person with somebody you have not met already at a gathering, take at least the precautions listed below.

Meet in a public place such as a restaurant or coffee shop to talk before going to any place like a motel.

If the person you are meeting is a member here, ask among the women here whether they have met him, had a tickling session with him, or been alone with him.

Tell a girlfriend that you will call her 30 minutes or one hour after the set meeting time to tell her that all is well. If you don't call, then she is to call the police immediately.

 

[Sandisk444]

it doesn't have to be a sexual thing, i think of tickling as both sexual and fun, depending on the context and who it's with. i would let them know before hand if they have a fetish though

 

[brainiac]

I think labeling poeple as "creepy" is a bit unfair unless you know them. Definatly get to know someone before you let them touch you or tie you up in any way. That goes for sexual tickling, non-sexual tickling or sex or any touch. It is your safety and peace of mind at stake here. There will always be someone out there in our lifestyle that will be honorable and want to help you as far as you want to go, just be wise about it. 🙂

If you ever plan to be in north FL, you can find myself or others that would be willing to help you explore as far as you want to go. As it was mentioned, look toward your friends first, since it is non-sexual it will be easier for you to talk about it with them.

 

[Angel77]

It's mostly sexual for me, hence the whole "fetish" part of it all but I agree with a lot of the posters who have had fun, playful experiences with friends. I've certainly had that myself and it was loads of fun! Good luck in your quest in finding out more about you! Always great to see another gal on the forum! 🙂 😀

 

[TickVix]

The whole tickling thing looks like something fun to try, but I notice that a lot of the content on this website is overtly sexual. Just curious if tickling is a sexual thing with you guys, or can someone try it out without it being sexual?

If not, then I'm not interested. If so, it looks like fun. I'm a rookie...never been tickled...but I'm pretty strong, and can take a lot. I don't break easily.

Thoughts?

P.S. I'm a female.

Hi, for some it may be, but for others it can strictly just be done for entertainment. It doesn't have to go into any realm you don't want it to go it. So if you just want to try it out and see if it's something you enjoy being done to you just for fun then by all means go for it 🙂.