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Robace252

RobAce

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For my 7,000th post, I give you.....my profile:

Robace...
BIRTH AND CHILDHOOD
Born July 11, 1972 in Tuscon, Arizona. My mother was born in Mexico City, Mexico and my Father in Lima, Ohio. I have 2 sisters (1 older, 1 younger) and 1 older brother. My father was in the Air Force so we moved quite a bit, but not as much as other military families. 5 years in Arizona, 5 years in Okinawa, Japan and 7 years in Panama City, FL.
Most of my youth was spent as a typical middle child. I was blessed however to have a unbroken family, but the thrill of my life was my Mexican grandmother Esperanza, lived with us for the first 10 years of my life. Teaching me about my heritage, about life and how to balance myself. After she moved out when we came back from Japan, things kind of went downhill for me.
I never quite fit in anywhere. I was smaller than all the other kids no matter where I was, also hampered by my birthday in July I was always one of the youngest in my classes. At an early age I was diagnosed with Asthma, which also hurt my development, that along with a long list of allergies kept me inside a lot and turning to indoor projects to keep myself entertained while everyone else was outside playing, which usually meant when I was around people I talked to them A LOT. Now I eventually outgrew the asthma (which they then defined as childhood asthma) but I was still smaller and my mother kept a stern eye on me, overprotecting me to a point. Even as a junior in High School I stood only 4 ft 9 inches tall and 95 pounds. I was a good student, for the most part. Back in elementary school I was in what they called the Gifted Program for Exceptional Intelligence, which singled me out for a lot of ridicule. It was back then I learned something that carries me to this day, laugh and the world laughs with you, cry and the world will taunt you. I fought off the bullying by taking it with a smile and never taking it personally.
My senior year in High School was difficult but I had finally grew to minimum military standards of height and weight. My father had been sent away for reasons still too personal to talk about now, but regardless with my older brother away in college I was the man of the house at 17. With my mother distraught and little sister still needing help I pretty much let all my grades slip so I could work and go to school. Two jobs and school took a toll on my schoolwork. I had all the backing to get an appointment to the Air Force Academy, but alas my GPA had slipped to .25 below the requirement to get the appointment I had worked all my life to achieve. So instead I enlisted in the USAF, which began a totally new phase of my life.

ADULT LIFE/ MILITARY AND SOUTH DAKOTA
I went through all the things necessary to become a member of the US Air Force, and was stationed at Ellsworth AFB, South Dakota. I immediately had my mother and little sister move in with me. There, after a "sprucing up" lets say in Tech School by a good friend (Vic, your still my bro man.) who taught me how to dress, act, dance and socialize, I moved into what will forever be known as "Acehood". I got that nickname for the way I was able to dance and it stuck with me. Rob Ace, was born.
I had never dated in High School. Yeah a few girls I was friends with, but overall I never even kissed a girl until Tech School in the Air Force. Her name was Katie, I still remember her. But after that taste, and my new attitude and confidence I was on overload. After the first Persian Gulf war (Operation Desert Storm) had to get out of the military due to some medical issues which make sense now, but did not then. I dated A LOT of women, hung out with a lot of right and wrong people. I made a lot of bad choices and combining bad choices and the wrong people, landed me in the county jail at one time for 30 days. I went through some tough times for a while, which wound up finding me homeless and wearing everything I owned, sleeping under Interstate 90 in South Dakota...in November.
Finally a good friend (you all know him as Arstine) and his grandmother (my adoptive grandmother) saw there was good in me and took me into their home. There I cleaned myself up, stopped hanging out with the wrong people, went to college and finally made something more of myself. Finally in 1995 after growing up a lot, my family convinced I was no longer someone that would hurt those around him, I moved to North Carolina where my brother and his wife were.

ADULT LIFE/NORTHCAROLINA
I moved to North Carolina, and settled into a relatively normal life. I had a good job, had a good life and really dived into the internet posting on AOL, on USENET and of course on the newsgroups. I made a lot of friends back then, and I feel bad that I lost touch with a lot of them. I was going by Ace919 at this time pretty much, and even had several of my earliest stories put on several websites. I was not dating as much when I got to North Carolina, but I was more into my fetish and was very open about it. I was lucky to have those I dated have no problem with it which on one hand made finding women a little more difficult, but the relationships were better when I had them....well for the most part.
In September of 1999 I met...HER. She got pregnant in October, we married in December. I was in love with her. A lot. Even now, though I make fun of it, it still hurts. I guess that is how I get over the pain. But more on that later. In July of 2000...my first daughter was born. I was finally happy. I had everything I thought I ever wanted, until September of 2002 when my second daughter was born. Then I knew I had everything I wanted. But then things were not good between me and HER. She was constantly lying, abusive (punched me several times, not in a good way....out of anger), and treated me badly. But I didn't care at that time. I was loyal and I married her and as long as I had my little ones, I could withstand anything. But in March of 2005, I had been out of work since the previous November, HER started wondering why I wasn't working (though she had asked to work and for me to stay home and watch the kids) and why I was saying I was in pain all the time. This strained our relationship, with me constantly in pain and no idea why. Finally in September HER told me that HER could no longer deal with my condition and she wanted a husband that could take care of her and so, she left me and took the kids...and I had no where to go except back to my brother and sister in law.
ADULT LIFE/GEORGIA
Well I moved back in with my brother and sister in law, and though I was diagnosed with a neurological disorder of unknown nature in May 2005 (which HER did not believe, she thought I was making it up or it was only in my head) things went downhill fast. There was periods of time I could not sleep for days because of the pain, I was in a wheelchair, and I was deteriorating fast. Finally a neurologist in Athens started pinpointing what my problem was and I began treatments. I still had a lot of pain that would never stop because of my nerves being constantly inflamed, but the treatments allowed me to work again and feel a lot better. In late in 2006 HER had run into a lot of trouble with the law and other issues and my children came to live with me. It was at this point I realized how happy I was without her and the pain, while still there is not as much as it once was. I love my children. They are the reason I worked so hard, endured the pain and treatments and still do. For them. I was blessed to have them in the first place, and have put them first in my heart and in my life. Finally last year it was determined what was wrong with me. It was determined I have what is known commonly now as "Persian Gulf Syndrome". I have pretty much all the symptoms and they say it was caused by the medication we were given before we went to Iraq, and some of the things we dealt with there. So now I am at least being financially taken care of and medically taken care of.

MY LIFE NOW
Well, here I am at 36. Not where I thought I would be. But I am doing the best I can, so my kids can have everything they need. I miss them terribly and honestly, I am lonely most of the time nowadays. Its difficult to find someone to share your life with, I had that once. And now I find it harder being a divorced dad of 2, with a medical condition. I have friends, I have ladies I socialize with, but its not the same to have that one person who you can laugh, cry, and grow old with. I do treasure the forum here. Since 2006 I have become a lot more active in the community and NHLee in 2008 was other than the birth of my children, the greatest experience of my life. It opened me up more to some wonderful people who accept me for who I am. Annoying as I can be, as TALKATIVE as I can be, and as insane as I can be, people here in the TMF showed me that all I have to be is me, and that they will accept my annoying, loud, chatty and not always there in the head self.

One of the greatest things I do is host Robace Radio on TMF Radio. It allows me to give everyone a little part of myself. And as long as I can make one person laugh, I feel I did a great show. The show is not about me, even though it is called Robace Radio. Kind of weird now that I think about it. But the show is just a way that I can give back to the community that gives me so much. It allows me to explore all those creative ideas I have in my head, while at the same time make some new friends I didn't have before.

On a personal level I volunteer a lot, I work with other Vets, at the DAV and VFW. I serve holdiay meals to vets and the families of those overseas. Also I go to military bases, where I still have great contacts and help with meals, serve the meals and distribute toys to the children of our soldiers serving overseas. It keeps me connected to my military family, and something I do because I love it and love them. Seeing other happy children takes the sting out of not having mine around all the time.


I said this in another thread, and it bears repeating. To me wealth is not measured by what you have, but by who you have. And if wealth today were measured by friends, I would be richest man on Earth right now, thanks to this community.

Thank you for reading this, my 7,000th post, and leave any questions or comments, and I promise to answer every single one.

Rob
 
Nicely done. There's a lot here. It makes me think of how well I have had things over the years. Thank you and good luck!
 
Thanks Kurch, I am honored as well.

Thanks Unit. And best luck to you as well. I will read your tomorrow, i just stopped in real quick before bed...I IZ tired.

Rob
 
Rob muthafuckin Ace!!! My nig... ah wait not quite. My Latin brother!! GREAT profile. You should've grazed that heifer's ass with a bullet for the mess she put you through. Like Chris Rock said, "It ain't right, but I understand."
 
Rob, it's a shame you have had to suffer through so much, but you are a wonderful person. I do look forward to your show every week. Your girls seem absolutely lovely as well and they are lucky to have such a good dad. :snow:
 
Thanks for sharing Roberto. As you said for me, I learned some new things about you. Good stuff man!
 
Great profile, Rob. You have been through alot and have become a better person for it. I'm glad to have you as a friend. Stay cool!
 
Very Epical Profile Rob! Nice to have a glimpse into your life.

I'm with you on the wealth thing. People matter so much more! It's really all about the ones that matter most to you and love. When you figure that out, it sure does makes everything else seem smaller.

Seem as though you have been through alot & I know life sure has a way of cutting people down to size.
Your definitely a stronger person for it. You can go through alot of what you have and not become that way.
Keep fighting the good fight & one day when you least expect it things will work out!


Thanks for sharing pieces of yourself with us! 🙂

-Chey
 
WOW! Srsly wow. I just learned a WHOLE lot about you, and now you make sense to me! LOL.






Rob you are awesome. (even if you do like to hear yourself talk! LOL)


:twohugs:


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Great profile Rob. It's good to have you around.
 
Rob muthafuckin Ace!!! My nig... ah wait not quite. My Latin brother!! GREAT profile. You should've grazed that heifer's ass with a bullet for the mess she put you through. Like Chris Rock said, "It ain't right, but I understand."
As many times as I joke about it, or even when I am angry with her....I could never hurt her. Because to hurt her would hurt my kids, and I couldn't live with myself. Even though she can be an awful person, I know if it came down to it and she needed something...I would help. I could never look my kids in the eyes if I could have helped their mom and didn't. That's the difference between her and I. She could toss me aside without a second thought, while I could never do that, because she is the mother of my kids.

But...........I suppose I could shoot her in the ass with a bb-gun. :fingerscrossed:
Thanks for the smile though Tomskee..I needed it!


Rob, it's a shame you have had to suffer through so much, but you are a wonderful person. I do look forward to your show every week. Your girls seem absolutely lovely as well and they are lucky to have such a good dad.
Its actually ok. Everything I have been through has made me who I am. Without a lot of the past experiences I would have never been strong enough to handle what I am going through now. No matter how bad it gets I always remember those nights sleeping under the interstate with no food, no warmth, no anything.....and what I go through now does not seem anywhere as bad. Thanks for the kind words Mel.


Thanks for sharing Roberto. As you said for me, I learned some new things about you. Good stuff man!
Thanks K-Dogg. Always glad to share.

Great profile, Rob. You have been through alot and have become a better person for it. I'm glad to have you as a friend. Stay cool!
Thanks Big G! You are right, I have grown into who I am supposed to be and I do have all of my past to thank for it!

Very Epical Profile Rob! Nice to have a glimpse into your life.

I'm with you on the wealth thing. People matter so much more! It's really all about the ones that matter most to you and love. When you figure that out, it sure does makes everything else seem smaller.

Seem as though you have been through alot & I know life sure has a way of cutting people down to size.
Your definitely a stronger person for it. You can go through alot of what you have and not become that way.
Keep fighting the good fight & one day when you least expect it things will work out!


Thanks for sharing pieces of yourself with us!

-Chey
Thank you for the kind words Chey. I'll keep fighting, cause its what I know best, well that and humor....I think. :juggle:

WOW! Srsly wow. I just learned a WHOLE lot about you, and now you make sense to me! LOL.

Rob you are awesome. (even if you do like to hear yourself talk! LOL)
I make sense to you now? Tell you what, bottle it and sell it! You'll make a small fortune. Lots of people out there wish I made sense to them.
Thanks glam.... you are a sweetie. :happyfloa

Great profile Rob. It's good to have you around.
Thanks kered. Its good to be around and to know your around also.

Rob
 
awesome profile rob, i admire that you have been through so much but still seem to have such a good outlook on life.. the forum is a better place because of you:clap:
 
Hey there Sunshine....
wow a deep look into a day in the life of ROBACE !!!! you are a wonderful man and human being... kind brave and selfless.... I pray for you with the pain you go through.. I have had my back surgery but still have excruciating pain at times.. like tonight.. that is why I am up at 3 am... also I commend you for your volunteer work... I also volunteer for the seniors here in Helen that cant cook for themselves or cant afford it.. every holiday I prepare meals then deliver to them... I also volunteer for Hospice... I really would like for us to get together and have lunch one of these days so we can chat!!!! You are fun and probably talk as much as I do!!! hahaahahahaa.... Thanks for letting us... Your TMF family into your life... Love ya man!!!!!!:imouttahe and A BIG ROUND OF APPLAUSE FOR BEING AN AWESOME DAD.... your kids are truly blessed....
 
Believe me, Robace, it doesn't matter whether you have a profile or not, but I was compelled to read it. So many eye opening realities and yet you have spoken spontaneously. It's great to read about the person behind the radio. 😀

It now reinforced that sense of humor is talent. After some sadness you have expressed in the past threads, I never doubted and always thought you're a walking comedy android. 😀 😀 😛

More power to Robace Radio! As one of it's supporter, you know that it is a show worth listening to.
 
awesome profile rob, i admire that you have been through so much but still seem to have such a good outlook on life.. the forum is a better place because of you
Thank you punkrockergirl, your words mean a lot to me. :cuddle:

Hey there Sunshine....
wow a deep look into a day in the life of ROBACE !!!! you are a wonderful man and human being... kind brave and selfless.... I pray for you with the pain you go through.. I have had my back surgery but still have excruciating pain at times.. like tonight.. that is why I am up at 3 am... also I commend you for your volunteer work... I also volunteer for the seniors here in Helen that cant cook for themselves or cant afford it.. every holiday I prepare meals then deliver to them... I also volunteer for Hospice... I really would like for us to get together and have lunch one of these days so we can chat!!!! You are fun and probably talk as much as I do!!! hahaahahahaa.... Thanks for letting us... Your TMF family into your life... Love ya man!!!!!! and A BIG ROUND OF APPLAUSE FOR BEING AN AWESOME DAD.... your kids are truly blessed....
Iris, thank you so much for your kind words. Best to you always.

Believe me, Robace, it doesn't matter whether you have a profile or not, but I was compelled to read it. So many eye opening realities and yet you have spoken spontaneously. It's great to read about the person behind the radio.

It now reinforced that sense of humor is talent. After some sadness you have expressed in the past threads, I never doubted and always thought you're a walking comedy android.

More power to Robace Radio! As one of it's supporter, you know that it is a show worth listening to.
Bo sweetie, I in no way think my humor as a talent compared to yours, but I am honored to know that you think that way. Thank you for your kind words, Ill do my best to keep it up.

Rob
 
I see that you chose to leave out two jobs that I think you should have mentioned. I feel that they both contribute to who you are now and should be in your profile.

The first is was your run at being a male stripper. While the women liked looking at you, you just didn't make any money at it. I think that's because when you got close to take a tip the overwhelming smell of tacos scared them off.

The second was your very short lived career as a window washer. I know you got fired after only one day but really, did you have to use your ass as a squeegee because you forgot yours at home?
 
Gee Rob, now I feel bad about making fun of you about you rubbing your ass all over windows. *ick* I threw up in my mouth a little bit. :sigh:
 
Ya make more sense t'me. Already wanted t'like ya, and find some sympathetic occurrences in our worlds.

That Krazy speaks well of ya says volumes, too, brer.

Thanks fer sharin', man. Lookin' forward t'meetin' ya, hopefully at NEST. Eventually, anyway. Life's long, you ain't goin' anywhere quickly, and there's LOTS of opps.
 
First off, Arstine.....HAHAHAHA you bastard.

Secondly, Sandrock....stop visualizing it..you pervert.

Lastly......dvnc, I am looking forward to meeting you at NEST. I will be there unless the earth folds into itself before then or the sun swallows the earth.

Gonna be a great 4 days in Philly. I can't wait.

Rob
 
Wow man, a really nice descriptive profile, and an honest one at that. I am impressed. It's been good getting to know you, my friend. 🙂
 
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