yeah, its how its defined because it IS a double standard. dunno where you see me disagreeing with that.
its the same double standard the toher way around.
all im pointing out is that in today's society, when a man has multiple sex partners he gets ripped to shit by everyone around him for being an ass and a perv. but for example if you got a girl who has two sex partners shes only "following her heart" or "in love with two guys" people will rush to defend her. by people i mean girls usually. she'll be considered a real slut to the guys, just as the guy with multiple partners is considered "awesone" to his friends and a perv to thegirls.
the double standard thing has a genetic element to it because alot of times guys try to make what guys do ok and girls do the same for girls.
just saying today, guys get the much rawer end of the stick in some ways. (girls had it much worse in the past, and have their own issues with unfairity) but today, in terms of sexual stuff, guys are considered nothing but sex pervs who think with their cocks. whereas the woman is the more noble honorable one whose out for true love. truth is she thinks as much with her pussy as the guy thinks with his dick. she can just satisfy more easily because woman can have the hour long orgasm. or multiples, men genetically have the urge to keep on planting and planting thanks to their tiny two minute orgasm that takes twenty minutes to get the ererction back. it's a genetic thing nature intended to make guys plant as many of their litttle seeds as possible in as many places to help procreate the race. since needing to procreate the race isnt that hard anymore, that need has gone down, and therefore it became all about sex for pleasure.
point is, guys get bashed for that. girls act like sex dont matter to them too, or for some reason sleeping around is ok for them because "theyre looking with their heart" instead of their sex organ. (hell has anyone here seen a shot at love with tila tequila? TALK ABOUT DOUBLE STANDARD!)
but you kno what, the heart? or the dick; they're both organs.
and truthfully, the female emotional range is designed for the same procreational purposes, just in a different fascet. so to pretend that they'res a difference in the sexuality is not only a double standard, but stupid, and denying the laws of nature.
bottom line: dont apply double standards to guys or girls, they're on both ends. and they're on both ends because people dont understand how others, or more importantly, they themselves work.
to a third party, we're all screwed up. to ourselves, we're fine. anyone see a double standard there? ^.^
just saying.
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